the NEW PHASE after a BReaKup.pt.2 by Sir Rhema Hills

AFTER A BREAKUP: 1.CRY Yea give yourself time to cry,cos it truly hurts,its something you never planned for. Some people are not the crying type,that is more dangerous to the heath,cos they will b doing more of thinking. Try to cry out,let your emotions out,thats why tears were created to ease the troubled heart. 2.THANK GOD In every situation you find yourself,learn to thank God.cos God is tryin to make you see somethings that you couldnt have been able to observe if you were still dating him.He might even be the master planner of the breakup..mayb he wants you closer to Him. Not everysweet relationship ends well. 3.TAKE A SHORT BREAK At this point,its time to go on that vacation that you have been postponing.take a one week or a month break and relax,maintain a quiet time. During this period,you would be forced to think,but try to reminise and fantasize instead,take a novel,movie,or even a writing pad with you and write down a nice script about yourself. 4.APPRECIATE LIFE,PEOPLE AND NATURE. One of the new thing you should engage in after a breakup is to appreciate yourself,take good care of yourself,go shopping,take yourself out on a date,also make friends,go visiting,attend matured parties and picnics with friends,dont tell them about your past,dont even let them know what you going through,just have fun with them, Finally,take good care of your environment,plant flowers,make a farm,or get a pet and ensure its well taken care of. 5.DISCOVER & HELP YOURSELF This is the time to think of your favourite activity or what you are good at,join a club,learn a handy work,or participate in active game,better still,this is the best time to register for those work-out classes. Well if you aint financially boyant,you could maintain a regular mornin long walk/jug,am talking to those who have been finding time to loose some weight. 6.PRAY FOR YOURSELF There are some people that are still unable to get over it. This is when to pray for strength and grace from God and also pray for the well-being of your ex, Sometimes,your breakup could be as a result of ignorance or jealous friends and families,so its advisable you pray for the will of God to be done. 7.SPACE AND TIME Act like you have travelled out,dont let him or her know about your where-about,even when he calls and you are tempted to pick,dont pickup,instead text him and say you will call him much later when you free and hope no problem. Sometimes, the best thing you can do for someone you love is to give them time and space to think of what they had done. 8.DONT RUSH INTO A NEW RELATIONSHIP Never be in a haste.... Ask yourself what you want this time.take your time and get it. At this stage everybody seems to be the right person for you. They will be loving,caring and even be willing to give you the world;but remember there is a way that seems right but the end is destruction. So be carefull,be in charge of your decisions,be friendly to people,dont giveup on love but know and plan for a better relationship. 9.SET A DATE FOR THE NEXT RELATIONSHIP When you are single there would be alot of advances on you,but like I told u,dont rush,instead give yourself a date,minimum of 3months and dont compromise,also dont tel anyone about this date. love is kind,love is patience,so anyone who cant wait for you is not truly in love with you. 10.BE READY TO FORGIVE AND FORGET Your ex might be coming around at this point to beg for a comeback;forgive him/her but if you nolonger love him,let him know. In some cases,they might not want to comeback,they just want to be forgiven. My advice to you is to forgive and forget. Breakups are'nt always meant for makeups,sometimes they are meant for wakeups.so mydear forgive and move on with your precious life. All rights reserved under international copyright law.contents may not be reproduced in whole or in part without the express written permission of Adamnest Publishing