Have you ever known a girl you felt is the right woman for you? Everything seems perfect, except for one thing, she does not feel the same way you do and she wastes no time in telling it to you? well, I would be letting you know how to handle this kind of situation if you are in one or you ever find yourself in one in the future. You see, women have far more insecurities than men do and so they intelligently let their systems adapt to these insecurities by creating defense mechanisms to protect themselves from our world’s many insecurities. Having said this, it is quite possible that this woman you have feelings for could be playing a game, ‘testing’ on you in some way, building herself into some sort of challenge and making you fight for her, or she could honestly and candidly not share your feelings and is not the type that beats around the bush but maybe, still enjoys your friendship. However the case may be, the best decision you can make for yourself is to walk away. Huh? Did you hear me say “walk away”? No bro, you want me to send it to your email address? Of course, you should walk away. Say a huge ‘NO’ to her friendship proposal and move on with your life. She obviously likes you, for her to still want to be your friend and I bet the reason is ‘cuz she thinks you are a really ‘nice’ guy but you have to remind yourself that you are the man and as the man, you make the rules (at least I think so). Personally, I think being ‘friends’ with a woman you are attracted to does more harm than good, if it does any good at all. It puts her in control and trust me, women don’t like to be in control, I mean, they crave authority especially if it is over a man, but a woman can hardly stand a man she can control. More so, staying away gives her the opportunity to ‘miss you’. No, no, no, no, don’t get me wrong, I am not saying you should not follow your heart or whatever phrase you described being friend-zoned by the woman you have feelings for, I am just saying that you should look at your options, critically. Weigh them… Learn their benefits and consequences, then, my dear friend, you are good to go.' A wise man wrote in a book, ” Use your absence to increase respect and honor”. think about it. *wink*

SìNÇÉRÉ by Sir Rhema Hills

SINCERE... Waking up to a bright newday Wishing it was a twin I meant the birth of success and favour i've got to be real on this one Stand for who i really am. But really who am i? Am i who people think i am? How can i live eachday not knowing who i am or who i want to be Living all for myself was the best,but living for others could be failure Have i ever tried something new? Something genuine? Something i could call my own thing? Something i could mix with the new day i woke to see and end up calling it my natural me? Taking note of all your move just because you are being watched makes you an actor But staying true to who you really are makes you a better persön Pleasing folks can be very challenging and frustrating Why dont you try something new... Please yourself today;i mean live and stop acting your existence You are not who you are when someone have to spell what you will do tomorrow Dont struggle to blend but struggle to create your own blend Which is much more important, being popular or being urself? People never care what you would be tomorrow,they just want to know what you will be today... You are unique You are special You have your own special offer Show what you really have and not what people have to offer you This i call SìñÇerè.. All rights reserved under international copyright law.contents may not be reproduced in whole or in part without the express written permission of Adamnest Publishing

FREETALK: love nd reLatiOnship

FREETALK: love nd reLatiOnship: LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP by sir Hills By SirRhema Hills Oyi-obute Flower LOVE & RELATIONSHIP Love is a simple word but with a very complex ...

‘I’ve Left Chocolate City’ – Jesse Jagz

Trouble in the Chocolate City camp; top producer and one time front line artiste Jesse GarbaAbaga has announced he has parted ways with the popular record label. Jesee Jagz a few hours ago via his personal Facebook account shocked fans worldwide when hecategorically stated that he was taking a ‘voluntary exit from the label’. His statement below reads: ‘ I, Jesse Garba Abaga (also known as “Jesse Jagz”) an artist formerly signed to Chocolate CityMusic label hereby wishes to notify my fans and the general public about my voluntary exit from the label ‘, he shockingly announced. He then goes on to explain that his initial contractual agreement with the label had expired and he is not willing to move on with a new one. ‘ After my initial two year contractual agreement with Chocolate City, I do not wish to renew my contract with them and as such have proceeded to continue my music career with my new team at Jesse Jagz Nation. ‘ I still maintain a cordial relationship with the management of Chocolate City and my former label mates and Iwish them the best in all their future endeavors’, he explained. Jesse has also announced that hewill be releasing his long awaited second album under his own imprint JagzNation . ‘ Any further information will be passed acrossthrough my publicist but until then, have a good day. Look out for my sophomore album JagZNation Vol. 1 coming out in July 2013 . Jesse’s manager could not be reached for comments as his mobile phone was switched off. He did not respond to text messages also. Top executive at the label Audu Maikori and another rep for the label Aibee Abidoye could also not be reached as they didn’t reply theirE-mails as at the time of this report. Jesse Jagz, 28, signed unto to the label along with his elder brotherJude ‘M.I’ Abaga in 2008 after the latter became an instant success with his debut ‘ Talk About It ‘. Jesse Jagz in late 2009 went on torelease his debut ‘Jagz of All Trades’ which spuned the hit songs ‘Wetin dey’ amongst other chart topping songs. Story developing.

love nd reLatiOnship

LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP by sir Hills By SirRhema Hills Oyi-obute Flower LOVE & RELATIONSHIP Love is a simple word but with a very complex and sometimes confusing meaning. Love is beyond caring,kindness,sharing....strange but true love is harsh,love is chastising,love is stuborn,love is misunderstanding. It is only the person you love that you have misunderstanding with,you chastise,someone you dont love is that person that you dont have any reason to quarel with most times. Relationship can go in any two ways: 1. It can be based on love 2. It can be based on attached strings Most persons are in a relationship but not all are in love.some are even confused on whether or not they are in love. How can you know if your relationship is based on love? Ans: if you and your partner can sit together for 2hrs and have a decent and positive conversation without any intimacy. I understand that somepeople are not the talking type but can you listen to your partner for 2hrs? In summary,a true relationship that is built on love is one that seeks the future,not one that is just after the present. All rights reserved under international copyright law.contents may not be reproduced in whole or in part without the express written permission of Adamnest Publishing

the #VèxING SùÑ by sir Hills

D' VEXING SùN Standing in the middle of my shadow With raindrops falling from above All i feel is heat from the sun A beam of light then a storm Oh! My God... That was strikening,yes that was lightening. Now in a confused state Where do i go from here When within my roof am all soaked.... I wish i was cold What a dying wind,like sir m' would say. Well,i think the wind is just dead Now looking up to the choking cloud Just as the sergent burns the bushes Whose gona save our cloud How long will she continue to weep Now the sun is angry Staring at me Even when i tried explaining He doesn't wanna listen, What a harsh weather i complained Now i suffer the sin of the sergent That was burning the bushes even in the middle of the rain Please stop this shit, Stop the global warming The sun is vexing We are getting closer to hell The earth is all we've got.... I pray the cloud is not sick,cos the wind is already dead,the sun is too cold to bear the heat from the crying cloud. All rights reserved under international copyright law.contents may not be reproduced in whole or in part without the express written permission of Adamnest Publishing