Wednesday 31 October 2012

For some time now, star actor, Kenneth Okonkwo, who played the movie role of ‘Andy’ in the popular movie ‘Living in Bondage’ has not been seen in most movies as he used to in thepast. What Nigeriafilms.com can confirm to you is that the prolificactor has added the gospel of soul winning for God to his already acquired two professions;acting and law profession. The actor surprised many when he was seen at a lawyers’ forum fewyears ago. Now, Kenneth has shown that aside from acting and law practice, he is a good Evangelist; a fisher of men for God. KennethOkonkwo recently headlined a 3-day crusade held in Ikorodu, Lagos as a guest minister of God of the event. The '3-Day Explosive Fire and Total Deliverance' crusade was tagged ‘Night of Dominion’ and was held between September 26-28. 2012. The service took place at Evangelist Peter Nwabueze’s Christ Mission Worldwide Church, Owode Onirin, Ikorodu Lagos. Liz Benson, Pat Attah, Eucharia Anunobi are the few actors who have become 'fishers of men', will Kenneth dump acting to facethe God's minister full time? Or will he keep doing the three professions? ACTOR ARINZE OKONKWO ANDWIFE IFEOMA

Tuesday 30 October 2012

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Oct 29, 2012 – Toni Payne Blasts KSolo For Denying Child- ‘Have Some Compassion’ 9ice ex-wife, Toni Payne has broken her silence over the ongoing domestic violence issue Kikelomo Oyeniyi , the estranged wife of Nigerian music producer, Ksolo is passing through. www.naijagists.com Last week Kikelomo excitedly announced her baby delivery via her twitter page and within hoursof her announcement, KSolo released a message blasting Kikelomo and her fans over the child. He allegedly disowned the innocent child. Today, Toni Payne who appeared upset over the issue sent a message across to KSolo : In her own words below. No matter what is going on between u and whomever. U never let it extend to an innocentchild. Ksolo! FAK!!! As in! I’m perplexed. Utter disrespect that absurd people are even congratulating for what? Immaturity, wickedness of the highest order My last two retweets! one day that child will grow up. Let’s hope his words remain the same I wouldn’t wish my worst enemy go thru wo that lady is going thru immediately after giving birth. S**! Have some d…. compassion! Ksolo should stop insulting our intelligence. That picture I saw with blood all over her face isn’t MAKEUP!! Own up and get HELP

Saturday 27 October 2012

Nigerian Desperate To Leave The Country Found DeadIn Arik Airplane’s Undercarriage

It is really sad that the desperation to leave the country in search of what many would call greener pastures has led them to their death. Today, we have been shocked with the newsof the dead body of a young Nigerian man found in the wheel well, the undercarriage compartment of an Arik Air aircraft, after it returned from a flight to New York, United States. One of the airline’s officials told This Day that the deceased might have hidden himself in the wheel well for days and was crushed to death while the flight was airborne to the JF Kennedy Airport, New York, from the Murtala Muhammed International Airport, Lagos. He added that the dead body was found during a check on the aircraft panel as it was being prepared for another flight and that the undercarriage compartment of the Airbus A340-500 is big enough to accommodate a person, besides the space for the tyres. It seems ridiculous for someone to think he or she can hide in thewheel well of an aircraft while theplane is flying, doesn’t it? The source further said that it is out of ignorance that people hide in the wheel well and plan to stowaway because “the compartment is not pressurised like the cabin of an aircraft and itis not heated, so survival is rare even if the person is not crushed by the wheels.” Pilots and aeronautical engineers familiar with the wheel well compartment said it is roomy enough to contain a human being, but it is highly unlikely thatany one who hid there would come out alive after a flight that took several hours due to lack of oxygen. The official attributed the incidentto porous security at the airport, noting that “if having access to the airside is stringently prohibited, anybody that is not anofficial of airlines, handling companies and Federal Airports Authority of Nigeria would not gain access to the tarmac.” Further investigations by ThisDay revealed that stowaways connive with ground handling companies to access the airside and the wheel well. In March 2010, a Nigerian, Okechukwu Okeke was found dead in the nose wheel compartment of the United Statescarrier, Delta Airline, Boeing B777aircraft parked on the tarmac of the Lagos airport. We have heard of people travelling through the desert, trying to enter foreign countries by road and other means. But this sounds to risky to even be considered. We don’t know what might have pushed him to do thisor how he even got there, but wepray that his soul shall Rest in Peace. He's looking for peace he found death. .....R.I.P.....

Adewale Ayuba Beaten By Mobile Policemen (Mopol) In Ibadan For Coming Late To Show

Oct 27, 2012 - Adewale Ayuba Beaten By Mobile Policemen (Mopol) In Ibadan For Coming Late To Show Adewale Ayuba , a top Nigerian Fuji Musician got the shock of hislife after he was beaten mercilessly by some mobile policemen ( mopol ) in Ibadan onFriday Oct 26, 2012. According to reports from reliable sources, Adewale Ayuba came late to an event he was paid for and on getting there, a top Ibadan socialite who contracted the Fuji star ordered Mobile policemen to batter him. Adewale Ayuba was immediatelyapprehended by the Mopol and beaten to stupor. He was rescued by the quick intervention of guests who begged for his release. What an injustice! Stay in touch for update on this developing news.

Celestial Church Prophetess Folashade Esther Ogunseye Sets Ablaze As Trance Celebration Turned Sour

Oct 27, 2012 – Celestial Church Prophetess Folashade Esther Ogunseye Sets Ablaze As Trance Celebration Turned Sour Before her ordeal, Prophetess Folashade Esther Ogunseye of the Celestial Church Genesis Model Parish Agbado , Ogun state was a beautiful woman. www.naijagists.com The 30-year-old woman who nowwears a frightening look fell into a trance for 7 days in July, 2012 and warned her church membersnot to celebrate the spiritual feat for her. Contrary to her request of not celebrating her feat, the excited church members who insisted on celebrating her prepared food and dragged her to the church where they danced round her to celebrate her spiritual achievement. During the celebration, a church worker identified as Elijah allegedly sprayed perfume knownin celestial parlance as Ona La onthe dancers without taking cognizance of lighted candles which some of them were holding. Alas the perfume caught fire and Sade was set ablaze along with three other members whohad joined in the celebration. Apastor in the church who had come to rescue them was also affected by the fire. However, Sade was the worst-hit as she suffered severe burns. So the once delectable Sade has been turned to a monster of sort. Prophetess Folashade Esther while speaking at her residence, No 77 Osopitan bus-stop, Agbadorecently, the Abeokuta-born single lady said she was still at a loss as to why such a terrible fatebefell her even as she blamed her church members for her predicament. “I had warned them not to celebrate the trance for me; that I didn’t want noise. Rather, I asked them to pray for me silently, but they refused. This was not the first time I would be going into a trance; the ill-fated one happened to be my fourth. Aside this, I warned Elijah not to pour perfume on me, but hedidn’t listen, see what has happened now,” she lamented. According to her, the fire incidentmight also be a spiritual attack from the enemies of somebody she prayed for while in the spirit. “Maybe, I prayed for somebody when I was in the spirit and the thing now bounced back on me during the celebration,” she added. Immediately after the incident, Sade and other victims of the fire were rushed to a private hospital near the church from where they were taken to the General Hospital, Orile-Agege the following day for a better medical attention from where they were later discharged. However, while others have made considerable progress and have since returned to the church, Sade could not because of the severity of her condition . She said: “I cannot do anything asI am. I always feel hot. My neck isalways paining me. I can’t wear my clothes. I cannot sleep unless the fan is on. My neck region is always paining me. I have to put ice-block or pour cold water on myself to reduce the heat. For how long will I do this?” Although she commended the shephered in charge of the church, Prophet Oladele Ogundipe and other members of the church for taking very good care of her since the incident occurred, she sought the support of other well-meaning Nigerians to restore her to her former position. “My church has been so wonderful to me. The shepherd, his mum, the church patron and other members of the church have promised to help me. But I don’t know what will happen tomorrow. Nobody will be ready to marry me in my present condition. I’m not even comfortable with myself. This is why I am appealing to members of the public to join my church inassisting me to get over my present condition,” she added. She is to blame for her predicament- Shepherd- In- Charge. Meanwhile, the Shepherd-In- Charge of the church, Prophet Ogundipe absolved himself of any blame in the incident, claiming Sade should be held responsible for her present predicament. According to him, she and other members ofthe church who joined in the celebration went against the rules and regulation of the church. “In the Celestial church, there is nothing like trance or going to the mountains for seven days. In our church, we don’t do any trance celebration, we don’t goto streams or the bush; we arenot fetish and we don’t do anything barbaric. I have always warned all church members to steer clear of anything that is not in the vision of the church,” he added. Though he said he and the chairman of the church were not around on the fateful day, he gave an account of what must have caused the fire: “People have been saying it was a strange fire but there is nothing like that. It was the perfume that was poured on her that caught fire because of the lighted candle at the altar. This is a lesson to everybody that if they want to employ anybody, they should notemploy an illiterate because they would not know how to handle things.”

Friday 26 October 2012

May D dares PSquare? performs Chop my money at Felabration

May D may or may not know what he has done; but the tides are already heating up and soon, there may be just another messy war between him and Square records barely two months after he was dropped by the label. At Felabration 2012 held recently at the New Afrika Shrine, Akinmayokun May D Awodumila was one of the selected artistes toperform and indeed he performed. May D threw caution to the wind and stormed the stage with P Square’s Do as I do which featured Tiwa Savage and himself. He didn’t stop there as he went quickly into his award winning single Soundtrack before diving headlong into Chop my Money. May D wrapped up his act with his hit single Ile Ijo. In all of P Square’s songs performed on this night, May D didn’t stick to his lines, rather, he took the entire songs from start to finish. The crowd, however, didn’t seem to notice or perhaps were not bothered as they hollered and danced away the entire time. Square Records boss Jude Engees Okoye had in a statement issued August this year, announced that the label was severing ties with May D due to irreconcilable differences. A month later, May Dlaunched his own label Confam Entertainment. His single Soundtrack fetched himthe ‘Best R&B Single’ award at The Headies this year. SOURCE: Vanguard Nigeria

Sunday 21 October 2012

Nigerian Prostitutes:Our Services Save Women From Rapé In Sharia States

One would think that the sharia states are spared from one of the oldest professions known to man – prostitution. This story, culled from the Tribune, gives a glimpse into how the trade in thefemale “body” is practiced in Kano State. According to the author, in the streets of Kano, the ‘sellers of sex’ humour themselves with the name ‘student’; and their areas of operation are Enugu road, Abedie, Sanigiwa, Warri, Club, Onitsha, Yoruba roads, etc. They operate in key hotels in these areas. Some of the ladies who were interviewed had lamented how the security situation in the Northern state had badly affected their business. However,more interestingly, they had proudly claimed the importance of their services in the sharia state, saying if not for them casesof molest would be rife insharia states. One of them had this to say: “One thing I want you to know isthat, we ‘students’ also have our own advantage to the community. If not because of ourservices, most women and ladies could have ended up being molestd, but the good side of it is that any man that needs ‘quickservice’, will come to us and this will automatically discourage himfrom engaging in molest which could land them in jail.”

Rihanna’s Father Wants Her To MarryChris Brown, Gives His Blessings

Oct 19, 2012 – Rihanna’s Father Wants Her To Marry Chris Brown, Gives His Blessings While Rihanna recently announced that she was readyto release another album, she has been less vocal about her relationship status with Chris Brown . However, her father has not onlygiven his blessing for them to be together, but he has also said hewants them to get married. Rihanna, 24, has reportedly reconciled with ex boyfriend Chris, even though he is still on probation for attacking herin February 2009. Her father Ronald Fenty does not hold any grudges against Brown, 23, and has gone as farto say that he hopes they will tie the knot at some point in the future. Speaking to Life & Style magazinehe said: ‘Whatever makes her happy. I hope one day she will get married. Everyone adores Chris, he’s a super guy. ‘The family loved Chris Brown before they met him. I always thought he was extremely talented. He is a good person and always gave me great respect.’ A friend close to Chris told Hollywoodlife how the former lovers have found happiness with each other again. They said: ‘They’re riding high right now, you feel me, enjoying they lives and happy to be back in each others arms. ‘It’s true love and it stood the test of time. You know it’s real. It can’t be anything else. They done gone through hell and back together and I’m happy for both of them.’ Unfortunately, not everybody is happy about the reconciliation, with some of Rihanna’s camp expressing worry over Chris’s past actions. A source said: ‘I wouldn’t be surprised if she married him just to show that she and Chris don’tcare what anyone thinks and cando whatever they want. ‘It’s kind of scary. Their reconciliation has already upset her friends and management. They’re an explosive combination.’ Rihanna didn’t let the current drama in her life put her off her work as she arrived at a Los Angeles studio at 2am, ready to record some music. The Rude Boy singer dressed casually in adidas tracksuit bottoms and wore grey jumper with black trainers. She also cryptically tweeted: ‘I found the one, he changed mylife…But was it me that changed and he just happenedto come at the right time?#UNAPOLOGETIC’. (Source: Daily mail UK)

Mikel Obi: Why I Started Record Label, MMM Records (Matured Money Minds)

Oct 22, 2012 - Mikel Obi: Why I Started Record Label, MMM Records (Matured Money Minds) Popular Nigerian footballer and Chelsea Midfielder John Mikel Obi who started a brand new Music production Record label tagged MMM Records has revealed why he started the label . www.naijagists.com Mikel Obi claims he started Matured Money Minds because he has a passion for music. ‘ Apart from football, music is another thing I had passion forwhile I was growing up in Jos. Ihave so much emotional attachment to music. It lifts my soul and makes me happy. The arrival of MMM Records (Matured Money Minds) has gone a long way to show the deep love I have for music. I want to contribute my little quota to the growth of the music industry in Nigeria. I’m agood song writer and singer. IfI wasn’t a footballer, I would have done well as a singer or a disc jockey (DJ) ‘ – said John Mikel Obi

Thursday 18 October 2012

Ugochukwu Ozuah: Widow recounts five days as wife

BY EVELYN USMAN WIDOW OF the 36-year-old engineer who was allegedly shotdead by policemen five days after his wedding in Gbagada area of Lagos, Mrs. Joan Ugochukwu Ozuah, has described her shortest experience as a wife with her late husband as the best days ofher life. This is just as members of the bereaved family currently await the outcome of the Special Investigative team set up by the Inspector- General of Police, Mr.Mohammed Abubakar to unravel the circumstances surrounding the late engineer’s death and bring the perpetrators to book. Recalling the incident of September 20, 2012, which truncated her joy, Joan in a written tribute at a memorial service held in honour of her late husband, Wednesday evening at the King’s College , Lagos, where the deceased obtained his Senior Secondary School Certificate in year 1993, described her late husband as her friend, brother and mentor. The couple on their wedding day. The widow, who is yet to come to terms with the demise of her husband, stated in her tribute: “Sweet, so it is true that you areno more. I can’t believe that youhave gone so soon. You were my husband, my brother, my friend and mentor. “I can’t forget that fateful night of September 20, when the police shot you in the chest and left you to die in cold blood. “Baby love, you were a caring, loving, God-fearing, calm and a thoughtful husband.”

Kemi Adetiba, Maltina DanceHall Host Arrested By EFCC Over N15m Fraud

Oct 18, 2012 – Kemi Adetiba, Maltina DanceHall Host Arrested By EFCC Over N15m Fraud Kemi Adetiba , the host of Maltina DanceHall reality TV show by Nigerian Breweries Plc has been arrested by Economic & Financial Crimes Commission, EFCC over 15 million naira fraud. www.naijagists.com Kemi Adetiba was arrested for allegedly defrauding a church in Gbagada , Lagos of the aforementioned sum. The TV personality who has beenscandal-free for some time now is in a messy fraud which might likely end her career. According to a reliable source, an individual entrusted N15 million into her care in order to help a non governmental organization in the church to handle some production deal which she never did. As at the time of this report, details of the shady deal is still unclear. Kemi Adetiba has been arrested and taken to EFCC office in Okoti-Eboh Street in Ikoyi, Lagos. The Ekiti born star who can’t speak Yoruba reportedly begged EFCC officials to allow her to host Maltina DanceHall Season6 and promised to sort out the debt after the show. We also gathered Kemi invited her aged father to plead with EFCC to allow her to host the upcoming show.

‘How Super Eagles star turned 13-year-old into sex slave’

Tina Okpara , the 13-year-old teenage girl who was reported to be serially raped by former Super Eagles defender Godwin Okpara has released a book, detailing how the sexual assault went on for two years. In the book titled ‘ My life has a Price ‘, Tina narrates her life as a rape victim; being adopted at the age of 13 by the footballer Godwin and his wife Linda in France. In 2008, the Opkaras were charged to court for maltreating Tina for five years. Godwin was sentenced to 10 years while his wife Linda faced 15 years. In an interview with The News magazine, Tina says her decision to write the book seven years after she regained freedom, aims at ‘raising awareness and helping other girls who might be going through the same horrendous experience’. ‘ One day, I told myself thatif I refused testifying, other girls will continue to experience modern slavery ’, she said ‘ The day she spat it on my face that schooling was notfor me because I was too stupid, I lost all hope. These notebook s were used to dump all my sorrow, all my hatred for Linda. It was my lifeline and my friend ,’ she added. The 188-page book, originally written in French,has just been translated into English. Godwin is currently serving a 10-year jail term while hiswife Linda is serving 15 years.

Annie Macaulay On 2Face Idibia – He’s The Most Supportive HusbandIn The World

Oct 18, 2012 – Annie Macaulay On 2Face Idibia – He’s The Most Supportive Husband In The World Annie Macaulay who recently tied the nuptial knot with AfricanQueen Crooner, Tuface Idibia inLagos State Nigeria has opened up on her exciting marriage withthe star.www.naijagists.com In this latest interview with Encomium, here is what Annie said about 2face: “ I had butterflies in my stomach the morning after 2face proposed to me. I couldn’t believe I would finallymarry the only man I have ever loved. Being Mrs Idibia has been beautiful. It’s everything I expected and much more. I am married to the most understanding and supportive husband in the world “ The couple which started their relationship back in 1998 have a beautiful daughter together. Annie is currently pregnant expecting her second bundle of joy

Tuesday 16 October 2012

‘How Super Eagles star turned 13-year-old into sex slave’

Tina Okpara , the 13-year-old teenage girl who was reported to be serially raped by former Super Eagles defender Godwin Okpara has released a book, detailing how the sexual assault went on for two years. In the book titled ‘ My life has a Price ‘, Tina narrates her life as a rape victim; being adopted at the age of 13 by the footballer Godwin and his wife Linda in France. In 2008, the Opkaras were charged to court for maltreating Tina for five years. Godwin was sentenced to 10 years while his wife Linda faced 15 years. In an interview with The News magazine, Tina says her decision to write the book seven years after she regained freedom, aims at ‘raising awareness and helping other girls who might be going through the same horrendous experience’. ‘ One day, I told myself thatif I refused testifying, other girls will continue to experience modern slavery ’, she said ‘ The day she spat it on my face that schooling was notfor me because I was too stupid, I lost all hope. These notebook s were used to dump all my sorrow, all my hatred for Linda. It was my lifeline and my friend ,’ she added. The 188-page book, originally written in French,has just been translated into English. Godwin is currently serving a 10-year jail term while hiswife Linda is serving 15 years.

Boko Haram Condemns Aluu Killings: This Is PureWickedness – Spokesman Laments

Oct 13, 2012 – Boko Haram Condemns Aluu Killings: This IsPure Wickedness – SpokesmanLaments Killer Jihadist sect, Boko Haram has broken its silence over the murder of 4 Uniport students last week’s Friday. www.naijagists.com In a statement, Boko Haram’s spokesman said: “ This is pure wickedness “ The sect advised law enforcement officials to ensure justice is carried out. Boko Haram also denied any involvement in the killing of over 40 students at Mubi and Adamawa State University. We have no business with students politics because they’re not our main target. – said the spokesman Boko Haram vs Aluu 4 Killers – Who better pass ? Very ironic

Friday 12 October 2012

Oge Chikero AttacksTerry G's Image

One of the entertainment writersrecently took on the image of Terry G, why it will be a difficult task getting any serious brand for Terry G. Read on, "Brands are handled byspecialists! These Specialists want to key the brands they are managing into big brands with huge value adding potentials. Nobrand wants to be associated with poverty, low lives, drunkardsor marijuana smokers! It is a classthing. These professionals know that image is everything so you don’t toil with how people see you. They also know that the maxim that says “show me your friends and I can tell who you are” is 100 percent correct so they run these big brands with these laws making sure they don’t associate their brands with brands that pass wrong messages. Unfortunately Terry G has failed woefully in this area of his musical career which is very key in today’s entertainment set up world over. The likes of Tuface, Psquare, Dbanj, Sammy Okposo, BasketMouth, even Davido who just arrived are making humongous income through brand endorsements. The fact is, Terry G is meant to be among Nigerian musicians milking the new wave of celebrityincome generation- brand endorsements. He commands huge attention in the Nigerian music industry especially when you look at the fact that we are now in a global attention driven economy . Terry G has the swag and huge influence needed to make any product or service popular in thispart of the world but he has ignorantly modeled his brand to represent “Agberos” and no sane brand wants to be associated with that kind of personality. He can’t even get lucky with Dry Gin companies because they are also after class. When Terry G went to NowMusic, I thanked God because I know they could have helped repackage him but again his stubborn self worked against him, he didn’t last with the NowMusic family! Its a pity. The only solution is to re brand by re-inventing himself into a new and more commercial brandthat makes him appealing to the corporate headquarters of big multinationals like MTN, NigerianBreweries, Guinness, Globacom, AirTel etc. Its good that he has shaved his dreadlocks but that’s the physicalstep, he has to also shave it psychologically too so his fans can see a matured Terry G who does a brand of music that has meaning and commands respect!" Oge said.

At Last D'Banj Confirms His Illuminati Status Story by Babajide Ogunbumi

High flying Nigerian musician D’Banj together with music icon 2face Idibia paid a visit to Lagos based Beat FM. And speaking onthe radio program anchored by veteran On-air personality, Olisa Odibua the singer of. Oliver Twistthough confirmed that Illuminati truly exists but he will never join such devilish group. Mr. Endowed denied ever being a member of Illuminati or any other secret cult for that matter. He went ahead to show who wasreally the boss at the defunct MoHits Record by claiming that it was his record label D’Banj (DB) Records that has partnership with Kanye West’s G.O.O.D and not Mo'Hit

Princess Chineke: I'm Engaged But Still Searching

Nollywood actress and super model, Princess Chineke, productof New York Film Academy, who has featured in many movies andsoap operas such as Ladies Cult, Tarima, Papa Ajasco, Bola’s Place,Echoes, Heroes and Zeroes, Rebound (shot in USA), Cut in the Middle,Where the Heart Lies,Courtesy of Vengeance, and Prize of Stardom has announced that she can still go with any man that catches her fancy even as she is engaged. "A man should guide you in achieving your dream. I met a guy sometimes ago who insisted Ileave the movie industry and work in the bank. It is selfish. Does he know if it is what I wanted to do? I see it as a prison. The woman too should be able to bring out the best in her man. My ideal man I’m not sure I’ve met my ideal man. You might think you have seen him and he changes. People change. Even the woman can change. I am stillscrutinizing. Even if I’m engaged, as long as I’m not married, I’m still searching. I am not really a feminist. But I have a strong passion for the feminine gender."These were her words.

‘I didn’t write any song for Mikel Obi’, 2face finally clears the air By Osagie Alonge

2face says Obi is a ‘wonderful and talented footballer’ At his ‘ Buckwyld and Breathless ’ concert on Monday, 2face Idibia finally cleared the air on his relationship with Super Eagles and Chelsea FC midfielder Mikel Obi . 2face was about performing his hit song ‘Only me’ when he pausedthe live band set and askedeveryone to listen up… ‘ They say I wrote this song (Only me) for Mikel. I did not do this song for Mikel Obi. Mikel Obi is a wonderful and talented footballer. So please stop spreading the rumours ’. In 2010, the news surfaced stating that 2face had recorded ‘ Only me ’ to spiteMikel Obi after the latter reportedly shunned the pop singer in a UK club. The story was fuelled by the lyrics of the song; eventhough Idibia mentioned no names.. But in a recent exclusive interview with NET , 2face said ‘ It’s just some people who know how to spread rumours, I need to meet the person that started therumour because it really travelled ’.

BRIDE DEMANDS NEW CAR BEFORE WEDDING IN KADUNA.

5 hours 24 minutes ago A 40-year-old-man, Mohammed Abubakar of Hayin Rigasa, Thursday, brought his bride-to-be, Umulkair Ja’afar, before a Shari’a Court in Magajin Gari, Kaduna, for alleged assault and intimidation. He told the court that arrangement for the wedding had gone far, when Umulkair told him that he must buy her a car before the ceremony could hold. He said: “We have started making arrangement of getting married, but she requested that Imust buy a car for her before she will marry me. “I told her that I don’t have the money because I just bought my new car.” Abubakar further told the court that his inability to buy a car for Umulkair ended the wedding arrangement. He told the court: “After this development, the woman startedsending insulting and intimidatingtext messages to me.” He said he had witnesses, who would testify on the issue. “I have shown them the messages she has been sending to me. I want to bring them before the court to testify,” he added. The Presiding Officer, Ibrahim Inuwa, adjourned the case to October 18, for the continuation of hearing.

Thursday 4 October 2012

DEFINITION OF LIFE by Sir Rhema Hills

When you live in the dark,you can never see any goodthing. Come out of that darkness, Even when its not possible,create a light cos you are the light of the world. In otherwords,you are a star..... If you find it so hard to believe Then my advice for you is to leave it. But how long will you continue to walk away? This is reality and its very different from the movies you watch,even though its acted by humans. You shouldnt expect the goodies all the time-cos in reality actors can die if u knw what I mean. Face the truth,cos you and I know its the truth. Life is like a cycle,no matter how much you dodge that challenge,it will always be waiting for you.... Believe me,you can! Even when you keep saying you cant! I still want you to know that you can,its just a matter of time and choice.... Now dont be confused when they say to be successful you need to be patient;it never means procastination... It simply means your hardwork will pay for you someday.keep working. No matter how kind the world is to you,it can never give you success, Success only comes when you create it.... Its never too late to be successful,but its always too early to be a failure. Successful people are unique and rear,but failures are common; Never you choose to follow the crowd,cos you will not and never see your destination,you will just be lost. There are two major end results in life. FAILURE AND SUCCESS.... There are alot of failures,the world is filled with them,there are just few successful ones. Dont give up,stop crying,stop doubting,keep believing cos everything and anything is possible.... I have heard a lot of people say I am born to be great. Yes you are but speaking success is just one part of it and working/walking towards success are the other parts. For it is only when you work,then you can walk into success.... Sometimes I laugh when I see the obituary of a 92years old man and it reads celebration of life. The question you should be asking is did he really enjoy the life you are celebrating him for? Everyone has his own definition of life. Some say life is good,life is cruel,life is full of ups and downs and so on but have you ever heard the phrase: You can live your life the way you want it? Yes its true cos THE TRUE MEANING OF LIFE can only be defined by your ACHIEVEMENTS. Dont just read this and say am not giving up,ask yourself,have I even started? If you havent then get up, Speak the word Work the word and Walk into your success.... If you still find it hard to believe,then I beg you to believe this one,its meant for you. 4/10/2012.

Wednesday 3 October 2012

3 DANGEROUS RELATIONSHIP MYTHS by Rori Raye

So many times, we women are operating under false assumptions about relationships that cause us to feel sad, lonely, and disconnected from our man. These dangerous relationship myths are so widespread, it's no wonder so many of us have suffered the sting of heartache. I'm sure you'll recognize these and the pain they bring. Knowingthe real truth I'm about to share is nothing short of love-life changing. Relationship Myth #1: Giving = Getting This myth tells us that in order toget more affection and romance from a man, you have to become more affectionate and romantic yourself. So you buy him special gifts, tell him you love him before he tells you, cook him special meals, and offer him a lot of advice and encouragement. You become a giver, and you believe that, in time, he will reciprocate. While it's true that every relationship is give and take, the truth is that men don't fall in love because you've given them so much. They don't stay inlove because you're sacrificing everything for them. Men fall in love when they are able to give to a woman. They fall in love with you because theycan make you happy and nurture you. They fall in love when you take care of yourself and share your emotional experiences with them. Never give a man more than he'sgiven you, including expressions of love and encouragement. Hint: Don't keep telling him you love him when he hasn't said it to you yet. Relationship Myth #2: Exclusivity Leads to Commitment and Marriage This is the most dangerous myth we women have come to believe.From the time we first started dating, we were taught that the way to marriage is to meet a niceman, become his exclusive girlfriend, and that this alone willnaturally lead to commitment. Here's the shocking truth: What makes a man want to give up hisfreedom and single status for you has nothing to do with the fact that you've given him all your time and emotional energy. That's right - the very fact that you're exclusive with him when he hasn't committed to you yet actually makes a man think less of you. “Men fall in love when they are able togive to a woman. They fall in love with you because they canmake you happy and nurture you.” The moment a man smells that need and desperation that comes from having an unconscious agenda of how things "should be", his feelings ofattraction for you will fade. Relationship Myth #3: Showing a Man Your Feelings Will Scare Him Away If you've ever been afraid to tell a man how you're feeling because you're afraid you'll lose him if you do, then I'm certain this myth has been causing havocin your love life. Stuffing your feelings down actually creates more distance between you and a man. The keyis not to suppress your feelings, but to express them without drama or blame. Before I learned the truth about relationships and turned my marriage around, I was guilty of believing and acting out on all these relationship myths. Once I understood these core truths, everything in my love life changed - for the better. That’s why I write my newsletter - so you can quickly discover what it took me so many painful years to figure out. When you sign up for my FREE dating and relationship advice newsletter, you’ll learn: *. Simple Tools you can do that really work to transform your own love life - whether you’re single and looking for Mr. Right, or already in a relationship and want to reclaim the intimacy you once had *. A three-step formula for communicating your feelings toa man in a way that will actually make him want to come closer to you and share his own feelings - you’ll never have to walk on eggshells or hide the real you again, and he’ll fall more and more in lovewith you for it *. How to open up yourself to receive instead of give so that your man wants to shower you with love and affection *. The specific words and body language that will make a man irresistibly attracted to you - and how to raise your self esteem so you feel good no matter what he does *. How to get the commitment you want without asking for it -he’ll think it’s completely his idea!