HOW TO LOVE .2 by Sir.Hills

Options True Relationship with Hillz · 64 like this September 21 at 9:24pm · HOW TO LOVE.2. EPISODE 2- LEARNING TO LOVE YOURSELF 1. Begin by loving yourself: You can only truly love another being when you love yourself properly. Otherwise, you risk spending a lot of your life projecting insecurities, pain and other negative emotions onto other people. People who do this tend to see the worst in other people so as to avoid facing that insecurity, pain, or negativity in themselves. - Loving yourself is not about putting yourself before others — that's another form of confusion. Loving yourself is about having self- respect, discovering what really makes you tick, and spending your life being true to your real talents. 2. Forgive yourself and give yourself license to make mistakes: Don't be too hard on yourself. Life is short, and it's about learning. You won't learn unless you make mistakes. Give yourself license to make mistakes, and then love who you are for all your imperfections. - If you love yourself only for being perfect, you're probably making two mistakes: - Thinking that you are perfect when it's probably not the case. Unless you're a new super-breed of human, you're probably deluding yourself a little bit. -Holding yourself at a double-standard. You don't expect everyone else to be perfect, so why do you expect perfection from yourself? Treat everyone, yourself included, by the same standards. 3. Know what loving yourself feels like: Once you learn to love yourself, you won't feel threatened by others' success (real or apparent). You won't constantly compare yourself to others. You'll be able to share your love freely with other people. You'll feel good about yourself even when you're feeling down. You'll feel proud without being cocky; optimistic without being oblivious; and free without being paralyzed by freedom. You'll feel unafraid to cry. -To love truly is not only having a capacity to give love, but also to gracefully open your heart to receive love. Know that you deserve love. You are worthy of love. The more you feel love in your heart, the more you are able to give love to others. 6Like · · Share Blessing Onuorah Nice one from u dear September 23 at 11:00am via mobile · Like Boost Post 91 people saw this post

HOW TO LOVE .1 by Sir Hills

Options True Relationship with Hillz · 64 like this September 18 at 5:29pm · HOW TO LOVE .1. Love is expressed as an action and experienced as a feeling. Yet, love has an essence that resists defining in any single way — it encompasses compassion, determination, tolerance, endurance, support, faith, and much more. If you're in the dark about how to love, this article should give you some food for thought, and perhaps teach you a little bit about how to love yourself, love the world, and love other people just a little bit more. EPISODE 1 What Love Looks Like 1. Acknowledge the breadth of love . Love isn't simply about romance — to define it so narrowly is to deprive yourself of the beauty and full extent of love. Love is a feeling, drive, or emotion that we experience usually with people, but also with pursuits, other animals, and nature in general. If you're looking for it, love can be found in many places, situations and relationships. * Love is shared between people — our parents and children, siblings, spouses and partners, dates, friends, neighbors, community members and humanity. *It's found in the passion for the things you do in your life, including work, hobbies, volunteering and the like; it can be found when you're at your most creative, or "in the flow." * Love happens when you embrace the wonderful awesomeness of life, as you acknowledge how incredible this world really is, how intricate and complex life is. *Love is found in observing nature, in spending time with companion animals, and in learning about other living beings in the world. *Love is at its most giving when it is altruistic, shown to a stranger we may never meet again. * Love cannot be pigeonholed — it's never just or only one thing; it happens whenever your heart is open to receiving beauty and wonder of people, things and events around you. 2. Begin to recognize what love isn't . Because love can't be pigeonholed, it's sometimes hard to say it is one things and it isn't another. But in general, people agree that love is selfless, lasting, and larger than yourself. In general, people also agree that love isn't the same as: - Feelings of lust (e.g., purely sexual interest) -Ownership or control (co-dependency or manipulation) -Obsessive worrying (over-involved parenting or a spouse always checking up) - Neediness (insecurity or low self-esteem) and so forth. - Love isn't a tool for using people or binding them to your side; if you find yourself calling these actions "love," it may be a good idea to investigate what other people mean by love. 6Like · · Share Blessing Onuorah, Funmi Ayandosu and Eddiecuteboy Jostified Ezenyinwa like this. Blessing Onuorah I am loving dis write up wen will d next episode be ready September 19 at 6:53pm via mobile · Like SirRhema Hills Oyi-obute Flower very soon,u cud share with frnds to enjoy wat u just read. September 19 at 7:07pm via mobile · Like Blessing Onuorah Okay September 20 at 2:11pm via mobile · Like