MY LIFE WITH GREAT FRIENDS BY Sirrhemahills

MY LIFE WITH GREAT FRIENDS BY Sir Rhema Hills. NAMES FEATURED IN THIS STORY ARE AS FOLLOWS: Bashiru 1996 Martins Kambai 1998 Bola akande 1999 Chinedu Onicha 1999 Debo wale 1999 Damian Atiri 1999 Michael Oyadonghan 2000 Joel Oyadonghan 2000 Aisha Atta 2004 Jennifer Ahembe 2008 Sharon Gold 2006 Hemba 2006 Alex 2006 Buchi Osuagwu 2006 Sandra 2011 Harrison 2010 Emmanuel salami 2010 Vandersa 2010 Juwon ojoade 2010 Stephenie 2011 Shirley 2012 Ene Ogbe 2011 The Ogbes 2012 Favour Ogbe 2012 Bidemi 2012 Funmi 2012 Enitan Adeleye 2012 Jumoke 2012 Jane o Dare 2012 Magai Danjuma 2012 Laying down at exactly 2:30am on the 26th Nov.2013, reminicing on the few interesting past i had. Sometimes i try to compare the past with the present but the ratio is so uneven. This is an acknowledgement of the few people i can remember as at when writing this piece.These people made my life a long journey of happiness and they remain in my heart even if i dont see them again. I grew up knowing no one as friend; probably because i wasnt so matured enough to keep memories, and this was one major deficiency i had while growing up. Though i can stil remember the numbers of plays i had with people as a child..... Kaestiyah was part of it; a type of army i single handedly formed just to play the role of police and thief. I had my own command and before time i ruled a great batallion of child army and it was called Kaestiyah. Till date i know nothing about how it was formed but i know how it ended. It was with serious flogging and punishment from mum. Afterwards i found myself owning a church i called it IN HIS TIME GOSPEL MISSION I can still remember thoae days ; i was so close to God,i would gather my cousins and few friends in my bedroom, i would use my mums sewing table as my podium and preach messages every sunday evenings, though i really cant recollect those words i told them but it was fun.... Between the ages of 1-6 i was a complete dull boy,i was only good at playing i had all forms of plays as a child but when it comes to academics i was not close to being average. I had friends those days but because of excess play i cant remember any of them. PHASE 2 My life took a total transformation when we relocated to lagos, it was like a rebirth, evrything about me changed. My first friend was Bashiru, cant remamber his surname though; we were neighbours,went to same primary school, but the friendship didnt last for so long because they had to relocate from where we were stayin at oko-oba. However,i really didnt feel his absence because just before he left Martins kambai and his parents parked into d next block. Martins was the major friend i had while growing up, we were like mates though i was older. I can still rember how we use to rent bicycle together even though we couldnt ride well,but we struggled together and toured oko oba and agege axis until we became pro..... Not long we moved to different secondary schools and that was how we seperated,he was in a boarding school and i was in a day school. In Hamlet college, i met great people like Bola,Damian,chinedu,Debo and many others but as we were finishing and writing waec,i became closer to Joel and his brother Michael Oyadonghan now sir. M. Joel and Michael had a significant role they played in my life,we learnt together,we made mistakes together. We had similar interest and plans and before long we became the jd17. We didnt make it through in our first waec sitting so we had to register in another academy and along the line i met my first girl friend.lol. Aisha Atta; I had so much crush on her to the extent that i had to go to university of jos so i can b closer to her in A.B.U Zaria. But with time the relationship faded cos we were not really matured enough to handle the kind of relationship we were in. When i was in year 2; i became closer to one of my course mate Jennifer Ahembe, she taught me how to cook varieties of food; and with time i made her my official girlfriend. Everyone knew us together. However, things didnt work out as planned and towards my final years we werent really close like we use to be,It was this period, i got to knw some friends like Harrison onyeachom,Emmanuel salami, Vandersa and Juwon. They were so close to me, we lived together,read together and competed together till i graduated. We were even suppose to serve in the same place but well it was all wishes and the government had the final say. Let me take you back a bit,during the school days in the university i had good friends i called my sisters,they were sharon Gold,Hemba,Sandra and coursemates like Alex and Buchi. I also met a neighbour and a friend Stephenie who was later murdered just in front of her house. In 2012, i was posted to katsina but i wasnt cool with the place so i only had my camping there. In camp i was close to shirley, we had same plan on redeploying and fortunately we were redeployed to the same state Kwara. In camp i was a very good friend to my platoon members and we all had fun together. Now talking on my experience in kwara......hmmm it was great fun o. Meanwhile back in school i met Ene Ogbe in my final year,we were just friends for about six months but she was like a sister,probably because she was from benue state, i really cant call what we had a date but were pretty close and her family stayed in kwara. So when i was redeployed to kwara state,The Ogbes became my new family,they never knew me but because of my relatinship with Ene they took me as their son.They were more than a host,they were my family. They gave me an apartment where i stayed all through my service year for free. My very good companion in the family was my 8 yrs old friend called Favour,i call her Favour Ross. We had alot of fights and arguements but we dont sleep over it,she was close to me cos we were the only two in the house aside her mum,others were still in school. While i was serving in kwara; i met Bidemi and along the line we started dating, i met great people like Enitan,mayowa,jumoke and some of my secondary school mates like Funmi and Jane and we got united. Meanwhike Jane O Dare is my co editor in our page "my relationship with Hillz" presently But Magai was one very good friend i dont think i would forget so soon or forever. We hanged out together,drew me close to God and made me felt loved. But as usual distance seperated us, service was over and we had to go our different ways.... All these people i can remember are my great friends who have played vital roles in my life and made me who i am till date. Ofcourse i had alot of friends aside these ones but my memory was just too full to pen down their names but i want you to know you are appreciated..... Now am on the 3rd phase of my life and trust me am having new friends and i love them all. Theres nothing as great as having good friends around you.life has been fun all the way and i Thank God for bringing you guys my way. Love you all Sir Rhema Hills 28/11/2013

my LIFE AND FRIENDS IN THE PAST by Sir rhema Hills

NAMES FEATURED IN THIS STORY ARE AS FOLLOWS: Bashiru 1996 Martins Kambai 1998 Bola akande 1999 Chinedu Onicha 1999 Debo wale 1999 Damian Atiri 1999 Michael Oyadonghan 2000 Joel Oyadonghan 2000 Aisha Atta 2004 Jennifer Ahembe 2008 Sharon Gold 2006 Hemba 2006 Alex 2006 Buchi Osuagwu 2006 Sandra 2011 Harrison 2010 Emmanuel salami 2010 Vandersa 2010 Juwon ojoade 2010 Stephenie 2011 Shirley 2012 Ene Ogbe 2011 The Ogbes 2012 Favour Ogbe 2012 Bidemi 2012 Funmi 2012 Enitan Adeleye 2012 Jumoke 2012 Jane o Dare 2012 Magai Danjuma 2012 Laying down at exactly 2:30am on the 26th Nov.2013, reminicing on the few interesting past i had. Sometimes i try to compare the past with the present but the ratio is so uneven. This is an acknowledgement of the few people i can remember as at when writing this piece.These people made my life a long journey of happiness and they remain in my heart even if i dont see them again. I grew up knowing no one as friend; probably because i wasnt so matured enough to keep memories, and this was one major deficiency i had while growing up. Though i can stil remember the numbers of plays i had with people as a child..... Kaestiyah was part of it; a type of army i single handedly formed just to play the role of police and thief. I had my own command and before time i ruled a great batallion of child army and it was called Kaestiyah. Till date i know nothing about how it was formed but i know how it ended. It was with serious flogging and punishment from mum. Afterwards i found myself owning a church i called it IN HIS TIME GOSPEL MISSION I can still remember thoae days ; i was so close to God,i would gather my cousins and few friends in my bedroom, i would use my mums sewing table as my podium and preach messages every sunday evenings, though i really cant recollect those words i told them but it was fun.... Between the ages of 1-6 i was a complete dull boy,i was only good at playing i had all forms of plays as a child but when it comes to academics i was not close to being average. I had friends those days but because of excess play i cant remember any of them. PHASE 2 My life took a total transformation when we relocated to lagos, it was like a rebirth, evrything about me changed. My first friend was Bashiru, cant remamber his surname though; we were neighbours,went to same primary school, but the friendship didnt last for so long because they had to relocate from where we were stayin at oko-oba. However,i really didnt feel his absence because just before he left Martins kambai and his parents parked into d next block. Martins was the major friend i had while growing up, we were like mates though i was older. I can still rember how we use to rent bicycle together even though we couldnt ride well,but we struggled together and toured oko oba and agege axis until we became pro..... Not long we moved to different secondary schools and that was how we seperated,he was in a boarding school and i was in a day school. In Hamlet college, i met great people like Bola,Damian,chinedu,Debo and many others but as we were finishing and writing waec,i became closer to Joel and his brother Michael Oyadonghan now sir. M. Joel and Michael had a significant role they played in my life,we learnt together,we made mistakes together. We had similar interest and plans and before long we became the jd17. We didnt make it through in our first waec sitting so we had to register in another academy and along the line i met my first girl friend.lol. Aisha Atta; I had so much crush on her to the extent that i had to go to university of jos so i can b closer to her in A.B.U Zaria. But with time the relationship faded cos we were not really matured enough to handle the kind of relationship we were in. When i was in year 2; i became closer to one of my course mate Jennifer Ahembe, she taught me how to cook varieties of food; and with time i made her my official girlfriend. Everyone knew us together. However, things didnt work out as planned and towards my final years we werent really close like we use to be,It was this period, i got to knw some friends like Harrison onyeachom,Emmanuel salami, Vandersa and Juwon. They were so close to me, we lived together,read together and competed together till i graduated. We were even suppose to serve in the same place but well it was all wishes and the government had the final say. Let me take you back a bit,during the school days in the university i had good friends i called my sisters,they were sharon Gold,Hemba,Sandra and coursemates like Alex and Buchi. I also met a neighbour and a friend Stephenie who was later murdered just in front of her house. In 2012, i was posted to katsina but i wasnt cool with the place so i only had my camping there. In camp i was close to shirley, we had same plan on redeploying and fortunately we were redeployed to the same state Kwara. In camp i was a very good friend to my platoon members and we all had fun together. Now talking on my experience in kwara......hmmm it was great fun o. Meanwhile back in school i met Ene Ogbe in my final year,we were just friends for about six months but she was like a sister,probably because she was from benue state, i really cant call what we had a date but were pretty close and her family stayed in kwara. So when i was redeployed to kwara state,The Ogbes became my new family,they never knew me but because of my relatinship with Ene they took me as their son.They were more than a host,they were my family. They gave me an apartment where i stayed all through my service year for free. My very good companion in the family was my 8 yrs old friend called Favour,i call her Favour Ross. We had alot of fights and arguements but we dont sleep over it,she was close to me cos we were the only two in the house aside her mum,others were still in school. While i was serving in kwara; i met Bidemi and along the line we started dating, i met great people like Enitan,mayowa,jumoke and some of my secondary school mates like Funmi and Jane and we got united. Meanwhike Jane O Dare is my co editor in our page "my relationship with Hillz" presently But Magai was one very good friend i dont think i would forget so soon or forever. We hanged out together,drew me close to God and made me felt loved. But as usual distance seperated us, service was over and we had to go our different ways.... All these people i can remember are my great friends who have played vital roles in my life and made me who i am till date. Ofcourse i had alot of friends aside these ones but my memory was just too full to pen down their names but i want you to know you are appreciated..... Now am on the 3rd phase of my life and trust me am having new friends and i love them all. Theres nothing as great as having good friends around you.life has been fun all the way and i Thank God for bringing you guys my way. Love you all Sir Rhema Hills 28/11/2013

my LIFE AND FRIENDS IN THE PAST by Sir rhema Hills

NAMES FEATURED IN THIS STORY ARE AS FOLLOWS: Bashiru 1996 Martins Kambai 1998 Bola akande 1999 Chinedu Onicha 1999 Debo wale 1999 Damian Atiri 1999 Michael Oyadonghan 2000 Joel Oyadonghan 2000 Aisha Atta 2004 Jennifer Ahembe 2008 Sharon Gold 2006 Hemba 2006 Alex 2006 Buchi Osuagwu 2006 Sandra 2011 Harrison 2010 Emmanuel salami 2010 Vandersa 2010 Juwon ojoade 2010 Stephenie 2011 Shirley 2012 Ene Ogbe 2011 The Ogbes 2012 Favour Ogbe 2012 Bidemi 2012 Funmi 2012 Enitan Adeleye 2012 Jumoke 2012 Jane o Dare 2012 Magai Danjuma 2012 Laying down at exactly 2:30am on the 26th Nov.2013, reminicing on the few interesting past i had. Sometimes i try to compare the past with the present but the ratio is so uneven. This is an acknowledgement of the few people i can remember as at when writing this piece.These people made my life a long journey of happiness and they remain in my heart even if i dont see them again. I grew up knowing no one as friend; probably because i wasnt so matured enough to keep memories, and this was one major deficiency i had while growing up. Though i can stil remember the numbers of plays i had with people as a child..... Kaestiyah was part of it; a type of army i single handedly formed just to play the role of police and thief. I had my own command and before time i ruled a great batallion of child army and it was called Kaestiyah. Till date i know nothing about how it was formed but i know how it ended. It was with serious flogging and punishment from mum. Afterwards i found myself owning a church i called it IN HIS TIME GOSPEL MISSION I can still remember thoae days ; i was so close to God,i would gather my cousins and few friends in my bedroom, i would use my mums sewing table as my podium and preach messages every sunday evenings, though i really cant recollect those words i told them but it was fun.... Between the ages of 1-6 i was a complete dull boy,i was only good at playing i had all forms of plays as a child but when it comes to academics i was not close to being average. I had friends those days but because of excess play i cant remember any of them. PHASE 2 My life took a total transformation when we relocated to lagos, it was like a rebirth, evrything about me changed. My first friend was Bashiru, cant remamber his surname though; we were neighbours,went to same primary school, but the friendship didnt last for so long because they had to relocate from where we were stayin at oko-oba. However,i really didnt feel his absence because just before he left Martins kambai and his parents parked into d next block. Martins was the major friend i had while growing up, we were like mates though i was older. I can still rember how we use to rent bicycle together even though we couldnt ride well,but we struggled together and toured oko oba and agege axis until we became pro..... Not long we moved to different secondary schools and that was how we seperated,he was in a boarding school and i was in a day school. In Hamlet college, i met great people like Bola,Damian,chinedu,Debo and many others but as we were finishing and writing waec,i became closer to Joel and his brother Michael Oyadonghan now sir. M. Joel and Michael had a significant role they played in my life,we learnt together,we made mistakes together. We had similar interest and plans and before long we became the jd17. We didnt make it through in our first waec sitting so we had to register in another academy and along the line i met my first girl friend.lol. Aisha Atta; I had so much crush on her to the extent that i had to go to university of jos so i can b closer to her in A.B.U Zaria. But with time the relationship faded cos we were not really matured enough to handle the kind of relationship we were in. When i was in year 2; i became closer to one of my course mate Jennifer Ahembe, she taught me how to cook varieties of food; and with time i made her my official girlfriend. Everyone knew us together. However, things didnt work out as planned and towards my final years we werent really close like we use to be,It was this period, i got to knw some friends like Harrison onyeachom,Emmanuel salami, Vandersa and Juwon. They were so close to me, we lived together,read together and competed together till i graduated. We were even suppose to serve in the same place but well it was all wishes and the government had the final say. Let me take you back a bit,during the school days in the university i had good friends i called my sisters,they were sharon Gold,Hemba,Sandra and coursemates like Alex and Buchi. I also met a neighbour and a friend Stephenie who was later murdered just in front of her house. In 2012, i was posted to katsina but i wasnt cool with the place so i only had my camping there. In camp i was close to shirley, we had same plan on redeploying and fortunately we were redeployed to the same state Kwara. In camp i was a very good friend to my platoon members and we all had fun together. Now talking on my experience in kwara......hmmm it was great fun o. Meanwhile back in school i met Ene Ogbe in my final year,we were just friends for about six months but she was like a sister,probably because she was from benue state, i really cant call what we had a date but were pretty close and her family stayed in kwara. So when i was redeployed to kwara state,The Ogbes became my new family,they never knew me but because of my relatinship with Ene they took me as their son.They were more than a host,they were my family. They gave me an apartment where i stayed all through my service year for free. My very good companion in the family was my 8 yrs old friend called Favour,i call her Favour Ross. We had alot of fights and arguements but we dont sleep over it,she was close to me cos we were the only two in the house aside her mum,others were still in school. While i was serving in kwara; i met Bidemi and along the line we started dating, i met great people like Enitan,mayowa,jumoke and some of my secondary school mates like Funmi and Jane and we got united. Meanwhike Jane O Dare is my co editor in our page "my relationship with Hillz" presently But Magai was one very good friend i dont think i would forget so soon or forever. We hanged out together,drew me close to God and made me felt loved. But as usual distance seperated us, service was over and we had to go our different ways.... All these people i can remember are my great friends who have played vital roles in my life and made me who i am till date. Ofcourse i had alot of friends aside these ones but my memory was just too full to pen down their names but i want you to know you are appreciated..... Now am on the 3rd phase of my life and trust me am having new friends and i love them all. Theres nothing as great as having good friends around you.life has been fun all the way and i Thank God for bringing you guys my way. Love you all Sir Rhema Hills 28/11/2013

my LIFE AND FRIENDS IN THE PAST by Sir rhema Hills

NAMES FEATURED IN THIS STORY ARE AS FOLLOWS: Bashiru 1996 Martins Kambai 1998 Bola akande 1999 Chinedu Onicha 1999 Debo wale 1999 Damian Atiri 1999 Michael Oyadonghan 2000 Joel Oyadonghan 2000 Aisha Atta 2004 Jennifer Ahembe 2008 Sharon Gold 2006 Hemba 2006 Alex 2006 Buchi Osuagwu 2006 Sandra 2011 Harrison 2010 Emmanuel salami 2010 Vandersa 2010 Juwon ojoade 2010 Stephenie 2011 Shirley 2012 Ene Ogbe 2011 The Ogbes 2012 Favour Ogbe 2012 Bidemi 2012 Funmi 2012 Enitan Adeleye 2012 Jumoke 2012 Jane o Dare 2012 Magai Danjuma 2012 Laying down at exactly 2:30am on the 26th Nov.2013, reminicing on the few interesting past i had. Sometimes i try to compare the past with the present but the ratio is so uneven. This is an acknowledgement of the few people i can remember as at when writing this piece.These people made my life a long journey of happiness and they remain in my heart even if i dont see them again. I grew up knowing no one as friend; probably because i wasnt so matured enough to keep memories, and this was one major deficiency i had while growing up. Though i can stil remember the numbers of plays i had with people as a child..... Kaestiyah was part of it; a type of army i single handedly formed just to play the role of police and thief. I had my own command and before time i ruled a great batallion of child army and it was called Kaestiyah. Till date i know nothing about how it was formed but i know how it ended. It was with serious flogging and punishment from mum. Afterwards i found myself owning a church i called it IN HIS TIME GOSPEL MISSION I can still remember thoae days ; i was so close to God,i would gather my cousins and few friends in my bedroom, i would use my mums sewing table as my podium and preach messages every sunday evenings, though i really cant recollect those words i told them but it was fun.... Between the ages of 1-6 i was a complete dull boy,i was only good at playing i had all forms of plays as a child but when it comes to academics i was not close to being average. I had friends those days but because of excess play i cant remember any of them. PHASE 2 My life took a total transformation when we relocated to lagos, it was like a rebirth, evrything about me changed. My first friend was Bashiru, cant remamber his surname though; we were neighbours,went to same primary school, but the friendship didnt last for so long because they had to relocate from where we were stayin at oko-oba. However,i really didnt feel his absence because just before he left Martins kambai and his parents parked into d next block. Martins was the major friend i had while growing up, we were like mates though i was older. I can still rember how we use to rent bicycle together even though we couldnt ride well,but we struggled together and toured oko oba and agege axis until we became pro..... Not long we moved to different secondary schools and that was how we seperated,he was in a boarding school and i was in a day school. In Hamlet college, i met great people like Bola,Damian,chinedu,Debo and many others but as we were finishing and writing waec,i became closer to Joel and his brother Michael Oyadonghan now sir. M. Joel and Michael had a significant role they played in my life,we learnt together,we made mistakes together. We had similar interest and plans and before long we became the jd17. We didnt make it through in our first waec sitting so we had to register in another academy and along the line i met my first girl friend.lol. Aisha Atta; I had so much crush on her to the extent that i had to go to university of jos so i can b closer to her in A.B.U Zaria. But with time the relationship faded cos we were not really matured enough to handle the kind of relationship we were in. When i was in year 2; i became closer to one of my course mate Jennifer Ahembe, she taught me how to cook varieties of food; and with time i made her my official girlfriend. Everyone knew us together. However, things didnt work out as planned and towards my final years we werent really close like we use to be,It was this period, i got to knw some friends like Harrison onyeachom,Emmanuel salami, Vandersa and Juwon. They were so close to me, we lived together,read together and competed together till i graduated. We were even suppose to serve in the same place but well it was all wishes and the government had the final say. Let me take you back a bit,during the school days in the university i had good friends i called my sisters,they were sharon Gold,Hemba,Sandra and coursemates like Alex and Buchi. I also met a neighbour and a friend Stephenie who was later murdered just in front of her house. In 2012, i was posted to katsina but i wasnt cool with the place so i only had my camping there. In camp i was close to shirley, we had same plan on redeploying and fortunately we were redeployed to the same state Kwara. In camp i was a very good friend to my platoon members and we all had fun together. Now talking on my experience in kwara......hmmm it was great fun o. Meanwhile back in school i met Ene Ogbe in my final year,we were just friends for about six months but she was like a sister,probably because she was from benue state, i really cant call what we had a date but were pretty close and her family stayed in kwara. So when i was redeployed to kwara state,The Ogbes became my new family,they never knew me but because of my relatinship with Ene they took me as their son.They were more than a host,they were my family. They gave me an apartment where i stayed all through my service year for free. My very good companion in the family was my 8 yrs old friend called Favour,i call her Favour Ross. We had alot of fights and arguements but we dont sleep over it,she was close to me cos we were the only two in the house aside her mum,others were still in school. While i was serving in kwara; i met Bidemi and along the line we started dating, i met great people like Enitan,mayowa,jumoke and some of my secondary school mates like Funmi and Jane and we got united. Meanwhike Jane O Dare is my co editor in our page "my relationship with Hillz" presently But Magai was one very good friend i dont think i would forget so soon or forever. We hanged out together,drew me close to God and made me felt loved. But as usual distance seperated us, service was over and we had to go our different ways.... All these people i can remember are my great friends who have played vital roles in my life and made me who i am till date. Ofcourse i had alot of friends aside these ones but my memory was just too full to pen down their names but i want you to know you are appreciated..... Now am on the 3rd phase of my life and trust me am having new friends and i love them all. Theres nothing as great as having good friends around you.life has been fun all the way and i Thank God for bringing you guys my way. Love you all Sir Rhema Hills 28/11/2013

THE STORY OF BOREDOM by Sir Rhema Hills

THE STORY OF BOREDOM by Sir Rhema Hills Idle was named after the famous man Boring. He had a brother who later travelled out and became the man they call Boredom. Boredom means the state of being bored,loose out,signifies failure,lost,and poverty. He lived a very boring life and people began to wonder what was the cause. Well this was the few words he had to say " i practically wake up in the morning with less enthusiasm because in the first place i have no money. I pick up my regular piece of paper you guys call curriculum vitae and stare at it thinking of the next spot to apply; but i have no idea because it has become like a poster on the streets....... Everywhere i go,i keep getting the statement we shall get back to you. Friends deserted me,everybody so busy doing nothing but trying their best to avoid me. They say an idle mind is the devils workshop,but i laughed some few months ago when the devil could no longer take it,he had to leave me alone,he said even my mind was too boring for him to dwell. Guess what happened next ........... Hmmmmm The Holy Spirit came upon me,and he quickened my mortal body He gave me hope; now am energised,encouraged,enthusiastic,empowered. Ever since then great things always come out of me,cos greater is he that is in me than he that is in the world. I am soaring,sometimes i try to stop but am just unstoppable. Dont be scared that am going to stumble though. You know why? The Holyspirit is my direction He guides me and gives me speed. He lives in me....he toldme something recently,he said my body is his temple, My life is fun, I produce fruits of joy,wealth,prosperity,kindness,love,peace,gentleness. I discovered am no longer boring,do u know how i knew? People read me,people say they love me, They call me an inspiration Am so interesting, My life is a model,they call it a lifestyle. I think its the best lifestyle......" Be positive about yourself,say good things about yourself. Above all empty your heart,let the Holyspirit take His place,his the best tenant you can ever have,at a point,you will love him so much,you will even make him the owner of you. Think about it,He changed my name from Boredom to Life.He can change yours too.

D DECISION......by Sir Rhema Hillz

waking up to a bright new day as i sing my song of hope..... i refuse to believe lies nd my hope is on thee alone.... men has failed bt God is forever to b worship He has brot me thus far so in u him i put my trust i accept my fate cos u will giv me strength to bear every burden so today i stand to speak to d one i truly luv....sayin...... Today,i sit patiently to await where my fate lies in d heart of whom i luv deeply, I ponder nd wait patiently cos its nt just me, but God,u nd me to decide GOD has shown nd I have shown u my foolishness countless times,my weakness severally,my flaws bt u av seen my luv like a beach sand i av proven who i truly is.cos rhema is.............nw d blank space is left to u to say who i am Sometimes its so hard to take decision bt for u to b true to urself nd b responsible nd not hurt odas,you just av to b decisive nd accept ur fate...........16th may,2013 marks a day i wil either forget or liv to remember. Dis two words forget nd remember lies in ur hands..... Forget me nd my writeup cos for me i av decided to accept what comes my way nd trust me to b matured on dis one........

Reiteration by Michael "Sir M.B" Oyadonghan

I aint written for a while, hell, I aint even smiled, but she's so beautiful, I swear I heard my soul cry, I aint tripping, but sh!t's convoluted, black and blue, Bvlgari Aqva whenever I'm wearing black or blue, you don't gotta ask why, but you can ask the doctor, who? je m'appelle Michael, Sir Bitches' lost in tha loop, My pulse's ringing, so I guess it must be true. damn, it mght be true, cuz I'm at war like it's 1942, I aint been this way in a while, this sh!t must be new, I'm glued to the truth so, okay, yeah, it must be true. I'm through with all da BS, Life's a bitch, it must be running on a vista OS, welcome to ma world, here's yo nintendo DS, you're so cute, so you get a 5 star request, at your request, Slow Mo, here's your 8 star index.

7 THINGS YOUR FRIENDS DON'T NEED TO KNOW ABOUT YOUR RELATIOBSHIP

7 THINGS YOUR FRIENDS DON'T NEED TO KNOW ABOUT YOUR RELATIOBSHIP I’m a firm believer that you should share your life with your friends and that it’s important to be able to vent to them about the things in your everyday life. That being said, there are SOME things you should NOT tell your friends about your relationships. This is my list of the things not to tell your friends about your relationships. 1. FIGHTS It’s okay to tell your friends about your relationship, it’s even okay to tell them when you get into a fight. But never go into the specifics unless you’re asking for an HONEST opinion. Friends that ask you to tell them if they’re being crazy about a fight that they’re having but don’t actually want to hear your opinion, are awkward people. So lets all keep our domestics to ourselves. 2. Séx Don’t tell your friends the specifics of your séx life. Don’t tell them about any kinks your partner has because from that point on, your friend will never be able to look them in the eye again. 3. MONEY PROBLEMS It’s okay to talk to your friends about money problems of your own but it’s not okay to bring your significant other’s finances into that conversation. A lot of people are very sensitive about what they perceive as weakness and that’s never a line you want to cross. 4. CHEATING (IF YOU’RE WORKING IT OUT) If someone cheats on you and you dump them, feel free to tell all of your friends (and a few strangers) how much of a scumbag they are. But, if you’re working it out, NEVER tell your friends that your significant other has cheated. You may forgive them because you love them but your friends love you, and they won’t. 5. PROBLEMS IN THE BEDROOM Once again, once you talk about this with your friends, they will never look at your partner the same way again. Your friends don’t need to know if you need to talk your significant other in for little blue pills. That’s something you should keep between you and your partner. 6. YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER’S PROBLEMS Your friends are YOUR friends, and your partners problems really aren’t yours to share. Let your partner talk about their problems with whoever they choose. It’s not fair for your friends to know everything about your significant other’s life. 7. YOU SIGNIFICANT OTHER’S PAST RELATIONSHIPS Once again, your friends are YOUR friends. They don’t need to know that four years ago the person you’re with had his heart-broken by an even woman named Tina. If that’s something they want to share with your friends, let them. But that isn’t exactly your place. I know that we all want to believe that we live in a world like Séx and The City where we can all sit down with our girlfriends and discuss everything about everything in our lives. But, the truth is martinis and cosmos and endless conversations might be great on TV, but in real life they can get a little awkward when you see your Carrie’s Big on the street.

HOW TO LOVE .2 by Sir.Hills

Options True Relationship with Hillz · 64 like this September 21 at 9:24pm · HOW TO LOVE.2. EPISODE 2- LEARNING TO LOVE YOURSELF 1. Begin by loving yourself: You can only truly love another being when you love yourself properly. Otherwise, you risk spending a lot of your life projecting insecurities, pain and other negative emotions onto other people. People who do this tend to see the worst in other people so as to avoid facing that insecurity, pain, or negativity in themselves. - Loving yourself is not about putting yourself before others — that's another form of confusion. Loving yourself is about having self- respect, discovering what really makes you tick, and spending your life being true to your real talents. 2. Forgive yourself and give yourself license to make mistakes: Don't be too hard on yourself. Life is short, and it's about learning. You won't learn unless you make mistakes. Give yourself license to make mistakes, and then love who you are for all your imperfections. - If you love yourself only for being perfect, you're probably making two mistakes: - Thinking that you are perfect when it's probably not the case. Unless you're a new super-breed of human, you're probably deluding yourself a little bit. -Holding yourself at a double-standard. You don't expect everyone else to be perfect, so why do you expect perfection from yourself? Treat everyone, yourself included, by the same standards. 3. Know what loving yourself feels like: Once you learn to love yourself, you won't feel threatened by others' success (real or apparent). You won't constantly compare yourself to others. You'll be able to share your love freely with other people. You'll feel good about yourself even when you're feeling down. You'll feel proud without being cocky; optimistic without being oblivious; and free without being paralyzed by freedom. You'll feel unafraid to cry. -To love truly is not only having a capacity to give love, but also to gracefully open your heart to receive love. Know that you deserve love. You are worthy of love. The more you feel love in your heart, the more you are able to give love to others. 6Like · · Share Blessing Onuorah Nice one from u dear September 23 at 11:00am via mobile · Like Boost Post 91 people saw this post

HOW TO LOVE .1 by Sir Hills

Options True Relationship with Hillz · 64 like this September 18 at 5:29pm · HOW TO LOVE .1. Love is expressed as an action and experienced as a feeling. Yet, love has an essence that resists defining in any single way — it encompasses compassion, determination, tolerance, endurance, support, faith, and much more. If you're in the dark about how to love, this article should give you some food for thought, and perhaps teach you a little bit about how to love yourself, love the world, and love other people just a little bit more. EPISODE 1 What Love Looks Like 1. Acknowledge the breadth of love . Love isn't simply about romance — to define it so narrowly is to deprive yourself of the beauty and full extent of love. Love is a feeling, drive, or emotion that we experience usually with people, but also with pursuits, other animals, and nature in general. If you're looking for it, love can be found in many places, situations and relationships. * Love is shared between people — our parents and children, siblings, spouses and partners, dates, friends, neighbors, community members and humanity. *It's found in the passion for the things you do in your life, including work, hobbies, volunteering and the like; it can be found when you're at your most creative, or "in the flow." * Love happens when you embrace the wonderful awesomeness of life, as you acknowledge how incredible this world really is, how intricate and complex life is. *Love is found in observing nature, in spending time with companion animals, and in learning about other living beings in the world. *Love is at its most giving when it is altruistic, shown to a stranger we may never meet again. * Love cannot be pigeonholed — it's never just or only one thing; it happens whenever your heart is open to receiving beauty and wonder of people, things and events around you. 2. Begin to recognize what love isn't . Because love can't be pigeonholed, it's sometimes hard to say it is one things and it isn't another. But in general, people agree that love is selfless, lasting, and larger than yourself. In general, people also agree that love isn't the same as: - Feelings of lust (e.g., purely sexual interest) -Ownership or control (co-dependency or manipulation) -Obsessive worrying (over-involved parenting or a spouse always checking up) - Neediness (insecurity or low self-esteem) and so forth. - Love isn't a tool for using people or binding them to your side; if you find yourself calling these actions "love," it may be a good idea to investigate what other people mean by love. 6Like · · Share Blessing Onuorah, Funmi Ayandosu and Eddiecuteboy Jostified Ezenyinwa like this. Blessing Onuorah I am loving dis write up wen will d next episode be ready September 19 at 6:53pm via mobile · Like SirRhema Hills Oyi-obute Flower very soon,u cud share with frnds to enjoy wat u just read. September 19 at 7:07pm via mobile · Like Blessing Onuorah Okay September 20 at 2:11pm via mobile · Like

7 REASONS LADIES FALL FOR THE WRONG GUY

Here are a few reasons why women fall for the wrong man: 1. Ladies, you know how people always say, “Actions speak louder than words?” Well, this very saying is getting a lot of you in big trouble. Yes, actions do speak, but please understand actions also lie and in some cases lie more than words. Actions only speak louder when the heart and motives of the person pursing you is pure. If that is not the case, then what you have is manipulation and womanizing. Many men already know they can fool you with actions and words, so stop believing actions mean anything unless it’s done consistently over a long period of time. Don’t forget this consistency also includes you. Your job is not to sit around and watch what he does while you do nothing. That is selfish and speaks of fear, etc. 2. You have s*x with a man and become closer to him than you really think you are. s*x causes soul ties and makes you emotional, thus you feel closer to a man than you really are. I don’t have to tell you how to avoid this mistake you, because you already know. Good or great s*x will always cause a woman to be with a man longer than she should and be with the wrong man. 3. Women are moved by beautiful things like shoes, curtains, homes, candles and a handsome man. There is more to a man than his looks. If you fall easy for nice looking men, find out why and make the correction. 4. You are a 30+ year old woman who is worried about being married, having kids before a certain age, or believing the lie there is something wrong with you being single. Of course there is nothing wrong with you being single. When you do worry, you will settle for the wrong man or make the wrong choice in a man. 5. You allow your self-esteem or insecurities to allow you to settle for anyone who gives you a lot of attention. A man shouldn’t have to make you feel secure in yourself or about yourself. You should feel this way because you are a child of God. I know we all have insecurities we need to grow and work on, but don’t allow them to cause you to have bad relationships, push good people away, or cause you to fall for the wrong man. 6. Thinking you can change a man is a very common mistake and it will always cause women to stay with men who have no desire to change. Keep in mind there are men who do want to change and become better men, so I am not talking about those guys. I am talking about those who have no desire for anything more than they are already doing. Nothing. 7. You are afraid of being alone so you are with men for companionship, s*x, a warm body, dates, etc… Of course, when you do this, you can’t expect anything good to come from it. Thus, when something bad is the outcome, you will result to playing victim and adding to the hurt or bitterness you already carry in your heart.

REASONS WHY HE WONT PROPOSE TO YOU

REASONS WHY HE WONT PROPOSE TO YOU Every relationship that’s not clearly defined is an absolute waste of years and commitment. So many adults claim to be “in a relationship” without a logical purpose. It’s always a disheartening experience, if after so many years of making a relationship work, you then discover that the relationship has a future but without you in the picture. Being in a supposed serious relationship with your partner must involve visible signs of commitment and long-living. At that point, you can’t afford to be disappointed; you should know what you represent in the relationship. If you’ve been together for years and it seems there’s no plan of having you-two, living together-forever, here are obvious signs to observe and critically consider. No. 1 – If you are the opposite of him. When it comes to marriage, a man want a woman that will complement him; a woman that knows or would like to know abit about his career or job details. Lets take for an instance, If he’s a Public speaker, he won’t get along with a lady that’s shy or can’t make an appearance before the crowd. Even when we know: we all aren’t the same, a man would desire a lady that’s presentable not just to his parents and families but also at the official front, hence, he won’t propose. No. 2 – If you talk faster than your brain. Such a lady on a round table with friends, among families or relatives is a bad deal. He sure won’t propose. No. 3 – When you play the boss. Sometime ago, i heard a lady telling her man: “baby, don’t worry, i will rent the apartment for us” Oh no, you just killed his ego! How about: “baby, i will lend you the money to rent the apartment but you will pay back” and if he doesn’t, at least you never wanted a pay-back at first. Let him be in-charge of taking sensitive decisions. No. 4 – When you mistake being classy as being expensive. No man will desire a woman that pays maximum attention to what she wears even when he wants her to look good. Getting the latest of this and that doesn’t mean you’ve got money or you’re so comfortable, it only means nothing else receives your attention other than how expensive you look. Such won’t make a good wife with a man with prospects. He just won’t propose. No. 5 – If you are not from his home-town. Weird but true and such does exist. Some men will not marry any lady not in their state or from their home- town. The earlier you know, the better for you. No. 6 – If there’s an ‘already-made’ lady somewhere. He won’t propose. No. 7 – If his mother doesn’t like you. It’s no comics that some men are totally controlled by their mother and we have those whose decisions could be highly influenced by their mother. Young lady, instead of wasting your time while waiting forever, just watch the mother’s body language, you could have a clue if she want you around her son. No. 8 – Religion differences and family acceptance. This sometimes could be complex. Where the wedding will hold, what prayers will be said etc. Alot comes with religion differences. If he comes from a family where their beliefs are considered uttermost. It would be difficult for you to be accepted, hence, he won’t propose unless he chooses to stand against his family or win their mind over. No. 9 – If he’s still living with a friend or still in his parent’s house. I think what he needs the most and what’s best for you both, is his freedom. That’s when you two can plan for a good future together. No. 10 – If the only time you have a need is when you call him. Read again, that could be the definition of a pest. LOL. He won’t propose. No. 11 – When all you do is talk about yourself and your family. The young man would have doubts about the future; if you’re going to allow him take care of his family as much as you care about yours. No. 12 – When he sees your level of education as a problem. Not a good one though but i’m sorry, he won’t propose. No. 13 – When you are so much into your job or career. No. 14 – When your ex-s becomes your handbag. You said he’s your ex and you still meet for dinner dates and whatnot, no matter how much he trusted you, don’t make him doubt you. Hence, you let go! It isn’t an issue of insecurity but an issue of doing what’s right. There is no reason for you seeing your ex. If it’s somewhat official, demand a replacement, find someone else to have on those dates and discussions; just not your ex. You both could be friends but not regular meetings or phone calls. Save your relationship some drama and watch him propose to you in no time No. 15 – When you are richer than him. Not every guy out there can live with this. It could be intimidating to have a woman in charge of the mega bucks. Some ladies can’t be trusted at that point and there’s a tendency of that man losing his prestige. Even with those cash in your account, you’d better be humble, hence, he won’t propose, expect if he has got the cash as his main target. No. 16 – When your mother influences your decisions. That’s a straight red flag and if care is not taken, your mum could tell you how many times in a week you’re gonna Be Intimate with your man when you’re married. There’s every need to build a mind of your own, you can seek advise from your mother but not you allowing her to make the decisions in your home. It could be dangerous! No. 17 – When he seem to be chasing you for too long. He won’t propose. No. 18 – When you are dirty. Yes, that’s the right word: dirty. He won’t propose. No. 19 – When you have so much of male friends and you talk too much of them around him. It’s just like a wife murmuring the name of a male celebrity in her sleep, right beside her husband. LOL. He won’t propose. No. 20 – When you are already living with him. Maybe in the next few years but he won’t propose as fast as you want it The Dangers of Cohabitation No. 21 – If you didn’t get pregnant to confirm your fertility. Crazy? But that’s the truth, some men are scared of ‘left-overs’, he might want to be sure if you’re still fertile for a child before he proposes.

BASIC INSTINCT OF A BITCH EPISODE 1 by Janet O'Dare

Movie Tittle: BASIC INSTINCT OF A BITCH Episode 1 Directed by : Janet O'dare Written by : Janet O'dare Produced by : Sir Rhema Hills Its a sunny day and am seated here sipping my drink, trying to figure out my next move. I've worked too long to get to this point and am not ready to back down now. No! Not at all! Steven just dumped me for a younger girl! Can you possible imagine? I still cant believe this. After all these years of "keeping" him for marriage, he finally gave me the bounce. Thats fine, thats just fine! i know you have questions but first, let me introduce myself. My name is Brenda Ajayi. My friends call me Alexis. I am just your regular girl next door. I am friendly, outgoing and loving. I live life to the fullest because life is too short. i have a couple of "business associates' and they call me Tokunbo Johnson. No, dont raise your eyebrow now. What can i say? Am a hustler! I have my own dreams and aspirations, a future to live up to so i have to do whatever it takes to get to the top. my prince charmings and boy lovers call me Shalewa Nelson but you can call me Sandra Lopez... I believe in a theory that states "Nobody cares how you make it, whats important is that you make it". so, i try to seize every opportunity to make some cool cash. I am 5feet 10" tall, very beautiful and attractive. i pay close attention to the way i look and i dont mind showing some skin from time to time, afterall, you have to see the goods before you can decide if you want to buy the goods or not. i am from a very humble background, a family of seven and i am the 4th from the womb. my parents are very hardworking and they try their best to cater for my needs but what they give me is never enough. so i have to use what i have to get what i need. i have a house of my own, my car and a couple of valuables (thanks to my business associates), i can say i live a comfortable life. when i meet a guy for the first time the next thing that pops up in my mind is .... "ee go fit pay"? dont judge me, am only trying to protect my investment. when you meet me for the first time you cant help but appreciate my beauty. i am very beautiful and i know it. i spend an hour and half pampering my face with makeup everyday because i just have to look perfect always. the way i dress depends on the occassion. sometimes i dress corporately when i have to and othertimes i dress to entice. okay! thats me. you want to know what happened betweeen me and steve? ill tell you. i met steve 4 years ago at a club. The attraction was instant and i loved everything about him.he was really sweet and i started having some "feelings" for him. Alright let me put this straight, in the dictionary of a "diva" (a female version of a hustler) the word LOVE doesnt exist! yeah, thats right no love,you feel something for a guy as long as he makes himself financially and in some cases, sexually relevant. once a guy looses any of these listed qualities then its straight to the dump bin......and that was my stand with steven. i liked him but i was in love with his pocket..... that guy can spend! i got everything i wanted with ease and i was able to make him fall in love with me Hahahahaha...... i gave him all the attention he wanted, woke up every morning to say i love you and all the romatic stuff you can imagine. thats what divas do, give them what you want and you'll get yours back. The truth is i was never faithful to steve, not for a minute, there was always a guy by the side (protecting my investment). why do i have to be faithful to one guy when there are so many others dying to have me? that would be very selfish of me. so with my beauty and charm, i have been able to find my way into the hearts of many men, wrecked a couple of homes, destroyed relationships and left a sea of tears too wide to cross. who cares? as long as my interest comes first then i really dont care who gets hurt. i have to go now by the way. there is this fine young man that just walked into the bar and my instinct tells me "ee go fit pay". dont want to miss my chance. lets do this again soon. i am still tokunbo johnson, have a wonderful day Watchout for episode 2...... Send in ur comments.

HENNYTHAN THE WHITE DIAMOND BY sir rhema hills

A very lonely and silent night Tryin to figure out wats next Meditating and pondering why evryone seems to make me their best But no one wants to make me hers..... Scared,dangers of hurt cos they call him hot Talkin,chattin,singin Just to wipe away the shadows of boredom that surrounds this misty barrack. Still thinking of what to do Then i decided to tell her my long time desire She denoted earlier than when i said i needed the best. Now i was shared with the best diamond,not really certain at first so i opt for a trial Found the true her, White,tall and truely the definition of natural. Shes white compassionate,sincere,loves peace and tease Focus and have d dream full of desires Though very new but broken with luv that i find very hard to mend and to heal But truth be spoken what can i do when she doesnt want to think of me and her together She doesnt want to feel the bond of a true condition called love Am not sure am really her type Cos shes loving,liking and very scared of hating me..... She couldnt wait for dis and now dis is it. My white Diamond. Sir Hills

THE LITTLE I KNOW by magai Danjuma

Slightly built,averagely tall,cant really call him dark skinned ( but just right) with an interesting face and likable charming personna......which i describes as infectous. Evrybody seem drawn to him. Indigenously from benue,raised in lagos and Jos schooled. That accounts for his vibrance, sense of style and amicable character. He can also be described as artistic as he's passionate about writing. He seems casual yet he attacks his work with such respect and seriously,his quite impressive. Following his passion for writing he is regularly featured on a writing blog where he voices out his ideas about relationships and other interested or appealing issues. Fiercing loyal to his friends as i have gathered from past love relationships. With a surprising affection for children. He just keeps springing surprises at evry turn. What more can i say,i guess time will unravel more about Sir Rhema Hills Obute.....in d mean time, i wait.Happy b.day. ..........magai Danjuma

THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER DO AFTER A BREAKUP by Sir Rhema Hills

Dealing with a breakup can be a very painful and confusing experience. A lot of emotions run through you and you are likely to take rash decisions if care is not taken. Here are a few things you must NOT do after a breakup: 1, Don’t Beg: For God’s sake, don’t beg! Begging after a breakup only makes matters worse. It makes you appear pathetic and it can be very irritating. Maybe you don’t understand why it ended. Maybe you think it ended for the wrong reasons. Maybe you’d just rather be in a bad relationship than be in no relationship at all. No matter what you do, don’t beg for him/her to return. Deep down, you know that you don’t want to be in a relationship with someone you had to beg to be with you. Besides, if your ex rejects you a second time, it won’t just hurt; the rejection will sting with extra humiliation and regret 2, Don’t Seek revenge: Don’t seek revenge. It serves no purpose and it will only make you feel worse about yourself. Don’t destroy his things, don’t speak evil of her. The thrill of revenge only feeds bitterness and hatred. You may have been deeply wronged, but “getting even” won’t heal any wounds. Forgive and move on. Carry your head high and spend your energy on people who deserve it. 3, Don’t Communicate: Don’t continue to communicate regularly with your ex. Breakups leave a void in your heart where your ex once occupied but constant calling and texting won’t fill that void. Every time you drop the phone without saying “I love you”, your heart will break all over again. Many people feel lost after a breakup; not because they miss their ex, but because so many of their daily habits once revolved around someone else. Give yourself some time to adapt to single life. 4, Don’t Visit Their Facebook: Social media can be a heartbroken person’s worst nightmare. Resist the urge to post anything about your breakup online, don’t insult your ex i twitter and don’t be a constant visitor to his/her Facebook page. Seeing pictures of your ex happy or with someone else can compound your problem and make your life more miserable than it probably already is. 5, Don’t Give up. Regardless of how the breakup made you feel, don’t let it destroy your hope. Continue taking care of yourself. Take some time to refocus and pursue the things you’ve always loved to do. Spend time with loved ones. You found love before and you will find it again. Learn what you can from the relationship that just ended and move forward. Don’t give up on meeting your perfect match. Be thankful that the wrong relationship ended to free you up for the right one.

BUILDING YOUR PERFECT RELATIONSHIP VOL.2 BY SIR RHEMA HILLS

BuILdiNg YOUR PERFECT RELATIONSHIP VOL.2 If u are fully convinced that u luv him Take a pen and list out all what u want in a relatnshp then go to him/her that u are ready 4 a relatnshp only if he/her tells u what they want in the relatnshp... Giv him/her time to list dia own out,then tally it wit urs,if its similar then u bot shud cum 2 an undstandin. Not an agreement becos relatnshp is all about undstndin. Now in sum cases men cn b pretenders,so b4 u go into a relatnshp pray abt it,bt dnt wait 4 God to tel u yes cos its ur responsibility to luk 4,nd its God's responsibility to bless the union... Now one vital tin to take note of is Neva u fall in luv,always b b concious that humans are subjectd to changes and b ready 4 any change. In the early stage of ur relatnshp always tel him what he did,that u dnt like; this would help build ur spouse to the exact persn u want him/her to be. Giv him luv bt dnt lay down ur heart 4 him,cos if u do,i cn assure u he will break it unkwnly. Your HEART is meant 4 God take o verything to please him,bt dnt go beyond ur limit to make them hapi jst 4 u to b sad at d end. The point is BE IN LOVE and nt FALL IN LOVE Now when u offend him dnt always try to make luv to him so he can 4giv u,think of a better way to make him hapi and smile wit u again and 4 the men,dnt make it a duty to slap ur spouse and in 20mins time cum bck kneelin wit chocolates in ur hands telin her u dnt knw what came over u. NOTE: The day ur spouse lays or attempt to,is d day u should quit the relatnshp,no mauer how lng u've bin 2gda as lng as u are nt married. Always luk gud at all time 4 ur spouse,dnt let him/her avoid u cos of d way u luk Neva u pretend in a relatnshp cos any relatnshp that starts wit pretence and lies would definately fall. Always appreciate him 4luvin u nd build-up a very gud communicatn scheme. Make him anticipate nd dream of ur visit,dnt stroll in nd out of his house everyday. Hmmm,finally SEX Yes sex....evry man wants sex thats the truth,bt nt evryman deserves sex Dnt abuse d pleasure of sex in ur relatnshp, make sex a very rear and unexpectd adventure. Dnt make it a regular routine,so dat at d end u wont b goin around like a town cryer sayin HE USED ME AND DUMPED ME Take a step today nd build ur perfect relatnshp. For further info.nd questions visit www.sirrhemahills.blogspot.com ,call 234-8037308249 or join d group My relationship nd u.

THE RHAPSODY OF THE TRUE U.......by Sir Rhema Hills.comin soon

13ways TO IMPRESS A GUY

HOW TO IMPRESS A GUY IN 13 WAYS...... How to impress a guy in 13 ways A great girl who’s desired by great guys is high maintenance, but she’s not cocky or arrogant. She’s pleasant to be with, but she never tries to impress any guy. Want to be that girl and impress a guy you like? Keep these 13 traits in mind, and you’ll be awed and desired by the guy you like. #1 Don’t be judgmental. But at the same time, don’t be a pushover. If you don’t like something, say it but don’t make a big deal about it. The guy you like may be passionate about a few things that you don’t appreciate, but that doesn’t mean you should insult him for it. Show an interest in what he has to say, share your truthful opinions about it but don’t get rude or judgmental. #2 Punish him when he’s cocky. Are you the girl who forgives a guy if he keeps her waiting for over half an hour before he turns up? Change that attitude. Don’t ever let a guy take you for granted or take it easy around you. At the start of a relationship, or when you just get to know the guy, it’s very important to ensure that he takes you seriously. Ignore him or walk away if he throws his weight around you, speak curtly to him when he gives more attention to someone else, and don’t think twice about scolding him if he mistreats you. If you do this right at the beginning of the relationship, he’ll respect you more. But at the same time, this should be used only when he takes you for granted. The rest of the time, be the sweetest girl in the world around him! #3 Smile and laugh a lot around him. Guys are mesmerized by a girl’s laughter. Laugh at his jokes if you find him funny, and give him all your attention when you’re with him. You don’t need to initiate too many conversations, just sit back and let him know that you’re enjoying his company. He’ll do the rest, and get impressed by you too. #4 Debate with him. And win it. Men are awed by a woman’s emotional intelligence. Never let any guy behave like he’s more intelligent than you. Be aware of what’s going on in your world, and talk about it with him. A dumb bimbette could seem attractive for a few hours, but she’ll be the b*tt of his jokes after that. When a guy thinks you’re unintelligent, he’ll think of you only as his arm candy, not as his partner for life. #5 Be naughty. A naughty side is a huge turn on to every guy. Sit really close to him and watch him feel awkward around you. Brush his body, but make it seem like an accident. Behave like a coy girl, but tempt him innocently. #6 Don’t give in too easily. Remember this if you want him to go crazy for you. Even if you like a guy a lot, don’t give in too easily and try to please him from the very beginning. When you try to please a guy too soon, he’ll start taking it easy because he’d know that he’s already won you over. And if he’s a regular guy, he’ll stop trying to woo you or impress you. Even though you like him already, don’t express your mushy thoughts to him for several weeks. Date him or spend hours talking to him, but make sure he’s completely in love with you before you tell him that you’re crazy about him. Understanding how to make a guy chase you the right way is very important if you want to have a serious relationship with the guy you like. #7 Tempt him with your appearance. Dress well and look good all the time when he’s around. You may assume that people who like you won’t judge you, but that’s not always the truth. If you were dating the guy and he dresses shabbily while going out with you, wouldn’t you feel a small twinge of disappointment when you’re walking down the street with him? Look your best, awe everyone around you, and the guy you like will feel lucky to have a conversation with you. #8 Smell great. Let your fragrance linger when you hug him goodbye or walk past him. Guys are suckers for good perfume, especially when the girl they’re interested in leaves behind a waft of perfume in the air. Try several perfumes and pick the ones that best suit your personality. Spray the perfume on your wrists, behind your ears and around your neck or just under the collarbone. And a spray in your hair will ensure that you leave your fragrance behind whenever you walk past a guy. Just remember not to rub your perfume with your hands through because that just kills the fragrance. #9 Be kind to everyone. Guys are instinctively drawn towards kinder girls who seem pleasant and approachable. Be warm when you speak to guys, even if you aren’t interested in dating them. Don’t insult a guy who tries to talk to you just because he’s not a great conversationalist. But at the same time, don’t put up with guys that treat you disrespectfully. #10 Be spontaneous and alive. Don’t be a bore who doesn’t like talking much. Even when you’re with friends, play an active part and be involved with them. Guys may love a shy girl, but no one appreciates someone who’s just a part of the furniture. Participate in activities, have fun, and even when you’re with the guy you like, don’t be too predictable. Cut him in the middle of the conversation, and ask him to accompany you somewhere because you feel like it. When you’re spontaneous and unpredictable, the guy would try harder to please you because he just can’t understand your likes and dislikes. #11 Show the guy the competition. Don’t ignore all other guys when one guy gives you the attention. When you let a guy know that you’re only interested in talking to him, he’ll assume he’s already won you over. Talk sweetly to other cute guys, flirt casually and have fun even if the guy you like is around. Remember, you’re not dating him yet, so let him see that he has a lot of competition to deal with if he wants to date exclusively with you. The more the competition, the more respectful he’ll be towards you and the harder he’ll try to woo you. #12 Don’t use him. Just because he’s sweet enough to offer his help doesn’t mean you need to use him all the time to run your errands. Ask his help so he feels like a chivalrous gentleman when he’s around you. But do it the right way. #13 Leave in a memorable manner. The best way to impress a guy is by leaving him with exciting and memorable memories of you. Flirt with the guy you like now and then without making it obvious that you’re outrageously flirting with him or trying to impress him. When you subtly flirt with him in a not-so-obvious manner, he can’t help but constantly remember you and wonder if you actually flirted with him or it was just his imagination. This stage where you impress a guy is not the same as the dating stage. When both of you are dating, it’s about helping each other understand the other person better. These 13 tips should be used to impress a guy you aren’t dating yet. But when you’re still trying to impress him or evaluating him as a dating potential, use these 13 tips on how to impress a guy. It’ll make him take you more seriously, fall harder for you, and respect you a lot more! LOVEPANKY