Reiteration by Michael "Sir M.B" Oyadonghan

I aint written for a while, hell, I aint even smiled, but she's so beautiful, I swear I heard my soul cry, I aint tripping, but sh!t's convoluted, black and blue, Bvlgari Aqva whenever I'm wearing black or blue, you don't gotta ask why, but you can ask the doctor, who? je m'appelle Michael, Sir Bitches' lost in tha loop, My pulse's ringing, so I guess it must be true. damn, it mght be true, cuz I'm at war like it's 1942, I aint been this way in a while, this sh!t must be new, I'm glued to the truth so, okay, yeah, it must be true. I'm through with all da BS, Life's a bitch, it must be running on a vista OS, welcome to ma world, here's yo nintendo DS, you're so cute, so you get a 5 star request, at your request, Slow Mo, here's your 8 star index.

7 THINGS YOUR FRIENDS DON'T NEED TO KNOW ABOUT YOUR RELATIOBSHIP

7 THINGS YOUR FRIENDS DON'T NEED TO KNOW ABOUT YOUR RELATIOBSHIP I’m a firm believer that you should share your life with your friends and that it’s important to be able to vent to them about the things in your everyday life. That being said, there are SOME things you should NOT tell your friends about your relationships. This is my list of the things not to tell your friends about your relationships. 1. FIGHTS It’s okay to tell your friends about your relationship, it’s even okay to tell them when you get into a fight. But never go into the specifics unless you’re asking for an HONEST opinion. Friends that ask you to tell them if they’re being crazy about a fight that they’re having but don’t actually want to hear your opinion, are awkward people. So lets all keep our domestics to ourselves. 2. Séx Don’t tell your friends the specifics of your séx life. Don’t tell them about any kinks your partner has because from that point on, your friend will never be able to look them in the eye again. 3. MONEY PROBLEMS It’s okay to talk to your friends about money problems of your own but it’s not okay to bring your significant other’s finances into that conversation. A lot of people are very sensitive about what they perceive as weakness and that’s never a line you want to cross. 4. CHEATING (IF YOU’RE WORKING IT OUT) If someone cheats on you and you dump them, feel free to tell all of your friends (and a few strangers) how much of a scumbag they are. But, if you’re working it out, NEVER tell your friends that your significant other has cheated. You may forgive them because you love them but your friends love you, and they won’t. 5. PROBLEMS IN THE BEDROOM Once again, once you talk about this with your friends, they will never look at your partner the same way again. Your friends don’t need to know if you need to talk your significant other in for little blue pills. That’s something you should keep between you and your partner. 6. YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER’S PROBLEMS Your friends are YOUR friends, and your partners problems really aren’t yours to share. Let your partner talk about their problems with whoever they choose. It’s not fair for your friends to know everything about your significant other’s life. 7. YOU SIGNIFICANT OTHER’S PAST RELATIONSHIPS Once again, your friends are YOUR friends. They don’t need to know that four years ago the person you’re with had his heart-broken by an even woman named Tina. If that’s something they want to share with your friends, let them. But that isn’t exactly your place. I know that we all want to believe that we live in a world like Séx and The City where we can all sit down with our girlfriends and discuss everything about everything in our lives. But, the truth is martinis and cosmos and endless conversations might be great on TV, but in real life they can get a little awkward when you see your Carrie’s Big on the street.

HOW TO LOVE .2 by Sir.Hills

Options True Relationship with Hillz · 64 like this September 21 at 9:24pm · HOW TO LOVE.2. EPISODE 2- LEARNING TO LOVE YOURSELF 1. Begin by loving yourself: You can only truly love another being when you love yourself properly. Otherwise, you risk spending a lot of your life projecting insecurities, pain and other negative emotions onto other people. People who do this tend to see the worst in other people so as to avoid facing that insecurity, pain, or negativity in themselves. - Loving yourself is not about putting yourself before others — that's another form of confusion. Loving yourself is about having self- respect, discovering what really makes you tick, and spending your life being true to your real talents. 2. Forgive yourself and give yourself license to make mistakes: Don't be too hard on yourself. Life is short, and it's about learning. You won't learn unless you make mistakes. Give yourself license to make mistakes, and then love who you are for all your imperfections. - If you love yourself only for being perfect, you're probably making two mistakes: - Thinking that you are perfect when it's probably not the case. Unless you're a new super-breed of human, you're probably deluding yourself a little bit. -Holding yourself at a double-standard. You don't expect everyone else to be perfect, so why do you expect perfection from yourself? Treat everyone, yourself included, by the same standards. 3. Know what loving yourself feels like: Once you learn to love yourself, you won't feel threatened by others' success (real or apparent). You won't constantly compare yourself to others. You'll be able to share your love freely with other people. You'll feel good about yourself even when you're feeling down. You'll feel proud without being cocky; optimistic without being oblivious; and free without being paralyzed by freedom. You'll feel unafraid to cry. -To love truly is not only having a capacity to give love, but also to gracefully open your heart to receive love. Know that you deserve love. You are worthy of love. The more you feel love in your heart, the more you are able to give love to others. 6Like · · Share Blessing Onuorah Nice one from u dear September 23 at 11:00am via mobile · Like Boost Post 91 people saw this post

HOW TO LOVE .1 by Sir Hills

Options True Relationship with Hillz · 64 like this September 18 at 5:29pm · HOW TO LOVE .1. Love is expressed as an action and experienced as a feeling. Yet, love has an essence that resists defining in any single way — it encompasses compassion, determination, tolerance, endurance, support, faith, and much more. If you're in the dark about how to love, this article should give you some food for thought, and perhaps teach you a little bit about how to love yourself, love the world, and love other people just a little bit more. EPISODE 1 What Love Looks Like 1. Acknowledge the breadth of love . Love isn't simply about romance — to define it so narrowly is to deprive yourself of the beauty and full extent of love. Love is a feeling, drive, or emotion that we experience usually with people, but also with pursuits, other animals, and nature in general. If you're looking for it, love can be found in many places, situations and relationships. * Love is shared between people — our parents and children, siblings, spouses and partners, dates, friends, neighbors, community members and humanity. *It's found in the passion for the things you do in your life, including work, hobbies, volunteering and the like; it can be found when you're at your most creative, or "in the flow." * Love happens when you embrace the wonderful awesomeness of life, as you acknowledge how incredible this world really is, how intricate and complex life is. *Love is found in observing nature, in spending time with companion animals, and in learning about other living beings in the world. *Love is at its most giving when it is altruistic, shown to a stranger we may never meet again. * Love cannot be pigeonholed — it's never just or only one thing; it happens whenever your heart is open to receiving beauty and wonder of people, things and events around you. 2. Begin to recognize what love isn't . Because love can't be pigeonholed, it's sometimes hard to say it is one things and it isn't another. But in general, people agree that love is selfless, lasting, and larger than yourself. In general, people also agree that love isn't the same as: - Feelings of lust (e.g., purely sexual interest) -Ownership or control (co-dependency or manipulation) -Obsessive worrying (over-involved parenting or a spouse always checking up) - Neediness (insecurity or low self-esteem) and so forth. - Love isn't a tool for using people or binding them to your side; if you find yourself calling these actions "love," it may be a good idea to investigate what other people mean by love. 6Like · · Share Blessing Onuorah, Funmi Ayandosu and Eddiecuteboy Jostified Ezenyinwa like this. Blessing Onuorah I am loving dis write up wen will d next episode be ready September 19 at 6:53pm via mobile · Like SirRhema Hills Oyi-obute Flower very soon,u cud share with frnds to enjoy wat u just read. September 19 at 7:07pm via mobile · Like Blessing Onuorah Okay September 20 at 2:11pm via mobile · Like

7 REASONS LADIES FALL FOR THE WRONG GUY

Here are a few reasons why women fall for the wrong man: 1. Ladies, you know how people always say, “Actions speak louder than words?” Well, this very saying is getting a lot of you in big trouble. Yes, actions do speak, but please understand actions also lie and in some cases lie more than words. Actions only speak louder when the heart and motives of the person pursing you is pure. If that is not the case, then what you have is manipulation and womanizing. Many men already know they can fool you with actions and words, so stop believing actions mean anything unless it’s done consistently over a long period of time. Don’t forget this consistency also includes you. Your job is not to sit around and watch what he does while you do nothing. That is selfish and speaks of fear, etc. 2. You have s*x with a man and become closer to him than you really think you are. s*x causes soul ties and makes you emotional, thus you feel closer to a man than you really are. I don’t have to tell you how to avoid this mistake you, because you already know. Good or great s*x will always cause a woman to be with a man longer than she should and be with the wrong man. 3. Women are moved by beautiful things like shoes, curtains, homes, candles and a handsome man. There is more to a man than his looks. If you fall easy for nice looking men, find out why and make the correction. 4. You are a 30+ year old woman who is worried about being married, having kids before a certain age, or believing the lie there is something wrong with you being single. Of course there is nothing wrong with you being single. When you do worry, you will settle for the wrong man or make the wrong choice in a man. 5. You allow your self-esteem or insecurities to allow you to settle for anyone who gives you a lot of attention. A man shouldn’t have to make you feel secure in yourself or about yourself. You should feel this way because you are a child of God. I know we all have insecurities we need to grow and work on, but don’t allow them to cause you to have bad relationships, push good people away, or cause you to fall for the wrong man. 6. Thinking you can change a man is a very common mistake and it will always cause women to stay with men who have no desire to change. Keep in mind there are men who do want to change and become better men, so I am not talking about those guys. I am talking about those who have no desire for anything more than they are already doing. Nothing. 7. You are afraid of being alone so you are with men for companionship, s*x, a warm body, dates, etc… Of course, when you do this, you can’t expect anything good to come from it. Thus, when something bad is the outcome, you will result to playing victim and adding to the hurt or bitterness you already carry in your heart.

REASONS WHY HE WONT PROPOSE TO YOU

REASONS WHY HE WONT PROPOSE TO YOU Every relationship that’s not clearly defined is an absolute waste of years and commitment. So many adults claim to be “in a relationship” without a logical purpose. It’s always a disheartening experience, if after so many years of making a relationship work, you then discover that the relationship has a future but without you in the picture. Being in a supposed serious relationship with your partner must involve visible signs of commitment and long-living. At that point, you can’t afford to be disappointed; you should know what you represent in the relationship. If you’ve been together for years and it seems there’s no plan of having you-two, living together-forever, here are obvious signs to observe and critically consider. No. 1 – If you are the opposite of him. When it comes to marriage, a man want a woman that will complement him; a woman that knows or would like to know abit about his career or job details. Lets take for an instance, If he’s a Public speaker, he won’t get along with a lady that’s shy or can’t make an appearance before the crowd. Even when we know: we all aren’t the same, a man would desire a lady that’s presentable not just to his parents and families but also at the official front, hence, he won’t propose. No. 2 – If you talk faster than your brain. Such a lady on a round table with friends, among families or relatives is a bad deal. He sure won’t propose. No. 3 – When you play the boss. Sometime ago, i heard a lady telling her man: “baby, don’t worry, i will rent the apartment for us” Oh no, you just killed his ego! How about: “baby, i will lend you the money to rent the apartment but you will pay back” and if he doesn’t, at least you never wanted a pay-back at first. Let him be in-charge of taking sensitive decisions. No. 4 – When you mistake being classy as being expensive. No man will desire a woman that pays maximum attention to what she wears even when he wants her to look good. Getting the latest of this and that doesn’t mean you’ve got money or you’re so comfortable, it only means nothing else receives your attention other than how expensive you look. Such won’t make a good wife with a man with prospects. He just won’t propose. No. 5 – If you are not from his home-town. Weird but true and such does exist. Some men will not marry any lady not in their state or from their home- town. The earlier you know, the better for you. No. 6 – If there’s an ‘already-made’ lady somewhere. He won’t propose. No. 7 – If his mother doesn’t like you. It’s no comics that some men are totally controlled by their mother and we have those whose decisions could be highly influenced by their mother. Young lady, instead of wasting your time while waiting forever, just watch the mother’s body language, you could have a clue if she want you around her son. No. 8 – Religion differences and family acceptance. This sometimes could be complex. Where the wedding will hold, what prayers will be said etc. Alot comes with religion differences. If he comes from a family where their beliefs are considered uttermost. It would be difficult for you to be accepted, hence, he won’t propose unless he chooses to stand against his family or win their mind over. No. 9 – If he’s still living with a friend or still in his parent’s house. I think what he needs the most and what’s best for you both, is his freedom. That’s when you two can plan for a good future together. No. 10 – If the only time you have a need is when you call him. Read again, that could be the definition of a pest. LOL. He won’t propose. No. 11 – When all you do is talk about yourself and your family. The young man would have doubts about the future; if you’re going to allow him take care of his family as much as you care about yours. No. 12 – When he sees your level of education as a problem. Not a good one though but i’m sorry, he won’t propose. No. 13 – When you are so much into your job or career. No. 14 – When your ex-s becomes your handbag. You said he’s your ex and you still meet for dinner dates and whatnot, no matter how much he trusted you, don’t make him doubt you. Hence, you let go! It isn’t an issue of insecurity but an issue of doing what’s right. There is no reason for you seeing your ex. If it’s somewhat official, demand a replacement, find someone else to have on those dates and discussions; just not your ex. You both could be friends but not regular meetings or phone calls. Save your relationship some drama and watch him propose to you in no time No. 15 – When you are richer than him. Not every guy out there can live with this. It could be intimidating to have a woman in charge of the mega bucks. Some ladies can’t be trusted at that point and there’s a tendency of that man losing his prestige. Even with those cash in your account, you’d better be humble, hence, he won’t propose, expect if he has got the cash as his main target. No. 16 – When your mother influences your decisions. That’s a straight red flag and if care is not taken, your mum could tell you how many times in a week you’re gonna Be Intimate with your man when you’re married. There’s every need to build a mind of your own, you can seek advise from your mother but not you allowing her to make the decisions in your home. It could be dangerous! No. 17 – When he seem to be chasing you for too long. He won’t propose. No. 18 – When you are dirty. Yes, that’s the right word: dirty. He won’t propose. No. 19 – When you have so much of male friends and you talk too much of them around him. It’s just like a wife murmuring the name of a male celebrity in her sleep, right beside her husband. LOL. He won’t propose. No. 20 – When you are already living with him. Maybe in the next few years but he won’t propose as fast as you want it The Dangers of Cohabitation No. 21 – If you didn’t get pregnant to confirm your fertility. Crazy? But that’s the truth, some men are scared of ‘left-overs’, he might want to be sure if you’re still fertile for a child before he proposes.

BASIC INSTINCT OF A BITCH EPISODE 1 by Janet O'Dare

Movie Tittle: BASIC INSTINCT OF A BITCH Episode 1 Directed by : Janet O'dare Written by : Janet O'dare Produced by : Sir Rhema Hills Its a sunny day and am seated here sipping my drink, trying to figure out my next move. I've worked too long to get to this point and am not ready to back down now. No! Not at all! Steven just dumped me for a younger girl! Can you possible imagine? I still cant believe this. After all these years of "keeping" him for marriage, he finally gave me the bounce. Thats fine, thats just fine! i know you have questions but first, let me introduce myself. My name is Brenda Ajayi. My friends call me Alexis. I am just your regular girl next door. I am friendly, outgoing and loving. I live life to the fullest because life is too short. i have a couple of "business associates' and they call me Tokunbo Johnson. No, dont raise your eyebrow now. What can i say? Am a hustler! I have my own dreams and aspirations, a future to live up to so i have to do whatever it takes to get to the top. my prince charmings and boy lovers call me Shalewa Nelson but you can call me Sandra Lopez... I believe in a theory that states "Nobody cares how you make it, whats important is that you make it". so, i try to seize every opportunity to make some cool cash. I am 5feet 10" tall, very beautiful and attractive. i pay close attention to the way i look and i dont mind showing some skin from time to time, afterall, you have to see the goods before you can decide if you want to buy the goods or not. i am from a very humble background, a family of seven and i am the 4th from the womb. my parents are very hardworking and they try their best to cater for my needs but what they give me is never enough. so i have to use what i have to get what i need. i have a house of my own, my car and a couple of valuables (thanks to my business associates), i can say i live a comfortable life. when i meet a guy for the first time the next thing that pops up in my mind is .... "ee go fit pay"? dont judge me, am only trying to protect my investment. when you meet me for the first time you cant help but appreciate my beauty. i am very beautiful and i know it. i spend an hour and half pampering my face with makeup everyday because i just have to look perfect always. the way i dress depends on the occassion. sometimes i dress corporately when i have to and othertimes i dress to entice. okay! thats me. you want to know what happened betweeen me and steve? ill tell you. i met steve 4 years ago at a club. The attraction was instant and i loved everything about him.he was really sweet and i started having some "feelings" for him. Alright let me put this straight, in the dictionary of a "diva" (a female version of a hustler) the word LOVE doesnt exist! yeah, thats right no love,you feel something for a guy as long as he makes himself financially and in some cases, sexually relevant. once a guy looses any of these listed qualities then its straight to the dump bin......and that was my stand with steven. i liked him but i was in love with his pocket..... that guy can spend! i got everything i wanted with ease and i was able to make him fall in love with me Hahahahaha...... i gave him all the attention he wanted, woke up every morning to say i love you and all the romatic stuff you can imagine. thats what divas do, give them what you want and you'll get yours back. The truth is i was never faithful to steve, not for a minute, there was always a guy by the side (protecting my investment). why do i have to be faithful to one guy when there are so many others dying to have me? that would be very selfish of me. so with my beauty and charm, i have been able to find my way into the hearts of many men, wrecked a couple of homes, destroyed relationships and left a sea of tears too wide to cross. who cares? as long as my interest comes first then i really dont care who gets hurt. i have to go now by the way. there is this fine young man that just walked into the bar and my instinct tells me "ee go fit pay". dont want to miss my chance. lets do this again soon. i am still tokunbo johnson, have a wonderful day Watchout for episode 2...... Send in ur comments.