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13ways TO IMPRESS A GUY

HOW TO IMPRESS A GUY IN 13 WAYS...... How to impress a guy in 13 ways A great girl who’s desired by great guys is high maintenance, but she’s not cocky or arrogant. She’s pleasant to be with, but she never tries to impress any guy. Want to be that girl and impress a guy you like? Keep these 13 traits in mind, and you’ll be awed and desired by the guy you like. #1 Don’t be judgmental. But at the same time, don’t be a pushover. If you don’t like something, say it but don’t make a big deal about it. The guy you like may be passionate about a few things that you don’t appreciate, but that doesn’t mean you should insult him for it. Show an interest in what he has to say, share your truthful opinions about it but don’t get rude or judgmental. #2 Punish him when he’s cocky. Are you the girl who forgives a guy if he keeps her waiting for over half an hour before he turns up? Change that attitude. Don’t ever let a guy take you for granted or take it easy around you. At the start of a relationship, or when you just get to know the guy, it’s very important to ensure that he takes you seriously. Ignore him or walk away if he throws his weight around you, speak curtly to him when he gives more attention to someone else, and don’t think twice about scolding him if he mistreats you. If you do this right at the beginning of the relationship, he’ll respect you more. But at the same time, this should be used only when he takes you for granted. The rest of the time, be the sweetest girl in the world around him! #3 Smile and laugh a lot around him. Guys are mesmerized by a girl’s laughter. Laugh at his jokes if you find him funny, and give him all your attention when you’re with him. You don’t need to initiate too many conversations, just sit back and let him know that you’re enjoying his company. He’ll do the rest, and get impressed by you too. #4 Debate with him. And win it. Men are awed by a woman’s emotional intelligence. Never let any guy behave like he’s more intelligent than you. Be aware of what’s going on in your world, and talk about it with him. A dumb bimbette could seem attractive for a few hours, but she’ll be the b*tt of his jokes after that. When a guy thinks you’re unintelligent, he’ll think of you only as his arm candy, not as his partner for life. #5 Be naughty. A naughty side is a huge turn on to every guy. Sit really close to him and watch him feel awkward around you. Brush his body, but make it seem like an accident. Behave like a coy girl, but tempt him innocently. #6 Don’t give in too easily. Remember this if you want him to go crazy for you. Even if you like a guy a lot, don’t give in too easily and try to please him from the very beginning. When you try to please a guy too soon, he’ll start taking it easy because he’d know that he’s already won you over. And if he’s a regular guy, he’ll stop trying to woo you or impress you. Even though you like him already, don’t express your mushy thoughts to him for several weeks. Date him or spend hours talking to him, but make sure he’s completely in love with you before you tell him that you’re crazy about him. Understanding how to make a guy chase you the right way is very important if you want to have a serious relationship with the guy you like. #7 Tempt him with your appearance. Dress well and look good all the time when he’s around. You may assume that people who like you won’t judge you, but that’s not always the truth. If you were dating the guy and he dresses shabbily while going out with you, wouldn’t you feel a small twinge of disappointment when you’re walking down the street with him? Look your best, awe everyone around you, and the guy you like will feel lucky to have a conversation with you. #8 Smell great. Let your fragrance linger when you hug him goodbye or walk past him. Guys are suckers for good perfume, especially when the girl they’re interested in leaves behind a waft of perfume in the air. Try several perfumes and pick the ones that best suit your personality. Spray the perfume on your wrists, behind your ears and around your neck or just under the collarbone. And a spray in your hair will ensure that you leave your fragrance behind whenever you walk past a guy. Just remember not to rub your perfume with your hands through because that just kills the fragrance. #9 Be kind to everyone. Guys are instinctively drawn towards kinder girls who seem pleasant and approachable. Be warm when you speak to guys, even if you aren’t interested in dating them. Don’t insult a guy who tries to talk to you just because he’s not a great conversationalist. But at the same time, don’t put up with guys that treat you disrespectfully. #10 Be spontaneous and alive. Don’t be a bore who doesn’t like talking much. Even when you’re with friends, play an active part and be involved with them. Guys may love a shy girl, but no one appreciates someone who’s just a part of the furniture. Participate in activities, have fun, and even when you’re with the guy you like, don’t be too predictable. Cut him in the middle of the conversation, and ask him to accompany you somewhere because you feel like it. When you’re spontaneous and unpredictable, the guy would try harder to please you because he just can’t understand your likes and dislikes. #11 Show the guy the competition. Don’t ignore all other guys when one guy gives you the attention. When you let a guy know that you’re only interested in talking to him, he’ll assume he’s already won you over. Talk sweetly to other cute guys, flirt casually and have fun even if the guy you like is around. Remember, you’re not dating him yet, so let him see that he has a lot of competition to deal with if he wants to date exclusively with you. The more the competition, the more respectful he’ll be towards you and the harder he’ll try to woo you. #12 Don’t use him. Just because he’s sweet enough to offer his help doesn’t mean you need to use him all the time to run your errands. Ask his help so he feels like a chivalrous gentleman when he’s around you. But do it the right way. #13 Leave in a memorable manner. The best way to impress a guy is by leaving him with exciting and memorable memories of you. Flirt with the guy you like now and then without making it obvious that you’re outrageously flirting with him or trying to impress him. When you subtly flirt with him in a not-so-obvious manner, he can’t help but constantly remember you and wonder if you actually flirted with him or it was just his imagination. This stage where you impress a guy is not the same as the dating stage. When both of you are dating, it’s about helping each other understand the other person better. These 13 tips should be used to impress a guy you aren’t dating yet. But when you’re still trying to impress him or evaluating him as a dating potential, use these 13 tips on how to impress a guy. It’ll make him take you more seriously, fall harder for you, and respect you a lot more! LOVEPANKY

REASONS WHY U SHOULD QUIT THAT RELATIONSHIP NOW

REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD END DAT COMPLICATED RELATIONSHIP There is a thin line between staying in a relationship to work things out and being stupid. Here are some reasons to opt out… 1. No Privacy Your partner monitors messages and e-mails, whenever you receive phone calls (s)he is always trying to know who you were talking to. You literally k to lock yourself up in the toilet to pick up calls. End that relationship!!! Before you know it (s)he will ask you to put your phone on speaker and starts deleting messages and e-mails (s)he feels are not important. Find someone who is loving and caring not a control freak. 2. Interference With Other Relationships When your partner hangs out with their friends it is ok, but when you decide to hang out your friends it becomes a big deal. (S)he throws tantrums like a child and blackmails you emotionally. When you wave aside the blackmails and hang out with your friends, when you come back, there is some sort of “punishment” for leaving him/her alone. End that relationship!!! It starts that way and before you know it (s)he wants you to place them before your family. Find someone who enjoys being with most of the people you care about. If not, your relationship will be full of frustration. 3. Your Personal Life Is No Longer Personal You are out with your friends and your partner suddenly blurts out ” (s)he cries when (s)he has an climax” and when you try to call him/her on it he/she simply tells you it was just to make the conversation amusing and you are too sensitive. Whether you’re humiliated or not, as long as he/she thinks your personal life would make conversations amusing, end that relationship!! Find someone who wants you to be happy and confident about yourself and your life. 4. Cannot Let Go Of The Past We have all experienced disappointment in life, but we try as much as possible to get over it and move on with our lives. Even in relationships we have to let go of those who have huri our partner keeps on talking about his/her ex, takes you to places the ex took him/her to, hoping to run into the ex, or (s)he sometimes calls you the ex’s name, end that relationship!!!! You do not want to be with someone who is thinking of someone else half the time (s)he is with you. Find someone who is ready to have a relationship with you rather than someone trying to use to get to his/her ex. 5. Abuse No one deserves to be abused. Whether it is physical,mental or emotional, (s)he has no reason to subject you to that. When in love it is very easy to justify and explain your partner’s behaviour but you deserve better treatment from him/her if (s)he wants to be with you. End that relationship. Find someone who knows your worth and respects you. You are probably nodding your head as you are going through one or more of the above. If so, maybe it is time for you to make a change. I would never try to break a relationship, but if this post has made you take a long look at your relationship, then were you really happy to begin with??

REAL TRUTH FROM SIR RHEMA

WORTH READING Ladies! your sexual organ is not a weapon..its a gem..worth waiting for and not to be handled by clumsy hands.. DON"T Turn Your sexual organ into a Public Toilet, a Place where men go to relieve themselves. Nobody likes to spend much time in a public toilet..they are just in and out! You are better than that, worth MORE than that...you're not a Toilet. You're the temple of God. Your womb was created to birth Kings and queens and heads of states, not fatherless children...and little hearts that are not covered by caring hands. Please don't allow 7mins of pleasure to cost your children years of confusion..

WHAT YOU'VE GOT TO OPEN UP ABOUT IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

WHAT YOUV'VE GOT TO OPEN UP ABOUT IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP We know that talking about your feelings can be uncomfortable. But in order to keep your girl happy, you’re going to have to do a bit of soul baring. Don’t panic: A little goes a long way. Simply weave one of these topics into conversation and you’ll have covered your communication quota. YOUR CHILDHOOD: Remember when your dad taught you how to ride a bike? Sure, it may be a silly, sentimental story to you, but girls eat that stuff up. Women tend to be analytical about their own childhood, so if you give your girlfriend a glimpse into your upbringing, she gets a fuller idea of who you are. Sharing something as simple as your obsession with a new TV show will be enough to quench her curiosity. YOUR WORK: Unless you’re on a top-secret mission, you’re probably cool about discussing your job. So tell her when you’ve had a good day and why, what some of your frustrations are, and where you’d like to end up career-wise. ‘Men often define themselves by what they do for a living, and by talking about it, you’re showing her a side of your personality that she may not normally get to see,’ says Dr James Sniechowski. WHY YOU’RE INTO HER: You may have already told her that she’s cute or she rocks your world in bed, but your girlfriend wants sweet specifics. ‘She needs to feel that you value her and see her for who she really is,’ says Olson. ‘To reinforce that, compliment her on the less obvious things she does that appeal to you so much.’ No, that doesn’t mean you have to recite a laundry list of love-you stuff. Just focus in on key qualities like the way she laughs or how well she treats her friends. THE FUTURE: You may not have a five-year plan, but chances are, you’ve thought about where you’d like to be down the road. Do you want to start your own business? Have a getaway cabin in the mountains? If you’ve given it any thought at all – and you’re far enough along in your relationship that it would be cool to discuss it – she’s going to want to hear about it. ‘When you share your long-term goals and dreams, she not only sees what kind of man you are when you strip away your typical day-to-day exterior, but she also gets a clue as to how compatible you’ll be long-term,’ says Sniechowski. Source: Cosmopolitan

HOW TO BUILD TRUST IN UR RELATIONSHIP

This is one article one shouldn’t miss as it speaks volume in helping couples in understanding how to build a better relationship, Please do enjoy it. In any kind of relationship that you built, whether it’s work, friendship or love, trust is one of the key factors to making it work. Did you know that one of the most common reasons given for a romantic breakup or divorce is a loss of trust? If you can’t trust someone, you can’t love them. Love and trust are inseparable from each other. If you want to build a more trusting relationship with your partner, these five tips will get you on your way! 1. Tell the Truth Telling the truth can be a hard thing to do sometimes, but no matter how hard it might be, it’s the right thing to do. Even if it’s difficult, it’s not as bad as it will be if you lie and get caught. One lie can create a loss of trust that is impossible to recover. A little “white lie” can turn a small thing into a major issue. And once your partner has lost his faith in your word, he’ll be suspicious of everything you say. 2. Communicate The best path to a trusting relationship is through open and honest communication. It’s only through the time you spend talking together that you can really learn what’s going on inside of each other; and the more you know someone, the more you trust them. 3. Keep Your Promises While unforeseen circumstances can sometimes put a damper in our best laid plans, in general if you make a promise, you best be darned sure that you can keep it. If you aren’t sure, don’t make a promise, it’s that simple. It’s much better to show up with a surprise than to make a promise you can’t keep. 4. Don’t Be Afraid to Say “I was Wrong” We all make mistakes, there’s no shame to be had in it. But when it does happen, you need to own up to it and take responsibility for it. For instance, if you’ve been less than honest about something, you need to admit it to your partner and apologize – and hope that he’ll be able to forgive and continue trusting you. Coming clean is better than creating lie after lie to hide your mistake. And of course, don’t make a habit of making the same mistake. 5. Have Faith In Yourself And In Your Partner If you want your relationship to be strong, you need to know that you’ve made the right decision, and that you’re with the right person. If you aren’t sure, you won’t have the right foundation for building a strong relationship. However, when you have faith in your partner, he will have faith in you. MARIE SANCHEZ