Sunday, 12 May 2013
13ways TO IMPRESS A GUY
HOW TO IMPRESS A GUY IN 13 WAYS......
How to impress a guy in 13 ways
A great girl who’s desired by great guys is high
maintenance, but she’s not cocky or arrogant. She’s
pleasant to be with, but she never tries to impress any
guy.
Want to be that girl and impress a guy you like? Keep
these 13 traits in mind, and you’ll be awed and desired
by the guy you like.
#1 Don’t be judgmental. But at the same time, don’t
be a pushover. If you don’t like something, say it but
don’t make a big deal about it. The guy you like may be
passionate about a few things that you don’t appreciate,
but that doesn’t mean you should insult him for it.
Show an interest in what he has to say, share your
truthful opinions about it but don’t get rude or
judgmental.
#2 Punish him when he’s cocky. Are you the girl who
forgives a guy if he keeps her waiting for over half an
hour before he turns up? Change that attitude. Don’t
ever let a guy take you for granted or take it easy
around you.
At the start of a relationship, or when you just get to
know the guy, it’s very important to ensure that he
takes you seriously. Ignore him or walk away if he
throws his weight around you, speak curtly to him when
he gives more attention to someone else, and don’t
think twice about scolding him if he mistreats you.
If you do this right at the beginning of the relationship,
he’ll respect you more. But at the same time, this
should be used only when he takes you for granted. The
rest of the time, be the sweetest girl in the world
around him!
#3 Smile and laugh a lot around him. Guys are
mesmerized by a girl’s laughter. Laugh at his jokes if you
find him funny, and give him all your attention when
you’re with him. You don’t need to initiate too many
conversations, just sit back and let him know that you’re
enjoying his company. He’ll do the rest, and get
impressed by you too.
#4 Debate with him. And win it. Men are awed by a
woman’s emotional intelligence. Never let any guy
behave like he’s more intelligent than you. Be aware of
what’s going on in your world, and talk about it with
him. A dumb bimbette could seem attractive for a few
hours, but she’ll be the b*tt of his jokes after that.
When a guy thinks you’re unintelligent, he’ll think of you
only as his arm candy, not as his partner for life.
#5 Be naughty. A naughty side is a huge turn on to
every guy. Sit really close to him and watch him feel
awkward around you. Brush his body, but make it seem
like an accident. Behave like a coy girl, but tempt him
innocently.
#6 Don’t give in too easily. Remember this if you want
him to go crazy for you. Even if you like a guy a lot,
don’t give in too easily and try to please him from the
very beginning. When you try to please a guy too soon,
he’ll start taking it easy because he’d know that he’s
already won you over. And if he’s a regular guy, he’ll
stop trying to woo you or impress you.
Even though you like him already, don’t express your
mushy thoughts to him for several weeks. Date him or
spend hours talking to him, but make sure he’s
completely in love with you before you tell him that
you’re crazy about him. Understanding how to make a
guy chase you the right way is very important if you
want to have a serious relationship with the guy you
like.
#7 Tempt him with your appearance. Dress well and
look good all the time when he’s around. You may
assume that people who like you won’t judge you, but
that’s not always the truth. If you were dating the guy
and he dresses shabbily while going out with you,
wouldn’t you feel a small twinge of disappointment
when you’re walking down the street with him?
Look your best, awe everyone around you, and the guy
you like will feel lucky to have a conversation with you.
#8 Smell great. Let your fragrance linger when you hug
him goodbye or walk past him. Guys are suckers for
good perfume, especially when the girl they’re
interested in leaves behind a waft of perfume in the air.
Try several perfumes and pick the ones that best suit
your personality.
Spray the perfume on your wrists, behind your ears and
around your neck or just under the collarbone. And a
spray in your hair will ensure that you leave your
fragrance behind whenever you walk past a guy. Just
remember not to rub your perfume with your hands
through because that just kills the fragrance.
#9 Be kind to everyone. Guys are instinctively drawn
towards kinder girls who seem pleasant and
approachable. Be warm when you speak to guys, even if
you aren’t interested in dating them. Don’t insult a guy
who tries to talk to you just because he’s not a great
conversationalist. But at the same time, don’t put up
with guys that treat you disrespectfully.
#10 Be spontaneous and alive. Don’t be a bore who
doesn’t like talking much. Even when you’re with
friends, play an active part and be involved with them.
Guys may love a shy girl, but no one appreciates
someone who’s just a part of the furniture.
Participate in activities, have fun, and even when you’re
with the guy you like, don’t be too predictable. Cut him
in the middle of the conversation, and ask him to
accompany you somewhere because you feel like it.
When you’re spontaneous and unpredictable, the guy
would try harder to please you because he just can’t
understand your likes and dislikes.
#11 Show the guy the competition. Don’t ignore all
other guys when one guy gives you the attention. When
you let a guy know that you’re only interested in talking
to him, he’ll assume he’s already won you over. Talk
sweetly to other cute guys, flirt casually and have fun
even if the guy you like is around.
Remember, you’re not dating him yet, so let him see
that he has a lot of competition to deal with if he wants
to date exclusively with you. The more the competition,
the more respectful he’ll be towards you and the harder
he’ll try to woo you.
#12 Don’t use him. Just because he’s sweet enough to
offer his help doesn’t mean you need to use him all the
time to run your errands. Ask his help so he feels like a
chivalrous gentleman when he’s around you. But do it
the right way.
#13 Leave in a memorable manner. The best way to
impress a guy is by leaving him with exciting and
memorable memories of you. Flirt with the guy you like
now and then without making it obvious that you’re
outrageously flirting with him or trying to impress him.
When you subtly flirt with him in a not-so-obvious
manner, he can’t help but constantly remember you
and wonder if you actually flirted with him or it was just
his imagination.
This stage where you impress a guy is not the same as
the dating stage. When both of you are dating, it’s
about helping each other understand the other person
better.
These 13 tips should be used to impress a guy you
aren’t dating yet.
But when you’re still trying to impress him or
evaluating him as a dating potential, use these 13
tips on how to impress a guy. It’ll make him take
you more seriously, fall harder for you, and respect
you a lot more!
LOVEPANKY
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
No comments:
Post a Comment