Friday, 3 May 2013
HOW TO BUILD TRUST IN UR RELATIONSHIP
This is one article one shouldn’t miss as it speaks
volume in helping couples in understanding how to build
a better relationship, Please do enjoy it.
In any kind of relationship that you built, whether it’s
work, friendship or love, trust is one of the key factors
to making it work.
Did you know that one of the most common reasons
given for a romantic breakup or divorce is a loss of
trust? If you can’t trust someone, you can’t love them.
Love and trust are inseparable from each other.
If you want to build a more trusting relationship with
your partner, these five tips will get you on your way!
1. Tell the Truth
Telling the truth can be a hard thing to do sometimes,
but no matter how hard it might be, it’s the right thing
to do.
Even if it’s difficult, it’s not as bad as it will be if you lie
and get caught. One lie can create a loss of trust that is
impossible to recover. A little “white lie” can turn a
small thing into a major issue. And once your partner
has lost his faith in your word, he’ll be suspicious of
everything you say.
2. Communicate
The best path to a trusting relationship is through open
and honest communication.
It’s only through the time you spend talking together
that you can really learn what’s going on inside of each
other; and the more you know someone, the more you
trust them.
3. Keep Your Promises
While unforeseen circumstances can sometimes put a
damper in our best laid plans, in general if you make a
promise, you best be darned sure that you can keep it.
If you aren’t sure, don’t make a promise, it’s that
simple. It’s much better to show up with a surprise than
to make a promise you can’t keep.
4. Don’t Be Afraid to Say “I was Wrong”
We all make mistakes, there’s no shame to be had in it.
But when it does happen, you need to own up to it and
take responsibility for it.
For instance, if you’ve been less than honest about
something, you need to admit it to your partner and
apologize – and hope that he’ll be able to forgive and
continue trusting you.
Coming clean is better than creating lie after lie to hide
your mistake. And of course, don’t make a habit of
making the same mistake.
5. Have Faith In Yourself And In Your Partner
If you want your relationship to be strong, you need to
know that you’ve made the right decision, and that
you’re with the right person.
If you aren’t sure, you won’t have the right foundation
for building a strong relationship. However, when you
have faith in your partner, he will have faith in you.
MARIE SANCHEZ
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