my LIFE AND FRIENDS IN THE PAST by Sir rhema Hills

NAMES FEATURED IN THIS STORY ARE AS FOLLOWS: Bashiru 1996 Martins Kambai 1998 Bola akande 1999 Chinedu Onicha 1999 Debo wale 1999 Damian Atiri 1999 Michael Oyadonghan 2000 Joel Oyadonghan 2000 Aisha Atta 2004 Jennifer Ahembe 2008 Sharon Gold 2006 Hemba 2006 Alex 2006 Buchi Osuagwu 2006 Sandra 2011 Harrison 2010 Emmanuel salami 2010 Vandersa 2010 Juwon ojoade 2010 Stephenie 2011 Shirley 2012 Ene Ogbe 2011 The Ogbes 2012 Favour Ogbe 2012 Bidemi 2012 Funmi 2012 Enitan Adeleye 2012 Jumoke 2012 Jane o Dare 2012 Magai Danjuma 2012 Laying down at exactly 2:30am on the 26th Nov.2013, reminicing on the few interesting past i had. Sometimes i try to compare the past with the present but the ratio is so uneven. This is an acknowledgement of the few people i can remember as at when writing this piece.These people made my life a long journey of happiness and they remain in my heart even if i dont see them again. I grew up knowing no one as friend; probably because i wasnt so matured enough to keep memories, and this was one major deficiency i had while growing up. Though i can stil remember the numbers of plays i had with people as a child..... Kaestiyah was part of it; a type of army i single handedly formed just to play the role of police and thief. I had my own command and before time i ruled a great batallion of child army and it was called Kaestiyah. Till date i know nothing about how it was formed but i know how it ended. It was with serious flogging and punishment from mum. Afterwards i found myself owning a church i called it IN HIS TIME GOSPEL MISSION I can still remember thoae days ; i was so close to God,i would gather my cousins and few friends in my bedroom, i would use my mums sewing table as my podium and preach messages every sunday evenings, though i really cant recollect those words i told them but it was fun.... Between the ages of 1-6 i was a complete dull boy,i was only good at playing i had all forms of plays as a child but when it comes to academics i was not close to being average. I had friends those days but because of excess play i cant remember any of them. PHASE 2 My life took a total transformation when we relocated to lagos, it was like a rebirth, evrything about me changed. My first friend was Bashiru, cant remamber his surname though; we were neighbours,went to same primary school, but the friendship didnt last for so long because they had to relocate from where we were stayin at oko-oba. However,i really didnt feel his absence because just before he left Martins kambai and his parents parked into d next block. Martins was the major friend i had while growing up, we were like mates though i was older. I can still rember how we use to rent bicycle together even though we couldnt ride well,but we struggled together and toured oko oba and agege axis until we became pro..... Not long we moved to different secondary schools and that was how we seperated,he was in a boarding school and i was in a day school. In Hamlet college, i met great people like Bola,Damian,chinedu,Debo and many others but as we were finishing and writing waec,i became closer to Joel and his brother Michael Oyadonghan now sir. M. Joel and Michael had a significant role they played in my life,we learnt together,we made mistakes together. We had similar interest and plans and before long we became the jd17. We didnt make it through in our first waec sitting so we had to register in another academy and along the line i met my first girl friend.lol. Aisha Atta; I had so much crush on her to the extent that i had to go to university of jos so i can b closer to her in A.B.U Zaria. But with time the relationship faded cos we were not really matured enough to handle the kind of relationship we were in. When i was in year 2; i became closer to one of my course mate Jennifer Ahembe, she taught me how to cook varieties of food; and with time i made her my official girlfriend. Everyone knew us together. However, things didnt work out as planned and towards my final years we werent really close like we use to be,It was this period, i got to knw some friends like Harrison onyeachom,Emmanuel salami, Vandersa and Juwon. They were so close to me, we lived together,read together and competed together till i graduated. We were even suppose to serve in the same place but well it was all wishes and the government had the final say. Let me take you back a bit,during the school days in the university i had good friends i called my sisters,they were sharon Gold,Hemba,Sandra and coursemates like Alex and Buchi. I also met a neighbour and a friend Stephenie who was later murdered just in front of her house. In 2012, i was posted to katsina but i wasnt cool with the place so i only had my camping there. In camp i was close to shirley, we had same plan on redeploying and fortunately we were redeployed to the same state Kwara. In camp i was a very good friend to my platoon members and we all had fun together. Now talking on my experience in kwara......hmmm it was great fun o. Meanwhile back in school i met Ene Ogbe in my final year,we were just friends for about six months but she was like a sister,probably because she was from benue state, i really cant call what we had a date but were pretty close and her family stayed in kwara. So when i was redeployed to kwara state,The Ogbes became my new family,they never knew me but because of my relatinship with Ene they took me as their son.They were more than a host,they were my family. They gave me an apartment where i stayed all through my service year for free. My very good companion in the family was my 8 yrs old friend called Favour,i call her Favour Ross. We had alot of fights and arguements but we dont sleep over it,she was close to me cos we were the only two in the house aside her mum,others were still in school. While i was serving in kwara; i met Bidemi and along the line we started dating, i met great people like Enitan,mayowa,jumoke and some of my secondary school mates like Funmi and Jane and we got united. Meanwhike Jane O Dare is my co editor in our page "my relationship with Hillz" presently But Magai was one very good friend i dont think i would forget so soon or forever. We hanged out together,drew me close to God and made me felt loved. But as usual distance seperated us, service was over and we had to go our different ways.... All these people i can remember are my great friends who have played vital roles in my life and made me who i am till date. Ofcourse i had alot of friends aside these ones but my memory was just too full to pen down their names but i want you to know you are appreciated..... Now am on the 3rd phase of my life and trust me am having new friends and i love them all. Theres nothing as great as having good friends around you.life has been fun all the way and i Thank God for bringing you guys my way. Love you all Sir Rhema Hills 28/11/2013

my LIFE AND FRIENDS IN THE PAST by Sir rhema Hills

NAMES FEATURED IN THIS STORY ARE AS FOLLOWS: Bashiru 1996 Martins Kambai 1998 Bola akande 1999 Chinedu Onicha 1999 Debo wale 1999 Damian Atiri 1999 Michael Oyadonghan 2000 Joel Oyadonghan 2000 Aisha Atta 2004 Jennifer Ahembe 2008 Sharon Gold 2006 Hemba 2006 Alex 2006 Buchi Osuagwu 2006 Sandra 2011 Harrison 2010 Emmanuel salami 2010 Vandersa 2010 Juwon ojoade 2010 Stephenie 2011 Shirley 2012 Ene Ogbe 2011 The Ogbes 2012 Favour Ogbe 2012 Bidemi 2012 Funmi 2012 Enitan Adeleye 2012 Jumoke 2012 Jane o Dare 2012 Magai Danjuma 2012 Laying down at exactly 2:30am on the 26th Nov.2013, reminicing on the few interesting past i had. Sometimes i try to compare the past with the present but the ratio is so uneven. This is an acknowledgement of the few people i can remember as at when writing this piece.These people made my life a long journey of happiness and they remain in my heart even if i dont see them again. I grew up knowing no one as friend; probably because i wasnt so matured enough to keep memories, and this was one major deficiency i had while growing up. Though i can stil remember the numbers of plays i had with people as a child..... Kaestiyah was part of it; a type of army i single handedly formed just to play the role of police and thief. I had my own command and before time i ruled a great batallion of child army and it was called Kaestiyah. Till date i know nothing about how it was formed but i know how it ended. It was with serious flogging and punishment from mum. Afterwards i found myself owning a church i called it IN HIS TIME GOSPEL MISSION I can still remember thoae days ; i was so close to God,i would gather my cousins and few friends in my bedroom, i would use my mums sewing table as my podium and preach messages every sunday evenings, though i really cant recollect those words i told them but it was fun.... Between the ages of 1-6 i was a complete dull boy,i was only good at playing i had all forms of plays as a child but when it comes to academics i was not close to being average. I had friends those days but because of excess play i cant remember any of them. PHASE 2 My life took a total transformation when we relocated to lagos, it was like a rebirth, evrything about me changed. My first friend was Bashiru, cant remamber his surname though; we were neighbours,went to same primary school, but the friendship didnt last for so long because they had to relocate from where we were stayin at oko-oba. However,i really didnt feel his absence because just before he left Martins kambai and his parents parked into d next block. Martins was the major friend i had while growing up, we were like mates though i was older. I can still rember how we use to rent bicycle together even though we couldnt ride well,but we struggled together and toured oko oba and agege axis until we became pro..... Not long we moved to different secondary schools and that was how we seperated,he was in a boarding school and i was in a day school. In Hamlet college, i met great people like Bola,Damian,chinedu,Debo and many others but as we were finishing and writing waec,i became closer to Joel and his brother Michael Oyadonghan now sir. M. Joel and Michael had a significant role they played in my life,we learnt together,we made mistakes together. We had similar interest and plans and before long we became the jd17. We didnt make it through in our first waec sitting so we had to register in another academy and along the line i met my first girl friend.lol. Aisha Atta; I had so much crush on her to the extent that i had to go to university of jos so i can b closer to her in A.B.U Zaria. But with time the relationship faded cos we were not really matured enough to handle the kind of relationship we were in. When i was in year 2; i became closer to one of my course mate Jennifer Ahembe, she taught me how to cook varieties of food; and with time i made her my official girlfriend. Everyone knew us together. However, things didnt work out as planned and towards my final years we werent really close like we use to be,It was this period, i got to knw some friends like Harrison onyeachom,Emmanuel salami, Vandersa and Juwon. They were so close to me, we lived together,read together and competed together till i graduated. We were even suppose to serve in the same place but well it was all wishes and the government had the final say. Let me take you back a bit,during the school days in the university i had good friends i called my sisters,they were sharon Gold,Hemba,Sandra and coursemates like Alex and Buchi. I also met a neighbour and a friend Stephenie who was later murdered just in front of her house. In 2012, i was posted to katsina but i wasnt cool with the place so i only had my camping there. In camp i was close to shirley, we had same plan on redeploying and fortunately we were redeployed to the same state Kwara. In camp i was a very good friend to my platoon members and we all had fun together. Now talking on my experience in kwara......hmmm it was great fun o. Meanwhile back in school i met Ene Ogbe in my final year,we were just friends for about six months but she was like a sister,probably because she was from benue state, i really cant call what we had a date but were pretty close and her family stayed in kwara. So when i was redeployed to kwara state,The Ogbes became my new family,they never knew me but because of my relatinship with Ene they took me as their son.They were more than a host,they were my family. They gave me an apartment where i stayed all through my service year for free. My very good companion in the family was my 8 yrs old friend called Favour,i call her Favour Ross. We had alot of fights and arguements but we dont sleep over it,she was close to me cos we were the only two in the house aside her mum,others were still in school. While i was serving in kwara; i met Bidemi and along the line we started dating, i met great people like Enitan,mayowa,jumoke and some of my secondary school mates like Funmi and Jane and we got united. Meanwhike Jane O Dare is my co editor in our page "my relationship with Hillz" presently But Magai was one very good friend i dont think i would forget so soon or forever. We hanged out together,drew me close to God and made me felt loved. But as usual distance seperated us, service was over and we had to go our different ways.... All these people i can remember are my great friends who have played vital roles in my life and made me who i am till date. Ofcourse i had alot of friends aside these ones but my memory was just too full to pen down their names but i want you to know you are appreciated..... Now am on the 3rd phase of my life and trust me am having new friends and i love them all. Theres nothing as great as having good friends around you.life has been fun all the way and i Thank God for bringing you guys my way. Love you all Sir Rhema Hills 28/11/2013

my LIFE AND FRIENDS IN THE PAST by Sir rhema Hills

NAMES FEATURED IN THIS STORY ARE AS FOLLOWS: Bashiru 1996 Martins Kambai 1998 Bola akande 1999 Chinedu Onicha 1999 Debo wale 1999 Damian Atiri 1999 Michael Oyadonghan 2000 Joel Oyadonghan 2000 Aisha Atta 2004 Jennifer Ahembe 2008 Sharon Gold 2006 Hemba 2006 Alex 2006 Buchi Osuagwu 2006 Sandra 2011 Harrison 2010 Emmanuel salami 2010 Vandersa 2010 Juwon ojoade 2010 Stephenie 2011 Shirley 2012 Ene Ogbe 2011 The Ogbes 2012 Favour Ogbe 2012 Bidemi 2012 Funmi 2012 Enitan Adeleye 2012 Jumoke 2012 Jane o Dare 2012 Magai Danjuma 2012 Laying down at exactly 2:30am on the 26th Nov.2013, reminicing on the few interesting past i had. Sometimes i try to compare the past with the present but the ratio is so uneven. This is an acknowledgement of the few people i can remember as at when writing this piece.These people made my life a long journey of happiness and they remain in my heart even if i dont see them again. I grew up knowing no one as friend; probably because i wasnt so matured enough to keep memories, and this was one major deficiency i had while growing up. Though i can stil remember the numbers of plays i had with people as a child..... Kaestiyah was part of it; a type of army i single handedly formed just to play the role of police and thief. I had my own command and before time i ruled a great batallion of child army and it was called Kaestiyah. Till date i know nothing about how it was formed but i know how it ended. It was with serious flogging and punishment from mum. Afterwards i found myself owning a church i called it IN HIS TIME GOSPEL MISSION I can still remember thoae days ; i was so close to God,i would gather my cousins and few friends in my bedroom, i would use my mums sewing table as my podium and preach messages every sunday evenings, though i really cant recollect those words i told them but it was fun.... Between the ages of 1-6 i was a complete dull boy,i was only good at playing i had all forms of plays as a child but when it comes to academics i was not close to being average. I had friends those days but because of excess play i cant remember any of them. PHASE 2 My life took a total transformation when we relocated to lagos, it was like a rebirth, evrything about me changed. My first friend was Bashiru, cant remamber his surname though; we were neighbours,went to same primary school, but the friendship didnt last for so long because they had to relocate from where we were stayin at oko-oba. However,i really didnt feel his absence because just before he left Martins kambai and his parents parked into d next block. Martins was the major friend i had while growing up, we were like mates though i was older. I can still rember how we use to rent bicycle together even though we couldnt ride well,but we struggled together and toured oko oba and agege axis until we became pro..... Not long we moved to different secondary schools and that was how we seperated,he was in a boarding school and i was in a day school. In Hamlet college, i met great people like Bola,Damian,chinedu,Debo and many others but as we were finishing and writing waec,i became closer to Joel and his brother Michael Oyadonghan now sir. M. Joel and Michael had a significant role they played in my life,we learnt together,we made mistakes together. We had similar interest and plans and before long we became the jd17. We didnt make it through in our first waec sitting so we had to register in another academy and along the line i met my first girl friend.lol. Aisha Atta; I had so much crush on her to the extent that i had to go to university of jos so i can b closer to her in A.B.U Zaria. But with time the relationship faded cos we were not really matured enough to handle the kind of relationship we were in. When i was in year 2; i became closer to one of my course mate Jennifer Ahembe, she taught me how to cook varieties of food; and with time i made her my official girlfriend. Everyone knew us together. However, things didnt work out as planned and towards my final years we werent really close like we use to be,It was this period, i got to knw some friends like Harrison onyeachom,Emmanuel salami, Vandersa and Juwon. They were so close to me, we lived together,read together and competed together till i graduated. We were even suppose to serve in the same place but well it was all wishes and the government had the final say. Let me take you back a bit,during the school days in the university i had good friends i called my sisters,they were sharon Gold,Hemba,Sandra and coursemates like Alex and Buchi. I also met a neighbour and a friend Stephenie who was later murdered just in front of her house. In 2012, i was posted to katsina but i wasnt cool with the place so i only had my camping there. In camp i was close to shirley, we had same plan on redeploying and fortunately we were redeployed to the same state Kwara. In camp i was a very good friend to my platoon members and we all had fun together. Now talking on my experience in kwara......hmmm it was great fun o. Meanwhile back in school i met Ene Ogbe in my final year,we were just friends for about six months but she was like a sister,probably because she was from benue state, i really cant call what we had a date but were pretty close and her family stayed in kwara. So when i was redeployed to kwara state,The Ogbes became my new family,they never knew me but because of my relatinship with Ene they took me as their son.They were more than a host,they were my family. They gave me an apartment where i stayed all through my service year for free. My very good companion in the family was my 8 yrs old friend called Favour,i call her Favour Ross. We had alot of fights and arguements but we dont sleep over it,she was close to me cos we were the only two in the house aside her mum,others were still in school. While i was serving in kwara; i met Bidemi and along the line we started dating, i met great people like Enitan,mayowa,jumoke and some of my secondary school mates like Funmi and Jane and we got united. Meanwhike Jane O Dare is my co editor in our page "my relationship with Hillz" presently But Magai was one very good friend i dont think i would forget so soon or forever. We hanged out together,drew me close to God and made me felt loved. But as usual distance seperated us, service was over and we had to go our different ways.... All these people i can remember are my great friends who have played vital roles in my life and made me who i am till date. Ofcourse i had alot of friends aside these ones but my memory was just too full to pen down their names but i want you to know you are appreciated..... Now am on the 3rd phase of my life and trust me am having new friends and i love them all. Theres nothing as great as having good friends around you.life has been fun all the way and i Thank God for bringing you guys my way. Love you all Sir Rhema Hills 28/11/2013

THE STORY OF BOREDOM by Sir Rhema Hills

THE STORY OF BOREDOM by Sir Rhema Hills Idle was named after the famous man Boring. He had a brother who later travelled out and became the man they call Boredom. Boredom means the state of being bored,loose out,signifies failure,lost,and poverty. He lived a very boring life and people began to wonder what was the cause. Well this was the few words he had to say " i practically wake up in the morning with less enthusiasm because in the first place i have no money. I pick up my regular piece of paper you guys call curriculum vitae and stare at it thinking of the next spot to apply; but i have no idea because it has become like a poster on the streets....... Everywhere i go,i keep getting the statement we shall get back to you. Friends deserted me,everybody so busy doing nothing but trying their best to avoid me. They say an idle mind is the devils workshop,but i laughed some few months ago when the devil could no longer take it,he had to leave me alone,he said even my mind was too boring for him to dwell. Guess what happened next ........... Hmmmmm The Holy Spirit came upon me,and he quickened my mortal body He gave me hope; now am energised,encouraged,enthusiastic,empowered. Ever since then great things always come out of me,cos greater is he that is in me than he that is in the world. I am soaring,sometimes i try to stop but am just unstoppable. Dont be scared that am going to stumble though. You know why? The Holyspirit is my direction He guides me and gives me speed. He lives in me....he toldme something recently,he said my body is his temple, My life is fun, I produce fruits of joy,wealth,prosperity,kindness,love,peace,gentleness. I discovered am no longer boring,do u know how i knew? People read me,people say they love me, They call me an inspiration Am so interesting, My life is a model,they call it a lifestyle. I think its the best lifestyle......" Be positive about yourself,say good things about yourself. Above all empty your heart,let the Holyspirit take His place,his the best tenant you can ever have,at a point,you will love him so much,you will even make him the owner of you. Think about it,He changed my name from Boredom to Life.He can change yours too.

D DECISION......by Sir Rhema Hillz

waking up to a bright new day as i sing my song of hope..... i refuse to believe lies nd my hope is on thee alone.... men has failed bt God is forever to b worship He has brot me thus far so in u him i put my trust i accept my fate cos u will giv me strength to bear every burden so today i stand to speak to d one i truly luv....sayin...... Today,i sit patiently to await where my fate lies in d heart of whom i luv deeply, I ponder nd wait patiently cos its nt just me, but God,u nd me to decide GOD has shown nd I have shown u my foolishness countless times,my weakness severally,my flaws bt u av seen my luv like a beach sand i av proven who i truly is.cos rhema is.............nw d blank space is left to u to say who i am Sometimes its so hard to take decision bt for u to b true to urself nd b responsible nd not hurt odas,you just av to b decisive nd accept ur fate...........16th may,2013 marks a day i wil either forget or liv to remember. Dis two words forget nd remember lies in ur hands..... Forget me nd my writeup cos for me i av decided to accept what comes my way nd trust me to b matured on dis one........

Reiteration by Michael "Sir M.B" Oyadonghan

I aint written for a while, hell, I aint even smiled, but she's so beautiful, I swear I heard my soul cry, I aint tripping, but sh!t's convoluted, black and blue, Bvlgari Aqva whenever I'm wearing black or blue, you don't gotta ask why, but you can ask the doctor, who? je m'appelle Michael, Sir Bitches' lost in tha loop, My pulse's ringing, so I guess it must be true. damn, it mght be true, cuz I'm at war like it's 1942, I aint been this way in a while, this sh!t must be new, I'm glued to the truth so, okay, yeah, it must be true. I'm through with all da BS, Life's a bitch, it must be running on a vista OS, welcome to ma world, here's yo nintendo DS, you're so cute, so you get a 5 star request, at your request, Slow Mo, here's your 8 star index.

7 THINGS YOUR FRIENDS DON'T NEED TO KNOW ABOUT YOUR RELATIOBSHIP

7 THINGS YOUR FRIENDS DON'T NEED TO KNOW ABOUT YOUR RELATIOBSHIP I’m a firm believer that you should share your life with your friends and that it’s important to be able to vent to them about the things in your everyday life. That being said, there are SOME things you should NOT tell your friends about your relationships. This is my list of the things not to tell your friends about your relationships. 1. FIGHTS It’s okay to tell your friends about your relationship, it’s even okay to tell them when you get into a fight. But never go into the specifics unless you’re asking for an HONEST opinion. Friends that ask you to tell them if they’re being crazy about a fight that they’re having but don’t actually want to hear your opinion, are awkward people. So lets all keep our domestics to ourselves. 2. Séx Don’t tell your friends the specifics of your séx life. Don’t tell them about any kinks your partner has because from that point on, your friend will never be able to look them in the eye again. 3. MONEY PROBLEMS It’s okay to talk to your friends about money problems of your own but it’s not okay to bring your significant other’s finances into that conversation. A lot of people are very sensitive about what they perceive as weakness and that’s never a line you want to cross. 4. CHEATING (IF YOU’RE WORKING IT OUT) If someone cheats on you and you dump them, feel free to tell all of your friends (and a few strangers) how much of a scumbag they are. But, if you’re working it out, NEVER tell your friends that your significant other has cheated. You may forgive them because you love them but your friends love you, and they won’t. 5. PROBLEMS IN THE BEDROOM Once again, once you talk about this with your friends, they will never look at your partner the same way again. Your friends don’t need to know if you need to talk your significant other in for little blue pills. That’s something you should keep between you and your partner. 6. YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER’S PROBLEMS Your friends are YOUR friends, and your partners problems really aren’t yours to share. Let your partner talk about their problems with whoever they choose. It’s not fair for your friends to know everything about your significant other’s life. 7. YOU SIGNIFICANT OTHER’S PAST RELATIONSHIPS Once again, your friends are YOUR friends. They don’t need to know that four years ago the person you’re with had his heart-broken by an even woman named Tina. If that’s something they want to share with your friends, let them. But that isn’t exactly your place. I know that we all want to believe that we live in a world like Séx and The City where we can all sit down with our girlfriends and discuss everything about everything in our lives. But, the truth is martinis and cosmos and endless conversations might be great on TV, but in real life they can get a little awkward when you see your Carrie’s Big on the street.

HOW TO LOVE .2 by Sir.Hills

Options True Relationship with Hillz · 64 like this September 21 at 9:24pm · HOW TO LOVE.2. EPISODE 2- LEARNING TO LOVE YOURSELF 1. Begin by loving yourself: You can only truly love another being when you love yourself properly. Otherwise, you risk spending a lot of your life projecting insecurities, pain and other negative emotions onto other people. People who do this tend to see the worst in other people so as to avoid facing that insecurity, pain, or negativity in themselves. - Loving yourself is not about putting yourself before others — that's another form of confusion. Loving yourself is about having self- respect, discovering what really makes you tick, and spending your life being true to your real talents. 2. Forgive yourself and give yourself license to make mistakes: Don't be too hard on yourself. Life is short, and it's about learning. You won't learn unless you make mistakes. Give yourself license to make mistakes, and then love who you are for all your imperfections. - If you love yourself only for being perfect, you're probably making two mistakes: - Thinking that you are perfect when it's probably not the case. Unless you're a new super-breed of human, you're probably deluding yourself a little bit. -Holding yourself at a double-standard. You don't expect everyone else to be perfect, so why do you expect perfection from yourself? Treat everyone, yourself included, by the same standards. 3. Know what loving yourself feels like: Once you learn to love yourself, you won't feel threatened by others' success (real or apparent). You won't constantly compare yourself to others. You'll be able to share your love freely with other people. You'll feel good about yourself even when you're feeling down. You'll feel proud without being cocky; optimistic without being oblivious; and free without being paralyzed by freedom. You'll feel unafraid to cry. -To love truly is not only having a capacity to give love, but also to gracefully open your heart to receive love. Know that you deserve love. You are worthy of love. The more you feel love in your heart, the more you are able to give love to others. 6Like · · Share Blessing Onuorah Nice one from u dear September 23 at 11:00am via mobile · Like Boost Post 91 people saw this post

HOW TO LOVE .1 by Sir Hills

Options True Relationship with Hillz · 64 like this September 18 at 5:29pm · HOW TO LOVE .1. Love is expressed as an action and experienced as a feeling. Yet, love has an essence that resists defining in any single way — it encompasses compassion, determination, tolerance, endurance, support, faith, and much more. If you're in the dark about how to love, this article should give you some food for thought, and perhaps teach you a little bit about how to love yourself, love the world, and love other people just a little bit more. EPISODE 1 What Love Looks Like 1. Acknowledge the breadth of love . Love isn't simply about romance — to define it so narrowly is to deprive yourself of the beauty and full extent of love. Love is a feeling, drive, or emotion that we experience usually with people, but also with pursuits, other animals, and nature in general. If you're looking for it, love can be found in many places, situations and relationships. * Love is shared between people — our parents and children, siblings, spouses and partners, dates, friends, neighbors, community members and humanity. *It's found in the passion for the things you do in your life, including work, hobbies, volunteering and the like; it can be found when you're at your most creative, or "in the flow." * Love happens when you embrace the wonderful awesomeness of life, as you acknowledge how incredible this world really is, how intricate and complex life is. *Love is found in observing nature, in spending time with companion animals, and in learning about other living beings in the world. *Love is at its most giving when it is altruistic, shown to a stranger we may never meet again. * Love cannot be pigeonholed — it's never just or only one thing; it happens whenever your heart is open to receiving beauty and wonder of people, things and events around you. 2. Begin to recognize what love isn't . Because love can't be pigeonholed, it's sometimes hard to say it is one things and it isn't another. But in general, people agree that love is selfless, lasting, and larger than yourself. In general, people also agree that love isn't the same as: - Feelings of lust (e.g., purely sexual interest) -Ownership or control (co-dependency or manipulation) -Obsessive worrying (over-involved parenting or a spouse always checking up) - Neediness (insecurity or low self-esteem) and so forth. - Love isn't a tool for using people or binding them to your side; if you find yourself calling these actions "love," it may be a good idea to investigate what other people mean by love. 6Like · · Share Blessing Onuorah, Funmi Ayandosu and Eddiecuteboy Jostified Ezenyinwa like this. Blessing Onuorah I am loving dis write up wen will d next episode be ready September 19 at 6:53pm via mobile · Like SirRhema Hills Oyi-obute Flower very soon,u cud share with frnds to enjoy wat u just read. September 19 at 7:07pm via mobile · Like Blessing Onuorah Okay September 20 at 2:11pm via mobile · Like

7 REASONS LADIES FALL FOR THE WRONG GUY

Here are a few reasons why women fall for the wrong man: 1. Ladies, you know how people always say, “Actions speak louder than words?” Well, this very saying is getting a lot of you in big trouble. Yes, actions do speak, but please understand actions also lie and in some cases lie more than words. Actions only speak louder when the heart and motives of the person pursing you is pure. If that is not the case, then what you have is manipulation and womanizing. Many men already know they can fool you with actions and words, so stop believing actions mean anything unless it’s done consistently over a long period of time. Don’t forget this consistency also includes you. Your job is not to sit around and watch what he does while you do nothing. That is selfish and speaks of fear, etc. 2. You have s*x with a man and become closer to him than you really think you are. s*x causes soul ties and makes you emotional, thus you feel closer to a man than you really are. I don’t have to tell you how to avoid this mistake you, because you already know. Good or great s*x will always cause a woman to be with a man longer than she should and be with the wrong man. 3. Women are moved by beautiful things like shoes, curtains, homes, candles and a handsome man. There is more to a man than his looks. If you fall easy for nice looking men, find out why and make the correction. 4. You are a 30+ year old woman who is worried about being married, having kids before a certain age, or believing the lie there is something wrong with you being single. Of course there is nothing wrong with you being single. When you do worry, you will settle for the wrong man or make the wrong choice in a man. 5. You allow your self-esteem or insecurities to allow you to settle for anyone who gives you a lot of attention. A man shouldn’t have to make you feel secure in yourself or about yourself. You should feel this way because you are a child of God. I know we all have insecurities we need to grow and work on, but don’t allow them to cause you to have bad relationships, push good people away, or cause you to fall for the wrong man. 6. Thinking you can change a man is a very common mistake and it will always cause women to stay with men who have no desire to change. Keep in mind there are men who do want to change and become better men, so I am not talking about those guys. I am talking about those who have no desire for anything more than they are already doing. Nothing. 7. You are afraid of being alone so you are with men for companionship, s*x, a warm body, dates, etc… Of course, when you do this, you can’t expect anything good to come from it. Thus, when something bad is the outcome, you will result to playing victim and adding to the hurt or bitterness you already carry in your heart.

REASONS WHY HE WONT PROPOSE TO YOU

REASONS WHY HE WONT PROPOSE TO YOU Every relationship that’s not clearly defined is an absolute waste of years and commitment. So many adults claim to be “in a relationship” without a logical purpose. It’s always a disheartening experience, if after so many years of making a relationship work, you then discover that the relationship has a future but without you in the picture. Being in a supposed serious relationship with your partner must involve visible signs of commitment and long-living. At that point, you can’t afford to be disappointed; you should know what you represent in the relationship. If you’ve been together for years and it seems there’s no plan of having you-two, living together-forever, here are obvious signs to observe and critically consider. No. 1 – If you are the opposite of him. When it comes to marriage, a man want a woman that will complement him; a woman that knows or would like to know abit about his career or job details. Lets take for an instance, If he’s a Public speaker, he won’t get along with a lady that’s shy or can’t make an appearance before the crowd. Even when we know: we all aren’t the same, a man would desire a lady that’s presentable not just to his parents and families but also at the official front, hence, he won’t propose. No. 2 – If you talk faster than your brain. Such a lady on a round table with friends, among families or relatives is a bad deal. He sure won’t propose. No. 3 – When you play the boss. Sometime ago, i heard a lady telling her man: “baby, don’t worry, i will rent the apartment for us” Oh no, you just killed his ego! How about: “baby, i will lend you the money to rent the apartment but you will pay back” and if he doesn’t, at least you never wanted a pay-back at first. Let him be in-charge of taking sensitive decisions. No. 4 – When you mistake being classy as being expensive. No man will desire a woman that pays maximum attention to what she wears even when he wants her to look good. Getting the latest of this and that doesn’t mean you’ve got money or you’re so comfortable, it only means nothing else receives your attention other than how expensive you look. Such won’t make a good wife with a man with prospects. He just won’t propose. No. 5 – If you are not from his home-town. Weird but true and such does exist. Some men will not marry any lady not in their state or from their home- town. The earlier you know, the better for you. No. 6 – If there’s an ‘already-made’ lady somewhere. He won’t propose. No. 7 – If his mother doesn’t like you. It’s no comics that some men are totally controlled by their mother and we have those whose decisions could be highly influenced by their mother. Young lady, instead of wasting your time while waiting forever, just watch the mother’s body language, you could have a clue if she want you around her son. No. 8 – Religion differences and family acceptance. This sometimes could be complex. Where the wedding will hold, what prayers will be said etc. Alot comes with religion differences. If he comes from a family where their beliefs are considered uttermost. It would be difficult for you to be accepted, hence, he won’t propose unless he chooses to stand against his family or win their mind over. No. 9 – If he’s still living with a friend or still in his parent’s house. I think what he needs the most and what’s best for you both, is his freedom. That’s when you two can plan for a good future together. No. 10 – If the only time you have a need is when you call him. Read again, that could be the definition of a pest. LOL. He won’t propose. No. 11 – When all you do is talk about yourself and your family. The young man would have doubts about the future; if you’re going to allow him take care of his family as much as you care about yours. No. 12 – When he sees your level of education as a problem. Not a good one though but i’m sorry, he won’t propose. No. 13 – When you are so much into your job or career. No. 14 – When your ex-s becomes your handbag. You said he’s your ex and you still meet for dinner dates and whatnot, no matter how much he trusted you, don’t make him doubt you. Hence, you let go! It isn’t an issue of insecurity but an issue of doing what’s right. There is no reason for you seeing your ex. If it’s somewhat official, demand a replacement, find someone else to have on those dates and discussions; just not your ex. You both could be friends but not regular meetings or phone calls. Save your relationship some drama and watch him propose to you in no time No. 15 – When you are richer than him. Not every guy out there can live with this. It could be intimidating to have a woman in charge of the mega bucks. Some ladies can’t be trusted at that point and there’s a tendency of that man losing his prestige. Even with those cash in your account, you’d better be humble, hence, he won’t propose, expect if he has got the cash as his main target. No. 16 – When your mother influences your decisions. That’s a straight red flag and if care is not taken, your mum could tell you how many times in a week you’re gonna Be Intimate with your man when you’re married. There’s every need to build a mind of your own, you can seek advise from your mother but not you allowing her to make the decisions in your home. It could be dangerous! No. 17 – When he seem to be chasing you for too long. He won’t propose. No. 18 – When you are dirty. Yes, that’s the right word: dirty. He won’t propose. No. 19 – When you have so much of male friends and you talk too much of them around him. It’s just like a wife murmuring the name of a male celebrity in her sleep, right beside her husband. LOL. He won’t propose. No. 20 – When you are already living with him. Maybe in the next few years but he won’t propose as fast as you want it The Dangers of Cohabitation No. 21 – If you didn’t get pregnant to confirm your fertility. Crazy? But that’s the truth, some men are scared of ‘left-overs’, he might want to be sure if you’re still fertile for a child before he proposes.

BASIC INSTINCT OF A BITCH EPISODE 1 by Janet O'Dare

Movie Tittle: BASIC INSTINCT OF A BITCH Episode 1 Directed by : Janet O'dare Written by : Janet O'dare Produced by : Sir Rhema Hills Its a sunny day and am seated here sipping my drink, trying to figure out my next move. I've worked too long to get to this point and am not ready to back down now. No! Not at all! Steven just dumped me for a younger girl! Can you possible imagine? I still cant believe this. After all these years of "keeping" him for marriage, he finally gave me the bounce. Thats fine, thats just fine! i know you have questions but first, let me introduce myself. My name is Brenda Ajayi. My friends call me Alexis. I am just your regular girl next door. I am friendly, outgoing and loving. I live life to the fullest because life is too short. i have a couple of "business associates' and they call me Tokunbo Johnson. No, dont raise your eyebrow now. What can i say? Am a hustler! I have my own dreams and aspirations, a future to live up to so i have to do whatever it takes to get to the top. my prince charmings and boy lovers call me Shalewa Nelson but you can call me Sandra Lopez... I believe in a theory that states "Nobody cares how you make it, whats important is that you make it". so, i try to seize every opportunity to make some cool cash. I am 5feet 10" tall, very beautiful and attractive. i pay close attention to the way i look and i dont mind showing some skin from time to time, afterall, you have to see the goods before you can decide if you want to buy the goods or not. i am from a very humble background, a family of seven and i am the 4th from the womb. my parents are very hardworking and they try their best to cater for my needs but what they give me is never enough. so i have to use what i have to get what i need. i have a house of my own, my car and a couple of valuables (thanks to my business associates), i can say i live a comfortable life. when i meet a guy for the first time the next thing that pops up in my mind is .... "ee go fit pay"? dont judge me, am only trying to protect my investment. when you meet me for the first time you cant help but appreciate my beauty. i am very beautiful and i know it. i spend an hour and half pampering my face with makeup everyday because i just have to look perfect always. the way i dress depends on the occassion. sometimes i dress corporately when i have to and othertimes i dress to entice. okay! thats me. you want to know what happened betweeen me and steve? ill tell you. i met steve 4 years ago at a club. The attraction was instant and i loved everything about him.he was really sweet and i started having some "feelings" for him. Alright let me put this straight, in the dictionary of a "diva" (a female version of a hustler) the word LOVE doesnt exist! yeah, thats right no love,you feel something for a guy as long as he makes himself financially and in some cases, sexually relevant. once a guy looses any of these listed qualities then its straight to the dump bin......and that was my stand with steven. i liked him but i was in love with his pocket..... that guy can spend! i got everything i wanted with ease and i was able to make him fall in love with me Hahahahaha...... i gave him all the attention he wanted, woke up every morning to say i love you and all the romatic stuff you can imagine. thats what divas do, give them what you want and you'll get yours back. The truth is i was never faithful to steve, not for a minute, there was always a guy by the side (protecting my investment). why do i have to be faithful to one guy when there are so many others dying to have me? that would be very selfish of me. so with my beauty and charm, i have been able to find my way into the hearts of many men, wrecked a couple of homes, destroyed relationships and left a sea of tears too wide to cross. who cares? as long as my interest comes first then i really dont care who gets hurt. i have to go now by the way. there is this fine young man that just walked into the bar and my instinct tells me "ee go fit pay". dont want to miss my chance. lets do this again soon. i am still tokunbo johnson, have a wonderful day Watchout for episode 2...... Send in ur comments.

HENNYTHAN THE WHITE DIAMOND BY sir rhema hills

A very lonely and silent night Tryin to figure out wats next Meditating and pondering why evryone seems to make me their best But no one wants to make me hers..... Scared,dangers of hurt cos they call him hot Talkin,chattin,singin Just to wipe away the shadows of boredom that surrounds this misty barrack. Still thinking of what to do Then i decided to tell her my long time desire She denoted earlier than when i said i needed the best. Now i was shared with the best diamond,not really certain at first so i opt for a trial Found the true her, White,tall and truely the definition of natural. Shes white compassionate,sincere,loves peace and tease Focus and have d dream full of desires Though very new but broken with luv that i find very hard to mend and to heal But truth be spoken what can i do when she doesnt want to think of me and her together She doesnt want to feel the bond of a true condition called love Am not sure am really her type Cos shes loving,liking and very scared of hating me..... She couldnt wait for dis and now dis is it. My white Diamond. Sir Hills

THE LITTLE I KNOW by magai Danjuma

Slightly built,averagely tall,cant really call him dark skinned ( but just right) with an interesting face and likable charming personna......which i describes as infectous. Evrybody seem drawn to him. Indigenously from benue,raised in lagos and Jos schooled. That accounts for his vibrance, sense of style and amicable character. He can also be described as artistic as he's passionate about writing. He seems casual yet he attacks his work with such respect and seriously,his quite impressive. Following his passion for writing he is regularly featured on a writing blog where he voices out his ideas about relationships and other interested or appealing issues. Fiercing loyal to his friends as i have gathered from past love relationships. With a surprising affection for children. He just keeps springing surprises at evry turn. What more can i say,i guess time will unravel more about Sir Rhema Hills Obute.....in d mean time, i wait.Happy b.day. ..........magai Danjuma

THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER DO AFTER A BREAKUP by Sir Rhema Hills

Dealing with a breakup can be a very painful and confusing experience. A lot of emotions run through you and you are likely to take rash decisions if care is not taken. Here are a few things you must NOT do after a breakup: 1, Don’t Beg: For God’s sake, don’t beg! Begging after a breakup only makes matters worse. It makes you appear pathetic and it can be very irritating. Maybe you don’t understand why it ended. Maybe you think it ended for the wrong reasons. Maybe you’d just rather be in a bad relationship than be in no relationship at all. No matter what you do, don’t beg for him/her to return. Deep down, you know that you don’t want to be in a relationship with someone you had to beg to be with you. Besides, if your ex rejects you a second time, it won’t just hurt; the rejection will sting with extra humiliation and regret 2, Don’t Seek revenge: Don’t seek revenge. It serves no purpose and it will only make you feel worse about yourself. Don’t destroy his things, don’t speak evil of her. The thrill of revenge only feeds bitterness and hatred. You may have been deeply wronged, but “getting even” won’t heal any wounds. Forgive and move on. Carry your head high and spend your energy on people who deserve it. 3, Don’t Communicate: Don’t continue to communicate regularly with your ex. Breakups leave a void in your heart where your ex once occupied but constant calling and texting won’t fill that void. Every time you drop the phone without saying “I love you”, your heart will break all over again. Many people feel lost after a breakup; not because they miss their ex, but because so many of their daily habits once revolved around someone else. Give yourself some time to adapt to single life. 4, Don’t Visit Their Facebook: Social media can be a heartbroken person’s worst nightmare. Resist the urge to post anything about your breakup online, don’t insult your ex i twitter and don’t be a constant visitor to his/her Facebook page. Seeing pictures of your ex happy or with someone else can compound your problem and make your life more miserable than it probably already is. 5, Don’t Give up. Regardless of how the breakup made you feel, don’t let it destroy your hope. Continue taking care of yourself. Take some time to refocus and pursue the things you’ve always loved to do. Spend time with loved ones. You found love before and you will find it again. Learn what you can from the relationship that just ended and move forward. Don’t give up on meeting your perfect match. Be thankful that the wrong relationship ended to free you up for the right one.

BUILDING YOUR PERFECT RELATIONSHIP VOL.2 BY SIR RHEMA HILLS

BuILdiNg YOUR PERFECT RELATIONSHIP VOL.2 If u are fully convinced that u luv him Take a pen and list out all what u want in a relatnshp then go to him/her that u are ready 4 a relatnshp only if he/her tells u what they want in the relatnshp... Giv him/her time to list dia own out,then tally it wit urs,if its similar then u bot shud cum 2 an undstandin. Not an agreement becos relatnshp is all about undstndin. Now in sum cases men cn b pretenders,so b4 u go into a relatnshp pray abt it,bt dnt wait 4 God to tel u yes cos its ur responsibility to luk 4,nd its God's responsibility to bless the union... Now one vital tin to take note of is Neva u fall in luv,always b b concious that humans are subjectd to changes and b ready 4 any change. In the early stage of ur relatnshp always tel him what he did,that u dnt like; this would help build ur spouse to the exact persn u want him/her to be. Giv him luv bt dnt lay down ur heart 4 him,cos if u do,i cn assure u he will break it unkwnly. Your HEART is meant 4 God take o verything to please him,bt dnt go beyond ur limit to make them hapi jst 4 u to b sad at d end. The point is BE IN LOVE and nt FALL IN LOVE Now when u offend him dnt always try to make luv to him so he can 4giv u,think of a better way to make him hapi and smile wit u again and 4 the men,dnt make it a duty to slap ur spouse and in 20mins time cum bck kneelin wit chocolates in ur hands telin her u dnt knw what came over u. NOTE: The day ur spouse lays or attempt to,is d day u should quit the relatnshp,no mauer how lng u've bin 2gda as lng as u are nt married. Always luk gud at all time 4 ur spouse,dnt let him/her avoid u cos of d way u luk Neva u pretend in a relatnshp cos any relatnshp that starts wit pretence and lies would definately fall. Always appreciate him 4luvin u nd build-up a very gud communicatn scheme. Make him anticipate nd dream of ur visit,dnt stroll in nd out of his house everyday. Hmmm,finally SEX Yes sex....evry man wants sex thats the truth,bt nt evryman deserves sex Dnt abuse d pleasure of sex in ur relatnshp, make sex a very rear and unexpectd adventure. Dnt make it a regular routine,so dat at d end u wont b goin around like a town cryer sayin HE USED ME AND DUMPED ME Take a step today nd build ur perfect relatnshp. For further info.nd questions visit www.sirrhemahills.blogspot.com ,call 234-8037308249 or join d group My relationship nd u.

THE RHAPSODY OF THE TRUE U.......by Sir Rhema Hills.comin soon

13ways TO IMPRESS A GUY

HOW TO IMPRESS A GUY IN 13 WAYS...... How to impress a guy in 13 ways A great girl who’s desired by great guys is high maintenance, but she’s not cocky or arrogant. She’s pleasant to be with, but she never tries to impress any guy. Want to be that girl and impress a guy you like? Keep these 13 traits in mind, and you’ll be awed and desired by the guy you like. #1 Don’t be judgmental. But at the same time, don’t be a pushover. If you don’t like something, say it but don’t make a big deal about it. The guy you like may be passionate about a few things that you don’t appreciate, but that doesn’t mean you should insult him for it. Show an interest in what he has to say, share your truthful opinions about it but don’t get rude or judgmental. #2 Punish him when he’s cocky. Are you the girl who forgives a guy if he keeps her waiting for over half an hour before he turns up? Change that attitude. Don’t ever let a guy take you for granted or take it easy around you. At the start of a relationship, or when you just get to know the guy, it’s very important to ensure that he takes you seriously. Ignore him or walk away if he throws his weight around you, speak curtly to him when he gives more attention to someone else, and don’t think twice about scolding him if he mistreats you. If you do this right at the beginning of the relationship, he’ll respect you more. But at the same time, this should be used only when he takes you for granted. The rest of the time, be the sweetest girl in the world around him! #3 Smile and laugh a lot around him. Guys are mesmerized by a girl’s laughter. Laugh at his jokes if you find him funny, and give him all your attention when you’re with him. You don’t need to initiate too many conversations, just sit back and let him know that you’re enjoying his company. He’ll do the rest, and get impressed by you too. #4 Debate with him. And win it. Men are awed by a woman’s emotional intelligence. Never let any guy behave like he’s more intelligent than you. Be aware of what’s going on in your world, and talk about it with him. A dumb bimbette could seem attractive for a few hours, but she’ll be the b*tt of his jokes after that. When a guy thinks you’re unintelligent, he’ll think of you only as his arm candy, not as his partner for life. #5 Be naughty. A naughty side is a huge turn on to every guy. Sit really close to him and watch him feel awkward around you. Brush his body, but make it seem like an accident. Behave like a coy girl, but tempt him innocently. #6 Don’t give in too easily. Remember this if you want him to go crazy for you. Even if you like a guy a lot, don’t give in too easily and try to please him from the very beginning. When you try to please a guy too soon, he’ll start taking it easy because he’d know that he’s already won you over. And if he’s a regular guy, he’ll stop trying to woo you or impress you. Even though you like him already, don’t express your mushy thoughts to him for several weeks. Date him or spend hours talking to him, but make sure he’s completely in love with you before you tell him that you’re crazy about him. Understanding how to make a guy chase you the right way is very important if you want to have a serious relationship with the guy you like. #7 Tempt him with your appearance. Dress well and look good all the time when he’s around. You may assume that people who like you won’t judge you, but that’s not always the truth. If you were dating the guy and he dresses shabbily while going out with you, wouldn’t you feel a small twinge of disappointment when you’re walking down the street with him? Look your best, awe everyone around you, and the guy you like will feel lucky to have a conversation with you. #8 Smell great. Let your fragrance linger when you hug him goodbye or walk past him. Guys are suckers for good perfume, especially when the girl they’re interested in leaves behind a waft of perfume in the air. Try several perfumes and pick the ones that best suit your personality. Spray the perfume on your wrists, behind your ears and around your neck or just under the collarbone. And a spray in your hair will ensure that you leave your fragrance behind whenever you walk past a guy. Just remember not to rub your perfume with your hands through because that just kills the fragrance. #9 Be kind to everyone. Guys are instinctively drawn towards kinder girls who seem pleasant and approachable. Be warm when you speak to guys, even if you aren’t interested in dating them. Don’t insult a guy who tries to talk to you just because he’s not a great conversationalist. But at the same time, don’t put up with guys that treat you disrespectfully. #10 Be spontaneous and alive. Don’t be a bore who doesn’t like talking much. Even when you’re with friends, play an active part and be involved with them. Guys may love a shy girl, but no one appreciates someone who’s just a part of the furniture. Participate in activities, have fun, and even when you’re with the guy you like, don’t be too predictable. Cut him in the middle of the conversation, and ask him to accompany you somewhere because you feel like it. When you’re spontaneous and unpredictable, the guy would try harder to please you because he just can’t understand your likes and dislikes. #11 Show the guy the competition. Don’t ignore all other guys when one guy gives you the attention. When you let a guy know that you’re only interested in talking to him, he’ll assume he’s already won you over. Talk sweetly to other cute guys, flirt casually and have fun even if the guy you like is around. Remember, you’re not dating him yet, so let him see that he has a lot of competition to deal with if he wants to date exclusively with you. The more the competition, the more respectful he’ll be towards you and the harder he’ll try to woo you. #12 Don’t use him. Just because he’s sweet enough to offer his help doesn’t mean you need to use him all the time to run your errands. Ask his help so he feels like a chivalrous gentleman when he’s around you. But do it the right way. #13 Leave in a memorable manner. The best way to impress a guy is by leaving him with exciting and memorable memories of you. Flirt with the guy you like now and then without making it obvious that you’re outrageously flirting with him or trying to impress him. When you subtly flirt with him in a not-so-obvious manner, he can’t help but constantly remember you and wonder if you actually flirted with him or it was just his imagination. This stage where you impress a guy is not the same as the dating stage. When both of you are dating, it’s about helping each other understand the other person better. These 13 tips should be used to impress a guy you aren’t dating yet. But when you’re still trying to impress him or evaluating him as a dating potential, use these 13 tips on how to impress a guy. It’ll make him take you more seriously, fall harder for you, and respect you a lot more! LOVEPANKY

REASONS WHY U SHOULD QUIT THAT RELATIONSHIP NOW

REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD END DAT COMPLICATED RELATIONSHIP There is a thin line between staying in a relationship to work things out and being stupid. Here are some reasons to opt out… 1. No Privacy Your partner monitors messages and e-mails, whenever you receive phone calls (s)he is always trying to know who you were talking to. You literally k to lock yourself up in the toilet to pick up calls. End that relationship!!! Before you know it (s)he will ask you to put your phone on speaker and starts deleting messages and e-mails (s)he feels are not important. Find someone who is loving and caring not a control freak. 2. Interference With Other Relationships When your partner hangs out with their friends it is ok, but when you decide to hang out your friends it becomes a big deal. (S)he throws tantrums like a child and blackmails you emotionally. When you wave aside the blackmails and hang out with your friends, when you come back, there is some sort of “punishment” for leaving him/her alone. End that relationship!!! It starts that way and before you know it (s)he wants you to place them before your family. Find someone who enjoys being with most of the people you care about. If not, your relationship will be full of frustration. 3. Your Personal Life Is No Longer Personal You are out with your friends and your partner suddenly blurts out ” (s)he cries when (s)he has an climax” and when you try to call him/her on it he/she simply tells you it was just to make the conversation amusing and you are too sensitive. Whether you’re humiliated or not, as long as he/she thinks your personal life would make conversations amusing, end that relationship!! Find someone who wants you to be happy and confident about yourself and your life. 4. Cannot Let Go Of The Past We have all experienced disappointment in life, but we try as much as possible to get over it and move on with our lives. Even in relationships we have to let go of those who have huri our partner keeps on talking about his/her ex, takes you to places the ex took him/her to, hoping to run into the ex, or (s)he sometimes calls you the ex’s name, end that relationship!!!! You do not want to be with someone who is thinking of someone else half the time (s)he is with you. Find someone who is ready to have a relationship with you rather than someone trying to use to get to his/her ex. 5. Abuse No one deserves to be abused. Whether it is physical,mental or emotional, (s)he has no reason to subject you to that. When in love it is very easy to justify and explain your partner’s behaviour but you deserve better treatment from him/her if (s)he wants to be with you. End that relationship. Find someone who knows your worth and respects you. You are probably nodding your head as you are going through one or more of the above. If so, maybe it is time for you to make a change. I would never try to break a relationship, but if this post has made you take a long look at your relationship, then were you really happy to begin with??

REAL TRUTH FROM SIR RHEMA

WORTH READING Ladies! your sexual organ is not a weapon..its a gem..worth waiting for and not to be handled by clumsy hands.. DON"T Turn Your sexual organ into a Public Toilet, a Place where men go to relieve themselves. Nobody likes to spend much time in a public toilet..they are just in and out! You are better than that, worth MORE than that...you're not a Toilet. You're the temple of God. Your womb was created to birth Kings and queens and heads of states, not fatherless children...and little hearts that are not covered by caring hands. Please don't allow 7mins of pleasure to cost your children years of confusion..

WHAT YOU'VE GOT TO OPEN UP ABOUT IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

WHAT YOUV'VE GOT TO OPEN UP ABOUT IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP We know that talking about your feelings can be uncomfortable. But in order to keep your girl happy, you’re going to have to do a bit of soul baring. Don’t panic: A little goes a long way. Simply weave one of these topics into conversation and you’ll have covered your communication quota. YOUR CHILDHOOD: Remember when your dad taught you how to ride a bike? Sure, it may be a silly, sentimental story to you, but girls eat that stuff up. Women tend to be analytical about their own childhood, so if you give your girlfriend a glimpse into your upbringing, she gets a fuller idea of who you are. Sharing something as simple as your obsession with a new TV show will be enough to quench her curiosity. YOUR WORK: Unless you’re on a top-secret mission, you’re probably cool about discussing your job. So tell her when you’ve had a good day and why, what some of your frustrations are, and where you’d like to end up career-wise. ‘Men often define themselves by what they do for a living, and by talking about it, you’re showing her a side of your personality that she may not normally get to see,’ says Dr James Sniechowski. WHY YOU’RE INTO HER: You may have already told her that she’s cute or she rocks your world in bed, but your girlfriend wants sweet specifics. ‘She needs to feel that you value her and see her for who she really is,’ says Olson. ‘To reinforce that, compliment her on the less obvious things she does that appeal to you so much.’ No, that doesn’t mean you have to recite a laundry list of love-you stuff. Just focus in on key qualities like the way she laughs or how well she treats her friends. THE FUTURE: You may not have a five-year plan, but chances are, you’ve thought about where you’d like to be down the road. Do you want to start your own business? Have a getaway cabin in the mountains? If you’ve given it any thought at all – and you’re far enough along in your relationship that it would be cool to discuss it – she’s going to want to hear about it. ‘When you share your long-term goals and dreams, she not only sees what kind of man you are when you strip away your typical day-to-day exterior, but she also gets a clue as to how compatible you’ll be long-term,’ says Sniechowski. Source: Cosmopolitan

HOW TO BUILD TRUST IN UR RELATIONSHIP

This is one article one shouldn’t miss as it speaks volume in helping couples in understanding how to build a better relationship, Please do enjoy it. In any kind of relationship that you built, whether it’s work, friendship or love, trust is one of the key factors to making it work. Did you know that one of the most common reasons given for a romantic breakup or divorce is a loss of trust? If you can’t trust someone, you can’t love them. Love and trust are inseparable from each other. If you want to build a more trusting relationship with your partner, these five tips will get you on your way! 1. Tell the Truth Telling the truth can be a hard thing to do sometimes, but no matter how hard it might be, it’s the right thing to do. Even if it’s difficult, it’s not as bad as it will be if you lie and get caught. One lie can create a loss of trust that is impossible to recover. A little “white lie” can turn a small thing into a major issue. And once your partner has lost his faith in your word, he’ll be suspicious of everything you say. 2. Communicate The best path to a trusting relationship is through open and honest communication. It’s only through the time you spend talking together that you can really learn what’s going on inside of each other; and the more you know someone, the more you trust them. 3. Keep Your Promises While unforeseen circumstances can sometimes put a damper in our best laid plans, in general if you make a promise, you best be darned sure that you can keep it. If you aren’t sure, don’t make a promise, it’s that simple. It’s much better to show up with a surprise than to make a promise you can’t keep. 4. Don’t Be Afraid to Say “I was Wrong” We all make mistakes, there’s no shame to be had in it. But when it does happen, you need to own up to it and take responsibility for it. For instance, if you’ve been less than honest about something, you need to admit it to your partner and apologize – and hope that he’ll be able to forgive and continue trusting you. Coming clean is better than creating lie after lie to hide your mistake. And of course, don’t make a habit of making the same mistake. 5. Have Faith In Yourself And In Your Partner If you want your relationship to be strong, you need to know that you’ve made the right decision, and that you’re with the right person. If you aren’t sure, you won’t have the right foundation for building a strong relationship. However, when you have faith in your partner, he will have faith in you. MARIE SANCHEZ

PRACTICAL WAYS TO LIVE A BETTER LIFE

* Listen to the promptings of the heart,a little More,and listen to the complains of the Mind a little less. * Value inner peace above all other desires,if we have inner peace we will be content no matter how many material possessions we have. * Be a good listener,dont always talk about yourself * Dont expect from other people,if you expect from other people you will be disappointed at some time. * Be willing to do things without recognition its only d ego that wnts recognition * Think of others more than you think of yourself,self-givin is the secret of happiness. * Avoid acting or speaking when angry or upset. * Be tolerant of others,people are trying their own way to do the right thing * Dont try and do two things at once.if you are with someone,give your whole attention to them;dont be planning how to pay your rent or bills * Dont try to impress others,there is no need. * Dont b jealous,feel other people's success as your own * If you make a mistake,dont dwell on it.Resolve not to repeat it,then forget about it. * Dont be inflexible,be willing to change * Keep fit dont neglect the body,being active helps to avoid lethargy and boredom * Dont count your happiness through material accomplishments. HAPPINESS IS EVERYONES BIRTHRIGHT NO MATTER OUR OUTER PROSPERITY. * Love what you do even if it is the smallest action * Do not give up see obstacles as opportunity to transcend yourself * Spend sometime in solitude for reflection and meditation * Live in the present moment.the past is gone,d future is not yet here,and if we do not go back to ourselves in the present moment we cannot b in touchwith life......Thich Nhat. * Do not feel you are indispensable.this create feelings of pride * Replace a negative thought with positive thoughts * Smile * Be patient with yourself and understand others * Value the beauty of simplicity * If something is worthdoing,it is worth doing NOW,dont delay and procastinate * Never underestimate the beauty and powerof gratitude.

for the next 7days i would b discussin and bringin out somepoints on SIMPLE AND PRACTICAL WAYS TO LIVE A BETTER LIFE.if u aint in my grou( my relationship nd u) i would advice u join nw or better stil chck my site www.sirhills.blogspot.com for mor details.much luv.

The author of this article has been divorced herself and gone through countless number of relationships that have not worked, she efinitely knows what mistakes to avoid to make the relationship work. Below are some of the mistakes she’s made and her clients have made that you should avoid: 1. You ignore issues as a couple. This is probably the worst thing you can do. Sticking your head in the sand around the issues you may have in your relationship is not the way to go. The unexpressed feelings will slowly but surely start eating away at you, and over a period of time, what seemed like small annoyances will transform into massive resentments. And then before you know it, you’re hating your partner because you cannot put up with it anymore. I know this very well, as I have been there myself. Before my divorce, this is the exact state of denial that led to the demise of our relationship. I did not know how to express how I was feeling and my ex- husband simply didn’t want to hear it. The problem got bigger and bigger, and before we knew it, we stopped trusting one another and the relationship broke down completely. Instead, deal with issues as they come up. Just like when you clean your home, if you keep dusting away the cobwebs, you will create a consistently clean environment. 2. You don’t work on the relationship. Somehow, we seem to think intimate relationships will run on their own fuel without putting much effort into them. This is simply not true! A relationship needs work — just as a car needs fine-tuning. At the very least, understand how relationships work; and at the very most, work on yourself and what you bring to the relationship. Healthy and fulfilling relationships happen from the inside out. I made this mistake and paid dearly for it. I kept wanting to change my ex-husband, thinking he was the problem, when in fact, it was me all along! Work on you first; learn about how relationships work and the rest will follow. 3. You don’t learn how to effectively communicate. As I’ve already mentioned, good communication is one of the cornerstones of creating a fulfilling relationship. However, there’s a right way to fight and a wrong way to fight. Resorting to “blame and shame” tactics will destroy any trust you’ve built and while it’s a normal defense mechanism, all it does is result in the attacked spouse shutting down. In my first marriage, I used this tactic all the time, which only caused heartache and disconnection. Learn to communicate clearly, listen intently and give yourself the time and space to do so safely. If not, divorce will be imminent. 4. You don’t spend enough time together. One of the other cornerstones to any successful relationship is giving yourself the time to connect with one another. If you are not giving yourself the time to do this, then you will feel disconnected and distant. This is also one of the biggest errors I made in my own marriage. Before I knew it, my ex-husband and I were completely disconnected and were living parallel lives, which exacerbated our differences as opposed to highlighting our similarities. Go for walks together, put time in your calendar for a date night, go away without cell phones together. Talk, laugh and above all, create memories if you want to avoid going down the rocky road of divorce. 5. You don’t delegate jobs. Living with another person can drive us insane. Messy people end up marrying neat people and unhealthy people marry healthy people. Whatever the scenario, there are going to be guaranteed differences in how two people live. What ends up happening is one person in a relationship feels resentful about the fact that they had to carry the load in their relationship. For example, arguments about cleaning used to happen regularly in my household. Now, we just delegate the work to someone who loves doing it! She gets what she wants and we do too. Does it cost money? Sure it does. Does it save us time and arguments? Yes, and we’ll end up saving on divorce bills too. To avoid going down the rocky road of divorce, you will need to confront the brutal facts, learn to communicate properly, work on the relationship, spend time together and delegate the jobs you don’t want to do to someone that does. It may sound like a lot of work, but it beats the heartbreak of signing divorce papers. Source: Huffington Post

Have you ever known a girl you felt is the right woman for you? Everything seems perfect, except for one thing, she does not feel the same way you do and she wastes no time in telling it to you? well, I would be letting you know how to handle this kind of situation if you are in one or you ever find yourself in one in the future. You see, women have far more insecurities than men do and so they intelligently let their systems adapt to these insecurities by creating defense mechanisms to protect themselves from our world’s many insecurities. Having said this, it is quite possible that this woman you have feelings for could be playing a game, ‘testing’ on you in some way, building herself into some sort of challenge and making you fight for her, or she could honestly and candidly not share your feelings and is not the type that beats around the bush but maybe, still enjoys your friendship. However the case may be, the best decision you can make for yourself is to walk away. Huh? Did you hear me say “walk away”? No bro, you want me to send it to your email address? Of course, you should walk away. Say a huge ‘NO’ to her friendship proposal and move on with your life. She obviously likes you, for her to still want to be your friend and I bet the reason is ‘cuz she thinks you are a really ‘nice’ guy but you have to remind yourself that you are the man and as the man, you make the rules (at least I think so). Personally, I think being ‘friends’ with a woman you are attracted to does more harm than good, if it does any good at all. It puts her in control and trust me, women don’t like to be in control, I mean, they crave authority especially if it is over a man, but a woman can hardly stand a man she can control. More so, staying away gives her the opportunity to ‘miss you’. No, no, no, no, don’t get me wrong, I am not saying you should not follow your heart or whatever phrase you described being friend-zoned by the woman you have feelings for, I am just saying that you should look at your options, critically. Weigh them… Learn their benefits and consequences, then, my dear friend, you are good to go.' A wise man wrote in a book, ” Use your absence to increase respect and honor”. think about it. *wink*

SìNÇÉRÉ by Sir Rhema Hills

SINCERE... Waking up to a bright newday Wishing it was a twin I meant the birth of success and favour i've got to be real on this one Stand for who i really am. But really who am i? Am i who people think i am? How can i live eachday not knowing who i am or who i want to be Living all for myself was the best,but living for others could be failure Have i ever tried something new? Something genuine? Something i could call my own thing? Something i could mix with the new day i woke to see and end up calling it my natural me? Taking note of all your move just because you are being watched makes you an actor But staying true to who you really are makes you a better persön Pleasing folks can be very challenging and frustrating Why dont you try something new... Please yourself today;i mean live and stop acting your existence You are not who you are when someone have to spell what you will do tomorrow Dont struggle to blend but struggle to create your own blend Which is much more important, being popular or being urself? People never care what you would be tomorrow,they just want to know what you will be today... You are unique You are special You have your own special offer Show what you really have and not what people have to offer you This i call SìñÇerè.. All rights reserved under international copyright law.contents may not be reproduced in whole or in part without the express written permission of Adamnest Publishing

FREETALK: love nd reLatiOnship

FREETALK: love nd reLatiOnship: LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP by sir Hills By SirRhema Hills Oyi-obute Flower LOVE & RELATIONSHIP Love is a simple word but with a very complex ...

‘I’ve Left Chocolate City’ – Jesse Jagz

Trouble in the Chocolate City camp; top producer and one time front line artiste Jesse GarbaAbaga has announced he has parted ways with the popular record label. Jesee Jagz a few hours ago via his personal Facebook account shocked fans worldwide when hecategorically stated that he was taking a ‘voluntary exit from the label’. His statement below reads: ‘ I, Jesse Garba Abaga (also known as “Jesse Jagz”) an artist formerly signed to Chocolate CityMusic label hereby wishes to notify my fans and the general public about my voluntary exit from the label ‘, he shockingly announced. He then goes on to explain that his initial contractual agreement with the label had expired and he is not willing to move on with a new one. ‘ After my initial two year contractual agreement with Chocolate City, I do not wish to renew my contract with them and as such have proceeded to continue my music career with my new team at Jesse Jagz Nation. ‘ I still maintain a cordial relationship with the management of Chocolate City and my former label mates and Iwish them the best in all their future endeavors’, he explained. Jesse has also announced that hewill be releasing his long awaited second album under his own imprint JagzNation . ‘ Any further information will be passed acrossthrough my publicist but until then, have a good day. Look out for my sophomore album JagZNation Vol. 1 coming out in July 2013 . Jesse’s manager could not be reached for comments as his mobile phone was switched off. He did not respond to text messages also. Top executive at the label Audu Maikori and another rep for the label Aibee Abidoye could also not be reached as they didn’t reply theirE-mails as at the time of this report. Jesse Jagz, 28, signed unto to the label along with his elder brotherJude ‘M.I’ Abaga in 2008 after the latter became an instant success with his debut ‘ Talk About It ‘. Jesse Jagz in late 2009 went on torelease his debut ‘Jagz of All Trades’ which spuned the hit songs ‘Wetin dey’ amongst other chart topping songs. Story developing.

love nd reLatiOnship

LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP by sir Hills By SirRhema Hills Oyi-obute Flower LOVE & RELATIONSHIP Love is a simple word but with a very complex and sometimes confusing meaning. Love is beyond caring,kindness,sharing....strange but true love is harsh,love is chastising,love is stuborn,love is misunderstanding. It is only the person you love that you have misunderstanding with,you chastise,someone you dont love is that person that you dont have any reason to quarel with most times. Relationship can go in any two ways: 1. It can be based on love 2. It can be based on attached strings Most persons are in a relationship but not all are in love.some are even confused on whether or not they are in love. How can you know if your relationship is based on love? Ans: if you and your partner can sit together for 2hrs and have a decent and positive conversation without any intimacy. I understand that somepeople are not the talking type but can you listen to your partner for 2hrs? In summary,a true relationship that is built on love is one that seeks the future,not one that is just after the present. All rights reserved under international copyright law.contents may not be reproduced in whole or in part without the express written permission of Adamnest Publishing

the #VèxING SùÑ by sir Hills

D' VEXING SùN Standing in the middle of my shadow With raindrops falling from above All i feel is heat from the sun A beam of light then a storm Oh! My God... That was strikening,yes that was lightening. Now in a confused state Where do i go from here When within my roof am all soaked.... I wish i was cold What a dying wind,like sir m' would say. Well,i think the wind is just dead Now looking up to the choking cloud Just as the sergent burns the bushes Whose gona save our cloud How long will she continue to weep Now the sun is angry Staring at me Even when i tried explaining He doesn't wanna listen, What a harsh weather i complained Now i suffer the sin of the sergent That was burning the bushes even in the middle of the rain Please stop this shit, Stop the global warming The sun is vexing We are getting closer to hell The earth is all we've got.... I pray the cloud is not sick,cos the wind is already dead,the sun is too cold to bear the heat from the crying cloud. All rights reserved under international copyright law.contents may not be reproduced in whole or in part without the express written permission of Adamnest Publishing

definition of life 2 by sir hills

THE TRUE MEANING OF LIFE PT.2 Life is a personal experience. Life is a free gift from God to man,you were given life for a purpose. Until you understand the reason for your existence you might just be living without a life. Life is not a race,never you say your life is a race cos a race is a running competition; therefore in life you are not competing with anyone, Life is a personal journey,it does not matter how long you get to fulfillment,but how well you are fulfilled. If you try to run in this life,you will end-up being frustrated; do not compare yourself with anyone,cos your destination and purpose is very different. Many people are in a fast/speed lane trying to run as fast as they can,just to be like others; The question is, how fast can you run to beat Gods will for your life. If you still think life is a race,then I must tell you,slow and steady wins the race,overspeeding kills. Do not follow another man's path to fulfil your purpose in life,instead follow God's will for your life. It is good to be determined,it is also good to be hardworking;but at the sametime,know this: Your fulfilment in life,is never determined by your struggles,but your commitment to God's work. Money dont bring fulfilment,your career dont bring fulfilment. The fact that you are married dont give you happiness. The only thing that can give you fulfilment is to work according to God's purpose. You know why? Cos God knows the end from the begining and that is why he is concious of the end. The reason for your existence is for you to make a difference. Cause a change to happen; that is your responsibility. You are to make a positive impact and leave a longlasting legacy. Do not be so selfish about your achievement,instead let your achievement bring a change to the society you find yourself. This is the reason why we are called the light of the world. This is why we are alive. Life is a personal experience but life itself is not personal. Life is a journey between you and God,and God is the one leading the way. All rights reserved under international copyright law.contents may not be reproduced in whole or in part without the express written permission of Adamnest Publishing

Actor Emeka Ike Brings 50 Cent To Nigeria In New Nollywood Movie

Actor Emeka Ike Brings 50 Cent To Nigeria In New Nollywood Movie If what we hear is true then American rapper, 50 Cent is onhis way to Nigeria to feature in a flick, which would be produced and directed by Emeka Ik e. A source close to Ike disclosed that the movie is a spin off of theactor’s involvement with the training of ex-militants from the Niger Delta, a project he is so dedicated to. “This is a big one for Nollywood. As you read this, plans have been concluded to bring 50 Cent to Nigeria to feature in a new movie. And guess what? He would be starring alongsideNigerian big names including ex-militants who have renounced violence for peace. The ex-militants underwent special training in acting, cinematography and the basicsof filmmaking and production under Emeka Ike in Ghana . This is the first of such films; many more are on the way. The objective is to practically demonstrate how movies could be used as a tool for empowering restive Nigerian youths,” the source states. Skoops further learnt that work on the movie will begin before the end of the first quarter of this year. (DAILY SUN)

Unbelievable: Woman Beats Boyfriend To Death Over Phone-Call

A woman has been arrested by the policeafter she brutally killed her boyfriend by hitting him with an empty beer bottle on the forehead several times. 30-year-old Winnet turned violent, accusingher late boyfriend, Simon (33) of infidelity after the deceased had received a phone call. The infuriated Winner was eager to know the identity of the caller buther boyfriend failed to answer her. This resulted in the bottle assault. Police confirmed the murder which happened on December 22 at a bottle store in Chikanga. Police spokesman said: “The couple was drinking beer at around7.30 pm when Simon received a phone call from an unknown person. Winnet quizzed him over who had called but Simon could not give a satisfactory answer. A quarrel ensued and the accusedpicked an empty beer bottle and hit him several times on the forehead. She went on to assault him. He was ferried to Mutare General Hospital, Zimbabwe where he was admitted after he had lost a lot of blood.” He was later released on December 26 after his health condition improved. However, thefollowing day he startedcomplaining of a headache. “His condition deteriorated and he died on December 30. Winnet was arrested and is assisting police with investigations.” “We urge couples to solve disputes amicably.The couple should haveeasily talked this issue over rather than resorting to fighting. Wealso advice partners notto be jealous since it may result into something nasty if not properly handled,” the police spokesman said

Ekiti State Deputy Governor, Funmi Olayinka Battles Cancer, Resigns Her Appointment Secretly

Jan 7, 2013 – Ekiti State Deputy Governor, Funmi Olayinka Battles Cancer, Resigns Her Appointment Secretly Mrs Funmi Olayinka , the current deputy governor of Ekiti State Nigeria has resigned her appointment secretly after a long-time secretbattle with cancer . www.naijagists.com According to insiders, the beautiful woman has stepped down due to her failing health. We learnt Funmi Olayinka has been battling the cancer for sometime now before she finally made up her mind to take time out. Olayinka Funmilayo , the former boss at United Bank Of Africa quit her position for active politics. According to National Enquirer magazine, all effort to get her Chief of Staff, Mr Mojeed Jamiuon the phone proved abortive. His phone rang severally with no one to pick it up. Though Ekiti state government said she hasn’t resign her position, sources in the know claimed she has secretly stepped down. Stay in touch as this story unfolds.

Late Nollywood Actress Bisi Komolafe’s Friend Blasts HerFiance – “Her Spirit Will Never Let You Rest”

Jan 7, 2013 – Late Nollywood Actress Bisi Komolafe’s Friend Blasts Her Fiance – “Her Spirit Will Never Let You Rest” In response to our article “ Late Nigerian Actress, Bisi Komolafe’s Canada-Based Fiance Speaks Up – “Spiritual Attack Killed Her ”, a bossom friend of Bisi Komolafe has come open to reveal the never before secret surrounding her untimely death . www.naijagists.com The deceased’s fiance identifiedas Babatunde Ijaodola popularly called Alhaji Tunde has been blamed for hiding heruntil she is close to her grave. Bisi’s bossom friend who called her fiance Alhaji Tunde blamedhim for the cause of her death . Here is what the individual said: Alhaji am disappointed in you.You called yourself alhaji, yet you visit herbalist and Pastors like visiting Epe. Is everydeath spiritual? You told bisi your dad’s death was spiritual even though it was confirmed he had high BP that led to stroke. The reason her family didn’t let you and your mother take her to the herbalist is because they don’t trust you and they believe you are the reason for her sickness. Bisi started her sickness before u travelled to Canada, you claim u love her but abandoned her when she needed you. Only for u to come back and say she need spiritual care. Alhaji tunde YOUare d one who need spiritual care. The only truth u have saidhere is that you have are Honda Pilot, you lived in her house and that she was living inAjao estate when u met her. MC musiliu rented d ajao estateapt for her but sent her packing when he caught you there with her. How come she forgot to tell us dat you rented the Ikorodu aptfor her? Alhaji e beru olohun o. And what do you mean bisi’sparents, all she had were her extended families. Her mom is dead and u don’t expect her dad to run after u with a cutlass. Why are u even going back and fort to Canada? Bisi said you stay with friends and udon’t even have business there,y are deceiving yourself and ppl? I hope Bisi’s spirit never let you rest. Everyone warned her that this man abandoning his kids and wife for you, will definitely hurt u one day, but she was too in love with the wrong person. Am begging bisi’s family to speak out about her last few months and expose this scumbag. I can only say much as a friend, please do the right thing Alhaji av you forgotten that Bisidemanded you take her to her ppl in Ibadan when she saw that the sickness was going out of hand and your Fetish way couldn’t help her. You claim u are from a good home, you areonly living on your father’s pastglory. You av nothing, what is ur business address here in Nigeria? You buy one car at a time and u call that car business abi? You are doomed. You don’t even have a car of your own. The few times I av met you, you were driving Bisi’scar. So what are we talking about.

Jenifa To Make A Comeback – Funke Akindele

And just when we thought the very popular character of Jenifa ended with that sequel, the producer and actress of the Jenifarole has revealed that aJenifa movie is in the offing and will soon hit the market/cinemas andit will be about the trip of Jenifa to Jamaica andNew York. Jenifa, a movie that portrays the life of a semi-literate girl from the village and follows her life from there to the city where she startsto live a false life and engages in immoral actsto maintain a flashy lifestyle. The fourth sequel which focus on Jenifa’s international exploit. According to her, the movie was shot in Caribbean Island of Jamaica and New York.

Jonathan blames Nigerians for challenges

From JULIANA TAIWO-OBALONYE, Abuja President Goodluck Jonathan yesterday blamed the behaviour of some Nigerians and some of the vices they engage in on the current challenges facing the country, urging religious groups to play more critical role in moulding the character of their followers.The president stated this at the Mass put together by the Catholic Archdiocese of Abuja, to celebrate the 30th Episcopal ordination and celebration of the elevation of John Cardinal Onaiyekan to the status of Cardinal by Pope Benedict XV1.He called on Nigerians to eschew violence and embrace dialogue as a means of settling disputes. “The Church, the government and the political actors have the same responsibilities and we believe that the Church is atthe centre of society building. “Some of the challenges we face today are because of the character our people have. If the Church moulds the people especially starting from the children, Nigeria will be a better place. “For us, we believe that the church is at the centre of societal building, because, someof the challenges that we face today is because of the kind of character that our people have.If the church can mould characters properly, especially starting from childhood, Nigeriawill surely be a better place,” he said. Jonathan who was accompanied by his mother, some cabinet ministers and his aides, also noted that none of the two religions preaches violence, adding that their foundations were rooted in love and peaceful co-existence.“We all know that no religion preaches or encourages violence and hate. Both the two major religions preach loveand peaceful co-existence. This is of course their foundation.” The President appealed to Christians to continue to explore peaceful means of resolve conflicts. Jonathan while re-echoing Onaiyekan who spoke earlier, said. “As His Grace said that he cannot worship the gods that kill the people he himself created. We also believe that anyone who raises weapon to kill anyone created by God cannot be worshipping God. I totally agree with his Lordship”. He commended Pope Benedict XVI for honouring Nigeria by elevating Onaiyekan to the status of Cardinal and also commended the Head of the Roman Catholic Church for helping to promote inter-religious harmony in Nigeria as well as reconciliation amongst all religious groups in the country. “I believe that his elevation is an evidence of the Vatican’s continued recognitionof the immense contributions of the Church in Nigeria to the worldwide Catholic movement.” The President added, “It is not the Catholic church in Nigeria alone, but the entire world thatis celebrating with him.” He described Onaiyekan as a humble man with a great visionand learning who had fully dedicated himself to the serviceof God. “I see in his appointment, a recognition for those who work and toil for peace like him and for reconciliation amongst men. I also see it as a great privilege for our country.” Jonathan alsocharged the political class especially the political parties tolive up to their responsibilities. “When John Cardinal Onaiyeken was making reference to the goodwill messages he received from certain individuals, the ANPP, Chairman of PDP, as he mentioned the different group of people, I was quite happy. That goes to show that the church, the government, the political actors are the same and have the same responsibility.” He described Onaiyekan’s meteoric rise to hiscurrent position as a “prince of the Roman Catholic Church” asa significant achievement worthy of emulation. He however, noted that the elevation had placed extra responsibilities on him for moreservice to humanity. Cardinal Onaiyekan in his message noted that of the 14 of them who were Ordained Bishop in 1983, two were from Nigeria himself and Bishop Kelvin Aje, now retired Bishop of Sokoto. The story of the Epiphany, he said heralded the annual event in the Catholic Church to celebrate the commemoration of the visit of the three wise men from the East at the birth of Jesus. Onaiyekan condemned killing in the name of religion and warned that Nigeria was fast attracting the negative image ofa nation of religious violence He recalled the response of King Harold to the birth of Jesus Christ when he ordered the killing of innocent children and urged Nigerians to pray that their “names may be remembered for good things and not like that of King Harold who ordered the killing of children and Pontious Pilate who ordered the killing of Jesus.”

definition of life by sir hills

THE TRUE MEANING OF LIFE PT.2 Life is a personal experience. Life is a free gift from God to man,you were given life for a purpose. Until you understand the reason for your existence you might just be living without a life. Life is not a race,never you say your life is a race cos a race is a running competition; therefore in life you are not competing with anyone, Life is a personal journey,it does not matter how long you get to fulfillment,but how well you are fulfilled. If you try to run in this life,you will end-up being frustrated; do not compare yourself with anyone,cos your destination and purpose is very different. Many people are in a fast/speed lane trying to run as fast as they can,just to be like others; The question is, how fast can you run to beat Gods will for your life. If you still think life is a race,then I must tell you,slow and steady wins the race,overspeeding kills. Do not follow another man's path to fulfil your purpose in life,instead follow God's will for your life. It is good to be determined,it is also good to be hardworking;but at the sametime,know this: Your fulfilment in life,is never determined by your struggles,but your commitment to God's work. Money dont bring fulfilment,your career dont bring fulfilment. The fact that you are married dont give you happiness. The only thing that can give you fulfilment is to work according to God's purpose. You know why? Cos God knows the end from the begining and that is why he is concious of the end. The reason for your existence is for you to make a difference. Cause a change to happen; that is your responsibility. You are to make a positive impact and leave a longlasting legacy. Do not be so selfish about your achievement,instead let your achievement bring a change to the society you find yourself. This is the reason why we are called the light of the world. This is why we are alive. Life is a personal experience but life itself is not personal. Life is a journey between you and God,and God is the one leading the way. All rights reserved under international copyright law.contents may not be reproduced in whole or in part without the express written permission of Adamnest Publishing

Justin Bieber Reacts To Marijuana Photos

Pictures of Justin Bieber holding what appears to be a marijuana cigarette surfaced online over the weekend. The pictures didn’t actually show Bieber inhale the blunt, and no one can see if what’s rolled inside is indeed weed, but the 18-year-old took to his Twitter account with some apologetic words. “Every day growing andlearning. Trying to be better. U get knocked down, u get up,” the “Baby” singer tweeted several hours after the images surfaced. “I see all of u. I hear all of u. Inever want to let any ofyou down. I love u.” Bieber, who kicked off his tour on January 5 in Salt Lake City, Utah, didn’t directly address the photos in his tweets.“Like I said…2013…new challenges. new doubters…Im ready,” hewrote. “We are ready. see u all tomorrow and everyday after that.” Bieber has been tweeting messages for his haters for a few days now, though. Before the incriminatingimages even surfaced he was getting philosophical. “Another year. another year to be doubted. another year to work hard and prove them wrong. another year we are coming out of the gate strong,” he rhymed.

THE TRUE MEANING OF LIFE.by sir Rhema Hills

THE TRUE MEANING OF LIFE PT.2 Life is a personal experience. Life is a free gift from God to man,you were given life for a purpose. Until you understand the reason for your existence you might just be living without a life. Life is not a race,never you say your life is a race cos a race is a running competition; therefore in life you are not competing with anyone, Life is a personal journey,it does not matter how long you get to fulfillment,but how well you are fulfilled. If you try to run in this life,you will end-up being frustrated; do not compare yourself with anyone,cos your destination and purpose is very different. Many people are in a fast/speed lane trying to run as fast as they can,just to be like others; The question is, how fast can you run to beat Gods will for your life. If you still think life is a race,then I must tell you,slow and steady wins the race,overspeeding kills. Do not follow another man's path to fulfil your purpose in life,instead follow God's will for your life. It is good to be determined,it is also good to be hardworking;but at the sametime,know this: Your fulfilment in life,is never determined by your struggles,but your commitment to God's work. Money dont bring fulfilment,your career dont bring fulfilment. The fact that you are married dont give you happiness. The only thing that can give you fulfilment is to work according to God's purpose. You know why? Cos God knows the end from the begining and that is why he is concious of the end. The reason for your existence is for you to make a difference. Cause a change to happen; that is your responsibility. You are to make a positive impact and leave a longlasting legacy. Do not be so selfish about your achievement,instead let your achievement bring a change to the society you find yourself. This is the reason why we are called the light of the world. This is why we are alive. Life is a personal experience but life itself is not personal. Life is a journey between you and God,and God is the one leading the way. All rights reserved under international copyright law.contents may not be reproduced in whole or in part without the express written permission of Adamnest Publishing

Reasons BehindStyl Plus’ Break Up

According to what we gathered, the group fora long time knew their brand was no longer formidable but were not willing to go down without a fight. The uncertainty of life outside the name ‘Styl Plus’ held them back, although, briefly. A source disclosed, “It was only their first album that made an impact. The second album was barely felt and the other singles they dropped just didn’tmake any impact. Theseguys knew the show was over long ago but they were scared of letting go. But now the sad truth has hit them that the brand is dead, they have all decided togo their separate ways,”the source said. Another source hints that the real reason thegroup fell apart was because of pride: “Theywere so popular when Olufunmi hit the airwaves and they were everywhere. “Repeated attempts to get them to relocate to Lagos where the action is, failed. Though, some members wanted to relocate but one of them who was doing oiland gas and government contracts refused and that is the real reason Styl Plus broke up. Right now, Zeal is feeling very bad about it and is making attempts to revive his career. “There is even talk he isdiscussing with Don Jazzy to give him a shot at Mavin Records” the source squealed.